Favorite Way to Decompress
Learn to talk about how you relax and recharge after a long day β naturally and specifically, in Korean.
Iru Helper Note
When Koreans ask how you relax, they're really asking what μ·¨λ―Έ (hobby) or λ£¨ν΄ (routine) makes you feel yourself again. The most natural opener is: μ λ μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λ [activity]μ/μ΄μ (When I'm stressed, I [do X]). Add ~λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ (if I do ~, my mood clears up) for a very natural, specific answer.
μ λ νλ λ μλ μ°μ±
νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ.
(On a hard day, I find that taking a walk is the best. When you walk, your thoughts get sorted out, you see.)
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πΏ What You'll Learn Today
Today you'll learn how to describe your favorite way to relax and recharge in Korean. You'll use ~λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ (if I do ~, my mood clears up), ~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ (if I keep doing ~, then...), and ~λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ (I find that doing ~ is the best). These let you answer the very common Korean question μ€νΈλ μ€ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ? (How do you relieve stress?) with a natural, personal, and interesting response.
π Decompressing Vocabulary
Expression | Meaning | Notes |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νλ€ | To relieve stress | μ€νΈλ μ€ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ? |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ¦¬λ€ | One's mood clears up | ~λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ |
μ¬μΆ©μ νλ€ | To recharge | μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν΄μ |
νλ§μ΄ λλ€ | To be healing / restorative | νλ§μ΄ λΌμ |
μ°μ±
νλ€ | To take a walk | μ°μ±
νλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ |
μμ
μ λ£λ€ | To listen to music | μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ |
νΌμλ§μ μκ° | Alone time | νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νμν΄μ |
λ·νλ¦μ€ λ³΄λ€ | To watch Netflix | λλΌλ§ λͺ°μ보λ νΈμ΄μμ |
λͺ©μνλ€ / λ°μ μνλ€ | To take a bath / half-bath | Very popular in Korea |
μ무κ²λ μ νλ€ | To do nothing | μ무κ²λ μ νκ³ μΆμ΄μ |
~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ | If you keep doing ~, then... | Gradual discovery |
~λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ | I found that ~ is the best | Personal discovery ending |
κΈ°λΆ μ ν | Change of mood / switching it up | κΈ°λΆ μ νμ΄ λΌμ |
μκ°μ΄ μ 리λλ€ | Thoughts get sorted out | μκ°μ΄ μ 리λΌμ |
π‘ Key pattern: μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λ [activity]μ/μ΄μ. κ·Έλ¬λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ ν리거λ μ. = "When I'm stressed, I [do X]. If I do that, my mood clears up, you see." This two-part structure β activity + result with ~κ±°λ μ β is the most natural personal answer.
π¬ Conversations in Action
Conversation 1 β Talking about stress relief
A: μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μΌλ©΄ μ΄λ»κ² ν΄μ? (What do you do when you're stressed?)
B: μ λ νΌμ μ°μ±
νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ. (I found that walking alone is the best for me. When you keep walking, your thoughts get sorted out, you see.)
A: μ€, μ’μ λ°©λ²μ΄λ€μ. (Oh, that's a good method.)
B: λ§μμ. 곡기λ μ’κ³ κΈ°λΆ μ νλ λκ³ μ. κΌ ν΄λ³΄μΈμ. (Right. The air is good and it changes your mood too. You should definitely try it.)
Conversation 2 β Different styles of relaxing
A: μ¬λ λ μ λ³΄ν΅ λ ν΄μ? (What do you usually do on your days off?)
B: μ λ μ무κ²λ μ νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’μμ. μ§μμ κ·Έλ₯ λλΌλ§ 보거λ μμ
λ€μ΄μ. (I like doing nothing the best. I just watch dramas at home or listen to music.)
A: μ λ λ°λμμ. μ§μ μμΌλ©΄ λ μ§μΉκ±°λ μ. λκ°μ λκ° ν΄μΌ μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ λΌμ. (I'm the opposite. If I stay home, I get more tired, you see. I need to go out and do something to recharge.)
B: μ¬λλ§λ€ λ€λ₯΄μ£ . μ λ νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ. (Everyone's different, right. For me, alone time is healing.)
π Cultural Note β How Koreans Decompress
Korea has a strong culture of stress relief tied to specific rituals: λ°μ μ (half-body bath), νκ° κ°κΈ° (going to the Han River), μΉλ§₯ (chicken and beer), λ
Έλλ°© κ°κΈ° (going to karaoke). These are all deeply social AND personal options. Koreans often describe their ideal rest as νΌμ μλ μκ° (alone time) OR μΉκ΅¬λ€μ΄λ λ
Έλ κ² (spending time with friends) β knowing which one you need is itself a mark of self-awareness that Koreans respect.
<summary>Try This Speaking Exercise
Answer each question about how you decompress in Korean.
A. What do you do when you're stressed?
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μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λλ μ°μ±
νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ ν리거λ μ. (When I'm stressed, I find that taking a walk is the best. When you keep walking, your mood clears up, you see.)
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B. Do you prefer relaxing alone or with people?
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μ λ νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ λ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ. μ¬λμ λ§λλ©΄ μ€νλ € λ νΌκ³€ν΄μ§κ±°λ μ. (For me, alone time is more healing. If I meet people, I actually get more tired, you see.)
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C. What's your favorite thing to do on a day off?
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μ¬λ λ μλ μ무κ²λ μ νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’μμ. μ§μμ μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄μ κ·Έλ₯ μ¬μ΄μ. (On a day off, doing nothing is the best. I just rest at home while listening to music.)
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D. Describe how music helps you relax.
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μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ. μ’μνλ λ
Έλ λ£λ€ 보면 μ€νΈλ μ€κ° μ¬λΌμ§κ±°λ μ. (When I listen to music, my mood clears up. When you keep listening to your favorite songs, the stress disappears, you see.)
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E. Say you need to be recharged and explain how.
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μμ¦ μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν κ² κ°μμ. μ λ μμ° μμμ μ°μ±
νλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ§λλΌκ³ μ. (I think I need to recharge lately. I found that walking in nature makes me feel better.)
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F. Compare your relaxation style to someone else's.
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μ λ νΌμ μλ κ² νλ§μ΄ λλ νΈμΈλ°, μ μΉκ΅¬λ λ°λμμ. μ¬λμ λ§λμΌ μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ λλμ. (I tend to find being alone healing, but my friend is the opposite. They say they need to meet people to recharge.)
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G. Recommend your favorite decompression method to a Korean friend.
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μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μΌλ©΄ νλ² μ°μ±
ν΄λ΄μ. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ. κΌ ν΄λ³΄μΈμ. (If you're stressed, try taking a walk. When you keep walking, your thoughts get sorted out. You should definitely try it.)
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H. Say you like doing nothing when you're exhausted.
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λ무 νΌκ³€ν λλ μ무κ²λ μ νλ κ² μ μΌμ΄μμ. κ·Έλ₯ λμμ μ¬λ κ² νλ§μ΄ λΌμ. (When I'm very tired, doing nothing is the best. Just lying down and resting is healing.)
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I. Ask a Korean friend how they relieve stress.
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μ€νΈλ μ€ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ? λ³ΈμΈλ§μ λ°©λ²μ΄ μμ΄μ? (How do you relieve stress? Do you have your own method?)
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J. Describe in one sentence how you feel after your favorite relaxation.
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μ°μ±
νκ³ λλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μμ λ¬λΌμ Έμ. 머리λ λ§μμ§κ³ κΈ°λΆλ μ’μμ§κ±°λ μ. (After a walk, my mood completely changes. My head clears and my mood gets better, you see.)
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Expression Reference
Expression | Nuance/Key |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νλ€ | Relieve stress |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ¦¬λ€ | Mood clears up |
νλ§μ΄ λλ€ | Is healing/restorative |
μ¬μΆ©μ νλ€ | Recharge |
~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ | Keep doing β result |
~λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ | Found this is the best |
μκ°μ΄ μ 리λλ€ | Thoughts sort out |
νΌμλ§μ μκ° | Alone time |
κΈ°λΆ μ ν | Mood switch |
μ무κ²λ μ νλ€ | Do nothing |
Speaking Tip
The most impressive stress relief answer in Korean: μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λλ [activity]μ/μ΄μ. [activity]λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ [result]κ±°λ μ. Example: μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λλ μ°μ±
ν΄μ. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ. Two sentences, completely natural. The ~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ + ~κ±°λ μ combination is what sounds like a real Korean speaker.
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Want more reps?
Write your personal decompression formula: μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λλ [activity]μ/μ΄μ. [activity]λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ [result]κ±°λ μ. Practice with four different activities β μ°μ±
, μμ
, λλΌλ§, λͺ©μ β and say each out loud three times until it flows naturally.
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π¦ Practice Hub β Decompressing
Exercise 1 β Choose the Right Expression
Pick the most natural Korean expression for each situation.
A. You want to say "my mood cleared up." Which fits?
(1) κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ Έμ΄μ (2) κΈ°λΆμ΄ λκ²Όμ΄μ (3) κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ‘νμ΄μ (4) κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ΄λ Έμ΄μ
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(1) κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ Έμ΄μ β νλ¦¬λ€ means to come undone/clear up. The others are unnatural here.
B. You need to say "When I keep walking, my thoughts get sorted out."
(1) κ±ΈμΌλ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ겨μ (2) κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λΌμ (3) κ±Έμ΄μΌ μκ°μ΄ μμ΄μ (4) κ±·λλ° μκ°μ΄ λ§μμ
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(2) κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λΌμ β λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ = gradual discovery through continued action.
C. You want to say "I need to recharge."
(1) μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν΄μ (2) μΆ©μ κΈ°κ° νμν΄μ (3) μλμ§κ° μμ΄μ (4) νμ΄ νμν΄μ
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(1) μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν΄μ β this is the idiomatic expression for needing to recharge oneself.
D. You want to say "alone time is healing for me."
(1) νΌμ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ (2) νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ (3) λλ§μ μκ°μ νλ§μ΄μμ (4) λ νΌμ νλ§ν΄μ
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(2) νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ β νΌμλ§μ μκ° is the set phrase for "alone time."
E. Someone asks μ€νΈλ μ€ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ? What does this mean?
(1) Do you feel stressed? (2) How do you relieve stress? (3) Are you stressed now? (4) When are you stressed?
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(2) How do you relieve stress? β νλ€ here means to relieve/undo.
F. You want to say "It's a mood switch."
(1) κΈ°λΆ μ νμ΄ λΌμ (2) κΈ°λΆμ΄ λ°λλ€ (3) κ°μ λ³νμμ (4) κΈ°λΆμ λ°κΏμ
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(1) κΈ°λΆ μ νμ΄ λΌμ β κΈ°λΆ μ ν is the set phrase. It "becomes" a mood switch.
G. You want to say "I found that listening to music is the best."
(1) μμ
λ£λ κ² μ μΌμΈ κ² κ°μμ (2) μμ
λ£λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ (3) μμ
μ΄ μ’μμ (4) μμ
μ΄ μ μΌ μ’μ λ°©λ²μ΄μμ
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(2) μμ
λ£λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ β ~λλΌκ³ μ expresses personal discovery. Most natural here.
H. You want to say "I want to do nothing."
(1) μ무κ²λ μ νκ³ μΆμ΄μ (2) λκ° μ νκ³ μΆμ΄μ (3) μ ν νκ³ μΆμ§ μμμ (4) μ무거λ μ ν΄μ
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(1) μ무κ²λ μ νκ³ μΆμ΄μ β μ무κ²λ + negation = "not do anything."
I. Which best expresses "relaxing is restorative for me"?
(1) μ¬λ κ² νλ§μ΄ λΌμ (2) μ¬λ κ² μ’μμ (3) μ¬λ©΄ λΌμ (4) μ¬κ³ μΆμ΄μ
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(1) μ¬λ κ² νλ§μ΄ λΌμ β νλ§μ΄ λλ€ = to be healing/restorative.
J. You want to say "When you keep going for walks, you'll feel better."
(1) μ°μ±
νλ©΄ μ’μμ (2) μ°μ±
λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ Έμ (3) μ°μ±
νλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ Έμ (4) μ°μ±
μ ν΄μΌ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ
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(3) μ°μ±
νλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ Έμ β νλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ = keep doing β gradual result.
Quick Reference
Expression | Meaning |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νλ€ | Relieve stress |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ¦¬λ€ | Mood clears up |
μ¬μΆ©μ νλ€ | Recharge |
νλ§μ΄ λλ€ | Be healing |
~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ | Keep doing β result |
~λλΌκ³ μ | Personal discovery |
κΈ°λΆ μ ν | Mood switch |
νΌμλ§μ μκ° | Alone time |
μκ°μ΄ μ 리λλ€ | Thoughts sort out |
μ무κ²λ μ νλ€ | Do nothing |
Pitfall
Don't say μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νμ΄μ when you mean "I relieve stress by doing X." You need to add HOW: μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄μ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νμ΄μ (I relieve stress by listening to music). The how-phrase is essential for a complete, natural answer.
Exercise 2 β Korean β English Translation
Translate each sentence naturally into English.
A. μ λ μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λ μ°μ±
νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ.
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I found that taking a walk is the best when I'm stressed.
B. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ.
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When you keep walking, your thoughts get sorted out, you see.
C. νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ.
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Alone time is healing for me. / Alone time is restorative.
D. μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν κ² κ°μμ.
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I think I need to recharge.
E. μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ.
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When I listen to music, my mood clears up.
F. μ¬λ λ μλ μ무κ²λ μ νλ κ² μ μΌμ΄μμ.
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On my days off, doing nothing is the best.
G. μ¬λλ§λ€ λ€λ₯΄μ£ . μ λ λκ°μΌ κΈ°λΆ μ νμ΄ λΌμ.
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Everyone's different, right. For me, I need to go out to switch up my mood.
H. μ§μ μμΌλ©΄ μ€νλ € λ μ§μ³μ.
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If I stay home, I actually get more tired.
I. λ°μ μνλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ νΌλ‘κ° νλ €μ.
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When you keep doing a half-body bath, your fatigue clears up.
J. μ°μ±
νκ³ λλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μμ λ¬λΌμ Έμ.
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After a walk, my mood completely changes.
Vocabulary Cheat Sheet
Word | Meaning |
μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λ | When stressed |
μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ | Found it's the best |
μκ°μ΄ μ 리λλ€ | Thoughts sort out |
κ±°λ μ | You see (reason) |
νλ§μ΄ λλ€ | Be healing |
μ¬μΆ©μ | Recharge |
κΈ°λΆ μ ν | Mood switch |
μ€νλ € | Actually/on the contrary |
νΌλ‘κ° νλ¦¬λ€ | Fatigue clears up |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ λ¬λΌμ§λ€ | Mood changes |
Grammar Tip
~κ³ λλ©΄ (after doing ~) vs. ~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ (keep doing β result): μ°μ±
νκ³ λλ©΄ = after a walk / μ°μ±
νλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ = while/as you keep walking. Both are useful for describing how relaxation affects you, but at different points in the activity.
Exercise 3 β Complete the Sentence
Fill in the blank with the correct word or ending.
A. μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λλ μ°μ±
νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’___κ³ μ. (personal discovery ending)
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μ’λλΌκ³ μ β ~λλΌκ³ μ expresses something you personally discovered.
B. κ±·___ 보면 μκ°μ΄ μ 리λΌμ. (keep doing structure)
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κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ β verb stem + λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ = if you keep doing ~.
C. νΌμλ§μ ___μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ. (alone time)
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μκ° β νΌμλ§μ μκ° = alone time.
D. μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ _μ. (mood clears up)
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νλ € β κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ¦¬λ€ β νλ €μ in the present tense.
E. μμ¦ μ¬___μ΄ νμν κ² κ°μμ. (recharging)
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μΆ©μ β μ¬μΆ©μ = recharging.
F. μ§μ μμΌλ©΄ μ€νλ € λ ___μ. (get tired)
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μ§μ³ β μ§μΉλ€ β μ§μ³μ = to get exhausted.
G. κΈ°λΆ ___μ΄ λΌμ. (mood switch)
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μ ν β κΈ°λΆ μ ν = mood switch/change.
H. μ무κ²λ μ ___κ³ μΆμ΄μ. (do nothing)
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ν β μ무κ²λ μ νκ³ μΆμ΄μ = I want to do nothing.
I. μ°μ±
ν___ λλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ λ¬λΌμ Έμ. (after doing)
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κ³ β ~κ³ λλ©΄ = after doing ~.
J. μ¬λλ§λ€ ___μ£ . (everyone's different)
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λ€λ₯΄ β μ¬λλ§λ€ λ€λ₯΄μ£ = Everyone's different, right.
Sentence Starters
Pattern | Use |
μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μ λλ... | When stressed... |
~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄... | Keep doing ~... |
~κ³ λλ©΄... | After doing ~... |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ | Mood clears up |
νλ§μ΄ λΌμ | Is healing |
μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν΄μ | Need to recharge |
μ무κ²λ μ νλ€ | Do nothing |
κΈ°λΆ μ νμ΄ λλ€ | Mood switches |
μκ°μ΄ μ 리λλ€ | Thoughts sort out |
μ€νλ € | Actually/on the contrary |
Production Tip
The pattern ~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ + result is very natural in Korean for describing how relaxation works gradually. Don't use νλ©΄ (if you do) when you mean νλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ (if you keep doing). νλ©΄ is one-time; νλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ is gradual, which fits relaxation perfectly.
Exercise 4 β Dialogue Completion
Complete B's line in each dialogue using the lesson vocabulary.
A. A: μ€νΈλ μ€ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ? / B: μ λ _ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ.
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μ λ μ°μ±
νλ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ. (I found that taking a walk is the best.)
B. A: μ μ°μ±
μ΄ μ’μμ? / B: κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ _κ±°λ μ.
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κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ. (When you keep walking, your thoughts get sorted out, you see.)
C. A: νΌμ μλ κ² μ’μμ? / B: λ€, νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ _λΌμ.
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λ€, νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ. (Yes, alone time is healing for me.)
D. A: μμ¦ λ§μ΄ νΌκ³€ν΄ 보μ¬μ. / B: λ§μμ. μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ _κ² κ°μμ.
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λ§μμ. μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν κ² κ°μμ. (Right. I think I need to recharge.)
E. A: μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄ λκ° μ’μμ? / B: κΈ°λΆμ΄ _ κ±°λ μ.
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κΈ°λΆμ΄ ν리거λ μ. (My mood clears up, you see.)
F. A: μ¬λ λ μλ λ ν΄μ? / B: μ λ μ무κ²λ _κ² μ μΌμ΄μμ.
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μ λ μ무κ²λ μ νλ κ² μ μΌμ΄μμ. (For me, doing nothing is the best.)
G. A: μ§μ μμΌλ©΄ μ¬μ΄μ§μ§ μμμ? / B: μ λ μ€νλ € μ§μ μμΌλ©΄ λ _ μ.
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μ λ μ€νλ € μ§μ μμΌλ©΄ λ μ§μ³ μ. (Actually, if I stay home, I get more tired.)
H. A: λκ°λ κ² λ μ’μμ? / B: λ€, λκ°μΌ κΈ°λΆ _μ΄ λΌμ.
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λ€, λκ°μΌ κΈ°λΆ μ νμ΄ λΌμ. (Yes, I need to go out for a mood switch.)
I. A: μ°μ±
νκ³ λμ μ΄λμ? / B: κΈ°λΆμ΄ μμ _μ.
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κΈ°λΆμ΄ μμ λ¬λΌμ Έμ. (My mood completely changes.)
J. A: λ°©λ²μ΄ λ€ λ¬λΌμ. / B: λ§μμ. μ¬λλ§λ€ _μ£ .
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λ§μμ. μ¬λλ§λ€ λ€λ₯΄μ£ . (Right. Everyone's different, right.)
Useful Phrases
Phrase | Meaning |
μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ | Found it's the best |
μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ | Thoughts sort out, you see |
νλ§μ΄ λΌμ | Is healing |
μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν΄μ | Need to recharge |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ | Mood clears up |
μ무κ²λ μ νλ€ | Do nothing |
μ€νλ € λ μ§μ³μ | Actually get more tired |
κΈ°λΆ μ νμ΄ λΌμ | Mood switches |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ λ¬λΌμ Έμ | Mood changes |
μ¬λλ§λ€ λ€λ₯΄μ£ | Everyone's different |
Conversation Tip
When a Korean asks μ€νΈλ μ€ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ?, give a two-part answer: (1) what you do, (2) why it works with ~κ±°λ μ. This shows self-awareness and makes for real conversation β much better than just saying μμ
λ€μ΄μ and stopping.
Exercise 5 β Free Speaking Practice
Answer each prompt out loud in Korean using lesson expressions.
A. What's your favorite way to relieve stress? Use ~λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ.
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μ λ μμ
λ£λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ. μ’μνλ λ
Έλ λ€μΌλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ ν리거λ μ. (I found that listening to music is the best. When I listen to my favorite songs, my mood clears up, you see.)
B. Describe what happens when you keep doing your favorite relaxation activity. Use ~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄.
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μμ
λ£λ€ 보면 μ€νΈλ μ€κ° μμ΄μ§κ³ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ Έμ. (When I keep listening to music, the stress disappears and my mood improves.)
C. Say you need to recharge and explain what helps you do that.
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μμ¦ μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν κ² κ°μμ. μ λ μμ°μμ μ°μ±
νλ©΄ μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ λΌμ. (I think I need to recharge lately. For me, walking in nature helps me recharge.)
D. Describe your ideal rest day. What do you do (or not do)?
<summary>Sample Answer
μ¬λ λ μλ μ무κ²λ μ νλ κ² μ μΌμ΄μμ. μ§μμ μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄μ κ·Έλ₯ μ¬μ΄μ. κ·Έλ¬λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ ν리거λ μ. (On a rest day, doing nothing is the best. I just rest at home while listening to music. That way my mood clears up, you see.)
E. Compare your relaxation style to a friend's. Use μ λ ~ μΈλ° (name/μΉκ΅¬)λ λ¬λΌμ.
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μ λ νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λλ νΈμΈλ° μ μΉκ΅¬λ λ¬λΌμ. μ¬λμ λ§λμΌ μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ λλμ. (I tend to find alone time healing, but my friend is different. They say they need to meet people to recharge.)
F. Explain to a Korean friend why you like your favorite relaxation activity so much.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ°μ±
μ μ λ§ μ’μνλλ°μ, κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ±°λ μ. κ·Έλ¦¬κ³ κ³΅κΈ°λ μ’κ³ κΈ°λΆ μ νλ λκ³ μ. (I really like walking. When you keep walking, your thoughts get sorted out, you see. And the air is good and it switches up your mood too.)
G. Say what happens to your mood after your favorite relaxation activity.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ°μ±
νκ³ λλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μμ λ¬λΌμ Έμ. 머리λ λ§μμ§κ³ μ€νΈλ μ€λ μμ΄μ§κ±°λ μ. (After a walk, my mood completely changes. My head clears and the stress disappears, you see.)
H. Recommend your decompression method to a stressed Korean friend.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μΌλ©΄ νλ² μ°μ±
ν΄λ΄μ. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ μκ°μ΄ μ 리λκ³ κΈ°λΆλ ν리거λ μ. κΌ ν΄λ³΄μΈμ! (If you're stressed, try taking a walk. When you keep walking, your thoughts get sorted out and your mood clears up, you see. Definitely try it!)
I. Say you prefer being alone over being with people when tired. Explain why.
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νΌκ³€ν λλ νΌμ μλ κ² λ μ’μμ. μ¬λμ λ§λλ©΄ μ€νλ € λ μ§μΉκ±°λ μ. νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ μ μΌ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ. (When tired, I prefer being alone. If I meet people, I actually get more tired, you see. Alone time is the most healing for me.)
J. Answer as if a Korean friend just asked: μμ¦ μ μ¬κ³ μμ΄μ?
<summary>Sample Answer
μ¬μ€ μμ¦ μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ μ’ νμν κ² κ°μμ. μ£Όλ§μ μ°μ±
μ΄λΌλ ν΄μΌκ² μ΄μ. κ±·λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ ν리거λ μ. (Actually, I think I need to recharge a bit lately. I should at least go for a walk on the weekend. When you keep walking, your mood clears up, you see.)
Sentence Starters
Starter | Use |
μ λ ~λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ | Best method (personal) |
~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄ ~μ/μ΄μ | Gradual result |
μ¬μΆ©μ μ΄ νμν κ² κ°μμ | Need to recharge |
νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νλ§μ΄ λΌμ | Alone time is healing |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ νλ €μ / λ¬λΌμ Έμ | Mood clears / changes |
μ무κ²λ μ νλ κ² μ μΌ | Doing nothing is best |
μ€νλ € λ μ§μ³μ | Actually more tired |
μ¬λλ§λ€ λ€λ₯΄μ£ | Everyone's different |
κΌ ν΄λ³΄μΈμ | Definitely try it |
곡기λ μ’κ³ ~λ λκ³ μ | Air is good AND ~ too |
Speaking Challenge
Give a 30-second answer to μ€νΈλ μ€ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ? Include: (1) your method with ~λ κ² μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ, (2) why it works with ~λ€ λ³΄λ©΄, (3) a comparison with μ λ ~μΈλ° (someone else)λ λ¬λΌμ. Three moves, one natural answer.
νλ λ λ κ²°κ΅μ μ§λκ°μ β λ΄ λ°©μμΌλ‘ μ¬μ΄κ°λ κ², κ·Έκ² μ μΌ μ€μν΄μ. β¨
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