Changing One's Mind
Express second thoughts, reverse a decision, and update your position naturally in Korean.
Iru Helper Note
Changing your mind politely β whether reconsidering a plan, updating an opinion, or reversing a decision β is a normal part of conversation in any language. In Korean, the way you signal a change of mind matters as much as what you say.
μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μμ κ·Έκ² λ λμ κ² κ°μμ.
(Now that I think about it, I think that might actually be better.)
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π What You'll Learn Today
Changing your mind gracefully in Korean requires specific phrases that signal you're updating a position without losing face or seeming unreliable. This lesson gives you the vocabulary and structures to reconsider, reverse a decision, and express second thoughts naturally β in plans, opinions, and purchases.
π Changing One's Mind Expressions
Expression | Meaning | Notes |
μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | My mind has changed | General change of mind |
λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ | Now that I've thought about it again | Reconsidering opener |
μμ | After all / as expected / actually | Signals a revised conclusion |
μ무λλ | No matter how I think about it / all things considered | Hedging into a decision |
μμ κ·Έκ² λ λμ κ² κ°μμ | That actually seems better after all | Revised preference |
μ κΉ, λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ | Wait, let me reconsider | In-the-moment pause |
κ·Έλ₯ μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ | I'll just go with my original idea | Reverting to first choice |
λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | My feelings have changed | Emotional/personal change |
μ·¨μν κ²μ | I'll cancel that | Reversing a plan or order |
μ¬μ€ | Actually | Correcting or updating |
μκΉ λ§ν 건 | What I said earlier | Referring back to update it |
λ€λ₯Έ κ±Έλ‘ ν κ²μ | I'll go with a different one | Changing a choice |
μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ | I'll switch to this one | Switching direction |
미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ | I'm telling you in advance | Preemptive notification |
π‘ Key pattern: μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ / λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ + μμ / μ무λλ + [revised decision] β the opener signals you're reconsidering, μμ or μ무λλ signals the conclusion is updated, and the statement closes the shift naturally.
π¬ Conversations in Action
Dialogue 1 β Changing a Plan
A: λ΄μΌ λ§λκΈ°λ‘ νμμμ. (We agreed to meet tomorrow, right?)
B: λ§μμ. κ·Όλ° μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. μ무λλ λ€μ μ£Όκ° λ λμ κ² κ°μμ. (Right. But my mind has changed. All things considered, I think next week would be better.)
A: μ, κ·Έλμ? μμ? (Oh really? Why?)
B: λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ λ΄μΌμ μΌμ΄ μ’ μμ΄μμ. 미리 λ§μλλ €μ μ£μ‘ν΄μ. (Now that I've thought about it, I have some work tomorrow. Sorry for telling you in advance.)
Dialogue 2 β Changing an Order
A: μλ©λ¦¬μΉ΄λ
Έ μ£Όλ¬Ένμ
¨μ£ ? (You ordered an Americano, right?)
B: μ κΉ, λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ. μμ λΌλΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ. (Wait, let me reconsider. Actually, I'll switch to a latte.)
A: λ€, μκ² μ΅λλ€. (Sure, understood.)
B: μ, μ¬μ€ μλ μμ΄μ€ μλ©λ¦¬μΉ΄λ
Έ λ§μλ €κ³ νλλ°... μ무λλ λΌλΌκ° λ λΉκΈ°λ€μ. (Ah, actually I was originally going to have an iced Americano... but I'm in the mood for a latte after all.)
π Cultural Note β Changing Your Mind in Korean Social Contexts
In Korean culture, reversing a decision can feel socially delicate β particularly in group settings or hierarchical relationships. Using softeners like μ무λλ (all things considered) or μ¬μ€ (actually) before updating your position signals that you've reflected carefully, not that you're being indecisive. Saying 미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ (I'm telling you in advance) when changing plans shows consideration for others β highly valued in Korean communication.
<summary>Try This Speaking Exercise
Practice expressing second thoughts and changing your mind in Korean.
A. Say your mind has changed.
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μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. 미리 λ§μλ릴κ²μ. (My mind has changed. I'll let you know in advance.)
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B. Use "now that I've thought about it again" to introduce a change.
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λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ λ€λ₯Έ κ² λ λμ κ² κ°μμ. (Now that I've thought about it again, I think something else might be better.)
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C. Say you'll go with a different option.
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λ€λ₯Έ κ±Έλ‘ ν κ²μ. μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ. (I'll go with a different one. I'll switch to this one.)
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D. Use μμ to express a revised conclusion.
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μμ μ²μ μκ°μ΄ λ§μμ΄μ. κ·Έκ±Έλ‘ ν κ²μ. (After all, my first thought was right. I'll go with that.)
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E. Say you'll cancel something.
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μ·¨μν κ²μ. 미리 λ§μλλ €μ μ£μ‘ν΄μ. (I'll cancel that. Sorry for telling you in advance.)
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F. Refer back to something you said earlier and update it.
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μκΉ λ§ν 건 μ’ λ¬λΌμ. λ€μ μκ°νμ΄μ. (What I said earlier is a bit different. I've thought about it again.)
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G. Use μ무λλ to explain a decision change.
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μ무λλ μ΄μͺ½μ΄ λ λμ κ² κ°μμ. (All things considered, I think this way is better.)
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H. Say you'll revert to your original plan.
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κ·Έλ₯ μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ. μμ κ·Έκ² λ§λ κ² κ°μμ. (I'll just go with my original idea. I think that was right after all.)
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I. Pause and ask for a moment to reconsider.
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μ κΉ, λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ. μ μλ§μ. (Wait, let me reconsider. Just a moment.)
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J. Use μ¬μ€ to correct yourself and update your position.
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μ¬μ€ μ κ° μ²μμ μλͺ» λ§νμ΄μ. λ€μ λ§νλ©΄μ... (Actually, I misspoke at first. To say it again...)
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Expression Reference
Expression | Use |
μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | Mind has changed |
λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ | Rethinking opener |
μμ | After all / actually |
μ무λλ | All things considered |
λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | Feelings changed |
μ·¨μν κ²μ | I'll cancel |
λ€λ₯Έ κ±Έλ‘ ν κ²μ | Different choice |
μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ | Switch to this |
μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ | Back to original plan |
미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ | Telling you in advance |
μ¬μ€ | Actually |
Tip: Softeners matter
μ무λλ and μμ are not just filler β they signal "I considered this carefully before changing." Using them makes you sound thoughtful rather than impulsive when you reverse a position.
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Want more reps?
Think of a recent decision you made and then changed. Could you express that in Korean using today's phrases? Try narrating it out loud: what was the original decision, what made you reconsider, and what did you decide in the end? That's the real-world scenario this lesson is built for.
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π¦ Practice Hub β Changing One's Mind
Exercise 1 β Choose the Right Expression
Pick the best expression for each situation.
A. You want to say your mind has changed. You say:
a) μμ κ·Έκ² λ§μμ
b) μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ
c) μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ
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b) μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ β my mind has changed.
B. You want to open a reconsideration. You say:
a) μ·¨μν κ²μ
b) λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ
c) 미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ
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b) λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ β now that I've thought about it again.
C. You want to express "after all / actually" as a revised conclusion. You say:
a) μμ
b) μ¬μ€
c) μ무λλ
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a) μμ β after all / as expected.
D. You want to signal "all things considered" before your decision. You say:
a) μμ
b) μ무λλ
c) λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ
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b) μ무λλ β all things considered.
E. You want to cancel a plan. You say:
a) μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ
b) μ·¨μν κ²μ
c) λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ
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b) μ·¨μν κ²μ β I'll cancel that.
F. You want to go with a different option. You say:
a) λ€λ₯Έ κ±Έλ‘ ν κ²μ
b) μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ
c) μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ
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a) λ€λ₯Έ κ±Έλ‘ ν κ²μ β I'll go with a different one.
G. You want to switch to this option specifically. You say:
a) μ무λλ
b) μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ
c) μμ
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b) μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ β I'll switch to this one.
H. You want to tell someone in advance that you're changing plans. You say:
a) 미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ
b) λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ
c) μμ κ·Έκ² λ§μμ
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a) 미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ β I'm letting you know in advance.
I. You decide to go back to your original plan. You say:
a) μ·¨μν κ²μ
b) μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ
c) λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ
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b) μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ β I'll go with my original idea.
J. You want to correct something you said earlier. You use:
a) μ무λλ
b) μ¬μ€
c) 미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ
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b) μ¬μ€ β actually (to correct or update).
Quick Reference
Expression | Meaning |
μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | Mind has changed |
λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ | Rethinking opener |
μμ | After all |
μ무λλ | All things considered |
μ·¨μν κ²μ | I'll cancel |
λ€λ₯Έ κ±Έλ‘ ν κ²μ | Go with a different one |
μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ | Switch to this |
μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ | Back to original plan |
미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ | Telling you in advance |
μ¬μ€ | Actually |
Pitfall: μμ vs. μ¬μ€
μμ = "after all / as I suspected" β used when a conclusion confirms or revises your expectation. μ¬μ€ = "actually" β used to correct or clarify. μμ μ’λ€μ = "It's good after all." μ¬μ€ λ¬λΌμ = "Actually it's different." Don't swap them.
Exercise 2 β Korean β English Translation
Translate each sentence naturally.
A. μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ΄€μ΄μ.
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My mind has changed. I thought about it again.
B. λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μμ κ·Έκ² λ λμ κ² κ°μμ.
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Now that I've thought about it again, I think that's actually better after all.
C. μ무λλ μ΄μͺ½μ΄ λ μ’μ κ² κ°μμ.
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All things considered, I think this way is better.
D. μ·¨μν κ²μ. 미리 λ§μλλ €μ μ£μ‘ν΄μ.
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I'll cancel that. I'm sorry for telling you in advance.
E. μ κΉ, λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ.
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Wait, let me reconsider.
F. μμ μ²μ μκ°μ΄ λ§μμ΄μ.
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After all, my first thought was right.
G. μ¬μ€ μκΉ λ§ν 건 μ’ λ¬λΌμ.
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Actually, what I said earlier is a bit different.
H. κ·Έλ₯ μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ.
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I'll just go with my original idea.
I. μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ. μμ μ΄κ² λ μ’μμ.
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I'll switch to this one. This is actually better after all.
J. λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. λ€μ νλ² μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ.
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My feelings have changed. I'll think about it one more time.
Vocabulary Cheat Sheet
Korean | English |
μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | Mind changed |
μμ | After all |
μ무λλ | All things considered |
μ·¨μ | Cancellation |
μ²μ μκ° | Original thought |
μκΉ | Earlier / a moment ago |
미리 | In advance |
λ§μ | Heart / feelings |
Grammar Tip: ~보λκΉ
λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ = "now that I've thought about it again." The ~보λκΉ ending means "having tried doing X, I found that..." It attaches to action verbs to show a realized conclusion.
Exercise 3 β Complete the Sentence
Fill in the blank with the correct expression.
A. μκ°μ΄ . 미리 λ§μλ릴κ²μ. (My mind has changed.)
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μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ.
B. λ€μ μκ°ν΄__ μμ μ΄κ² λ μ’μμ. (Now that I've thought about it again...)
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λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μμ μ΄κ² λ μ’μμ.
C. μ΄μͺ½μ΄ λ λμ κ² κ°μμ. (All things considered...)
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μ무λλ μ΄μͺ½μ΄ λ λμ κ² κ°μμ.
D. μ·¨μ. μ£μ‘ν΄μ. (I'll cancel.)
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μ·¨μν κ²μ.
E. μ²μ μκ°μ΄ λ§μμ΄μ. (After all, my first thought was right.)
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μμ μ²μ μκ°μ΄ λ§μμ΄μ.
F. κ·Έλ₯ μ²μ λλ‘ ν κ²μ. (I'll go with my original idea.)
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κ·Έλ₯ μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ.
G. μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ . (I'll switch to this one.)
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μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ.
H. 미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ, λ΄μΌ λͺ» κ° κ² κ°μμ. (I'm telling you in advance...)
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μ£μ‘νλ° λ―Έλ¦¬ λ§μλ리λλ°μ, λ΄μΌ λͺ» κ° κ² κ°μμ.
I. λ§μμ΄ . λ€μ μκ°ν κ²μ. (My feelings have changed.)
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λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ.
J. μκΉ λ§ν κ±°λ μ’ λ¬λΌμ. (Actually, it's a bit different from what I said earlier.)
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μ¬μ€ μκΉ λ§ν κ±°λ μ’ λ¬λΌμ.
Sentence Starters
Starter | Use for |
μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | Announce change |
λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ | Open reconsideration |
μ무λλ | Weigh in with conclusion |
μμ | Confirm revised view |
μ·¨μν κ²μ | Cancel a plan |
μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ | Revert to original |
μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ | Switch to new choice |
μ¬μ€ | Correct/update |
Production Tip
When changing your mind in Korean conversation, don't just blurt the new decision β use an opener like λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ or μ무λλ first. This signals thoughtfulness and keeps the interaction smooth.
Exercise 4 β Dialogue Completion
Complete each dialogue naturally.
A. μΉκ΅¬: μμ§λ κ·Έ κ³νλλ‘ ν κ±°μμ? β You: (Say your mind has changed.)
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μλμ, μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ΄€μ΄μ.
B. μΉκ΅¬: μμ? β You: (Say now that you've thought about it, another option seems better.)
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λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μμ λ€λ₯Έ κ² λ λμ κ² κ°μμ.
C. μ§μ: μ£Όλ¬Έ νμΈν κ²μ. β You: (Say wait, you'd like to reconsider.)
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μ κΉμ. λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ.
D. μ§μ: μ΄λ»κ² λ°κΎΈμ€ 건κ°μ? β You: (Say you'll switch to this one.)
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μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ. κ°μ¬ν΄μ.
E. λλ£: μ΄λ»κ² νκΈ°λ‘ νμ΄μ? β You: (Say all things considered, this seems better.)
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μ무λλ μ΄μͺ½μ΄ λ λμ κ² κ°μμ. μ΄λ κ² νλ €κ³ μ.
F. μΉκ΅¬: μμ§λ κ·Έ μ¬λ λ§λ κ±°μμ? β You: (Say you'll cancel. Tell them in advance.)
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μ·¨μν κ²μ. 미리 λ§ν΄μ€μ λ€νμ΄μμ.
G. μ§μ: μ λ²μ λ§μνμ κ²κ³Ό λ€λ₯Έλ°μ? β You: (Say "actually" and correct yourself.)
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μ¬μ€ μ κ° μλͺ» λ§νμ΄μ. μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ νκ³ μΆμ΄μ.
H. μΉκ΅¬: κ·ΈλΌ μ²μ κ³νλλ‘ ν΄μ? β You: (Say yes, you'll go with the original plan after all.)
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λ€, μμ μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ νλ κ² λ§λ κ² κ°μμ.
I. λλ£: μ΄κ±° κ³μ ν κ±°μμ? β You: (Say you've changed your mind and want to go a different direction.)
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μλμ, λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. λ€λ₯Έ λ°©ν₯μΌλ‘ ν΄λ³΄κ³ μΆμ΄μ.
J. μΉκ΅¬: κ²°κ΅ μ΄λ»κ² ν κ±°μμ? β You: (Say you've thought about it and this seems like the right call.)
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λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μμ μ΄κ² λ§λ κ² κ°μμ.
Useful Phrases
Phrase | Meaning |
μμ§λ | Still |
κ³νλλ‘ | As planned |
κ²°κ΅ | In the end / ultimately |
λ°©ν₯ | Direction |
λ€νμ΄μμ | That's a relief |
λ§λ κ² κ°μμ | Seems right |
μλͺ» λ§νμ΄μ | I misspoke |
Conversation Tip
When you change your mind mid-conversation, μ κΉμ (just a moment) + λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ is the natural Korean pause phrase. It buys you a moment to reconsider without being abrupt.
Exercise 5 β Free Speaking Practice
Express each scenario in Korean out loud.
A. You booked a restaurant but now want to cancel. Tell a friend in advance.
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미리 λ§μλ리λλ°μ, μλΉ μμ½ μ·¨μν κ²μ. μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ.
B. You were going to buy the blue one, but now think the red one is better.
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λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μμ λΉ¨κ° κ² λ λμ κ² κ°μμ. μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ.
C. You agreed to go somewhere but are now reconsidering.
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μ무λλ λͺ» κ° κ² κ°μμ. μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. 미리 λ§μλλ €μ μ£μ‘ν΄μ.
D. You correct something you said in the previous conversation.
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μ¬μ€ μκΉ λ§ν 건 μ’ λ¬λμ΄μ. λ€μ λ§νλ©΄, μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ νλ κ² λ§μμ.
E. After weighing the options, you decide to go back to your original plan.
<summary>Sample Answer
μμ μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ νλ κ² λ§λ κ² κ°μμ. κ·Έλ₯ μ²μ κ³νλλ‘ ν κ²μ.
F. You pause mid-order at a cafΓ© and reconsider your drink choice.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ κΉμ. λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³Όκ²μ. μμ μμ΄μ€ λΌλΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ.
G. A colleague asks what you decided. Explain you changed your mind.
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λ§μμ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. μ무λλ μ΄ λ°©λ²μ΄ λ λμ κ² κ°μμμ.
H. You thought Option A was better, but now think Option B is after all.
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μ²μμλ Aκ° μ’λ€κ³ μκ°νλλ°, λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μμ Bκ° λ λμ κ² κ°μμ.
I. Express that something you tried made you reconsider your choice.
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ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ. μμ λ€λ₯Έ κ±Έλ‘ νλ κ² λ μ’μ κ² κ°μμ.
J. Wrap up a full change-of-mind arc: original plan, reconsideration, new decision.
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μ²μμ Aλ‘ νλ €κ³ νλλ°, λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ μ무λλ Bκ° λ λμ κ² κ°μμ. Bλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ.
Sentence Starters
Starter | Use |
μκ°μ΄ λ°λμμ΄μ | Announce change |
λ€μ μκ°ν΄λ³΄λκΉ | Reconsider opener |
μμ | Revised conclusion |
μ무λλ | Weighing conclusion |
μ·¨μν κ²μ | Cancel |
μ΄μͺ½μΌλ‘ λ°κΏκ²μ | Switch |
μ²μ μκ°λλ‘ ν κ²μ | Revert |
μ¬μ€ | Correct/update |
Speaking Challenge
Pick a real decision from your life this week. In Korean, describe: what you originally planned, why you reconsidered, and what you decided in the end. Use at least 3 expressions from this lesson. Under 5 sentences.
μκ°μ΄ λ°λμ΄λ μμ°μ€λ½κ² λ§ν μ μμ΄μ! β¨
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