Softening with -λ λ΄μ
Express observations and inferences without sounding blunt or overconfident.
Iru Helper Note
-λ λ΄μ lets you say what you think is true based on what you see β without claiming to know for certain.
νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ.
(It seems like you're tired. / I guess you're tired.)
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π― What You'll Learn Today
-λ λ΄μ is one of the most useful softening tools in Korean. It expresses an inference β something you're concluding from observation or context β rather than a direct statement. It's humble, polite, and sounds very natural. Using it correctly helps you avoid sounding too blunt when commenting on situations or other people.
π -λ λ΄μ: Forms and Usage
Pattern | How to Attach |
Verb stem + λ λ΄μ | After verb stem |
Adj stem + λ λ΄μ | After adjective stem |
Noun + μΈκ° λ΄μ | After noun |
Past + λ λ΄μ | After -μ/μ |
λ°μκ° λ΄μ | Adjective (μλ€/μλ€ type) |
Common -λ λ΄μ Expressions | Meaning |
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νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ | Seems tired |
λ°μκ° λ΄μ | Seems busy |
νλ κ° λ΄μ | Seems tough / struggling |
μ’μνλ λ΄μ | Seems to like it |
λͺ¨λ₯΄λ λ΄μ | Seems not to know |
λ¦μλ λ΄μ | Seems like (they) are late |
μνκ° λ΄μ | Seems sick |
λ³λ‘μΈκ° λ΄μ | Seems like (they) don't like it |
μνλ λ΄μ | Seems to be good at it |
μ μ’μκ° λ΄μ | Seems not good |
π‘ Key pattern: -λ λ΄μ = "I guess / it seems / must be" β based on what you observe, NOT what you're told directly. It softens the statement significantly compared to saying it as a direct fact.
π¬ Conversations in Action
Conversation 1 β Observing a friend
A: λ―Όμκ° μμ¦ μ°λ½μ΄ μλ€μ.
(Minsu hasn't been in touch lately.)
B: κ·Έλ¬κ²μ. λ§μ΄ λ°μκ° λ΄μ.
(Right. He seems to be really busy.)
A: μ’ νλ κ° λ΄μ. μμ¦ μΌμ΄ λ§λ€κ³ νμμμ.
(He seems to be having a tough time. He said there's been a lot of work lately.)
Conversation 2 β Reading the room
A: μ μλΉ μ€μ΄ μμ² κΈΈμ΄μ.
(That restaurant has a really long line.)
B: λ§μλ λ΄μ. μ¬λμ΄ μ΄λ κ² λ§μΌλ©΄ λ§μ§μΈκ° λ΄μ.
(It must be delicious. If there are this many people, it must be a good restaurant.)
A: κ·Έλ₯ νλ² κΈ°λ€λ € λ΄μ!
(Let's just try waiting!)
π Cultural Note β Inference vs. Direct Statement
Koreans often prefer indirect expressions over blunt declarations, especially when commenting on others. Saying νΌκ³€ν΄μ (you're tired) directly can feel presumptuous β you don't know for certain. But νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ (you seem tired) shows you're making an observation, not a claim. This makes -λ λ΄μ not just grammatically useful but socially important. It's how considerate speakers talk about others without overstepping.
<summary>Try This Speaking Exercise
Turn each observation into an inference using -λ λ΄μ.
A. You see your friend eating a lot. What do you say?
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λ°°κ° λ§μ΄ κ³ ν λ λ΄μ.
(Seems like (they) were really hungry.)
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B. The coffee shop is packed. How do you comment?
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μ΄ μΉ΄νκ° μΈκΈ° μλ λ΄μ.
(This cafe seems to be popular.)
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C. Your classmate keeps yawning. What's your inference?
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λ§μ΄ νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ.
(Seems quite tired.)
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D. Someone didn't reply to your message all day.
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λ§μ΄ λ°μκ° λ΄μ. λλ: λͺ» λ΄€λ λ΄μ.
(Seems really busy. Or: Seems they didn't see it.)
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E. The food arrived quickly.
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미리 μ€λΉλ κ² μλ λ΄μ.
(Seems like something was prepared in advance.)
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F. Your coworker looks tense before a meeting.
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λ°νκ° κΈ΄μ₯λλ λ΄μ.
(Seems nervous about the presentation.)
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G. A restaurant you liked is now closed.
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λ¬Έμ λ«μλ λ΄μ.
(Seems like it closed down.)
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H. Someone keeps checking their phone.
<summary>Answer
μ°λ½μ κΈ°λ€λ¦¬λ λ΄μ.
(Seems to be waiting for a message.)
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I. A normally cheerful friend is very quiet today.
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λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ.
(Seems like something happened.)
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J. Your neighbor's lights are off at 8pm.
<summary>Answer
μΌμ° μλ λ΄μ.
(Seems to sleep early.)
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Expression Reference
Expression | Nuance/Key |
νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ | Adjective + κ° λ΄μ |
λ°μκ° λ΄μ | λ°μλ€ β λ°μκ° λ΄μ |
λ¨Ήλ λ΄μ | Verb + λ λ΄μ |
κ°λ λ΄μ | Past verb + λ λ΄μ |
νμμΈκ° λ΄μ | Noun + μΈκ° λ΄μ |
νλ κ° λ΄μ | Seems tough |
λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ | Seems something happened |
Form Reminder
Adjectives use -γ΄κ° λ΄μ (νΌκ³€νκ°, λ°μκ°), while action verbs use -λ λ΄μ (λ¨Ήλ, κ°λ). Nouns use -μΈκ° λ΄μ. Getting these right is what makes your inference sound natural β not just correct.
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Watch people around you and narrate what you observe β in Korean, using -λ λ΄μ. This is exactly how native speakers process and comment on the world around them.
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π¦ Practice Hub β Softening with -λ λ΄μ
Exercise 1 β Choose the Right Form
Pick the correctly formed -λ λ΄μ expression.
A. The adjective νΌκ³€νλ€ (tired) in -λ λ΄μ form is:
a) νΌκ³€λ λ΄μ
b) νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ
c) νΌκ³€μ΄λ λ΄μ
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b) νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ β Adjectives use -(μΌ)γ΄κ° λ΄μ.
B. The verb λ¨Ήλ€ (to eat) in -λ λ΄μ form is:
a) λ¨Ήμκ° λ΄μ
b) λ¨Ήλ λ΄μ
c) λ¨ΉμΈκ° λ΄μ
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b) λ¨Ήλ λ΄μ β Action verbs use -λ λ΄μ directly after the stem.
C. The noun νμ (student) in -λ λ΄μ form is:
a) νμλ λ΄μ
b) νμκ° λ΄μ
c) νμμΈκ° λ΄μ
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c) νμμΈκ° λ΄μ β Nouns use -μΈκ° λ΄μ.
D. The past tense verb κ°λ€ (went) in -λ λ΄μ form is:
a) κ°λ λ΄μ
b) κ°λ λ΄μ
c) κ°μΈκ° λ΄μ
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b) κ°λ λ΄μ β Past form keeps -μ/μ then adds -λ λ΄μ.
E. The adjective λ°μλ€ (busy) in -λ λ΄μ form is:
a) λ°μλ λ΄μ
b) λ°μκ° λ΄μ
c) λ°μμΈκ° λ΄μ
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b) λ°μκ° λ΄μ β λ°μλ€ β λ°μ (adjective modifier form) β λ°μκ° λ΄μ.
F. You want to say "Seems like it's delicious." Which is correct?
a) λ§μλ λ΄μ
b) λ§μμκ° λ΄μ
c) λ§μμΈκ° λ΄μ
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a) λ§μλ λ΄μ β μλ€/μλ€ adjectives use -λ λ΄μ (not -(μΌ)γ΄κ° λ΄μ).
G. You want to say "Seems like (they) know." Which is correct?
a) μλκ° λ΄μ
b) μλ λ΄μ
c) μλ λ΄μ
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b) μλ λ΄μ β μλ€ is an γΉ-irregular: stem μ + λ λ΄μ.
H. "Seems like something happened." Which is correct?
a) λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ
b) λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μμΈκ° λ΄μ
c) λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μμκ° λ΄μ
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a) λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ β μλ€ β -λ λ΄μ.
I. "Seems like (they) don't like it." Which is correct?
a) λ³λ‘μΈκ° λ΄μ
b) λ³λ‘λ λ΄μ
c) λ³λ‘ κ° λ΄μ
<summary>Answer
a) λ³λ‘μΈκ° λ΄μ β λ³λ‘ functions as a noun-like expression β -μΈκ° λ΄μ.
J. "Seems like (they) didn't come." Which is correct?
a) μ μ€λ λ΄μ
b) μ μλ λ΄μ
c) μ€μ§ μμκ° λ΄μ
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b) μ μλ λ΄μ β Past tense negative: μ μλ€ β μ μλ λ΄μ.
Form Quick Reference
Type | Pattern | Example |
Action verb | stem + λ λ΄μ | λ¨Ήλ λ΄μ |
Adjective | stem + (μΌ)γ΄κ° λ΄μ | νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ |
μλ€/μλ€ | μλ/μλ λ΄μ | λ§μλ λ΄μ |
Noun | noun + μΈκ° λ΄μ | νμμΈκ° λ΄μ |
Past | past stem + λ λ΄μ | κ°λ λ΄μ |
Common Mistake
μλ€ and μλ€ follow the verb pattern (-λ λ΄μ), NOT the adjective pattern (-γ΄κ° λ΄μ). So: λ§μλ λ΄μ β, NOT λ§μλκ° λ΄μ β. This trips up many learners because μλ€/μλ€ behave like adjectives in other situations.
Exercise 2 β Korean β English Translation
Translate each -λ λ΄μ sentence naturally.
A. λ§μ΄ νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ.
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(They) seem really tired.
B. κ·Έ μλΉμ΄ λ§μλ λ΄μ. μ€μ΄ κΈΈμ΄μ.
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That restaurant must be delicious. The line is long.
C. μμ§ μ μλ λ΄μ.
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Seems like (they) haven't come yet.
D. λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ. νμ μ΄ μ μ’μμ.
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Seems like something happened. Their expression doesn't look good.
E. μ΄λ―Έ μκ³ μλ λ΄μ.
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Seems like (they) already know.
F. λ³λ‘μΈκ° λ΄μ. μ μ λ¨Ήλ€μ.
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Seems like (they) don't like it. They're not eating much.
G. λ§μ΄ λ°μκ° λ΄μ. μ°λ½μ΄ μμ΄μ.
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Seems really busy. There's been no contact.
H. λ°νκ° κ±±μ λλ λ΄μ. κ³μ μλ£λ₯Ό λ³΄κ³ μμ΄μ.
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Seems worried about the presentation. (They're) keep looking at the materials.
I. μ΄ μΉ΄νκ° μΈκΈ° μλ λ΄μ. νμ μ¬λμ΄ λ§μμ.
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This cafe seems popular. There are always a lot of people.
J. μ€λ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μκ° λ΄μ. κ³μ μκ³ μμ΄μ.
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Seems like (they're) in a good mood today. (They) keep smiling.
Vocabulary Cheat Sheet
Korean | English |
νμ μ΄ μ μ’λ€ | Expression doesn't look good |
μ΄λ―Έ μκ³ μλ€ | Already know |
μ°λ½μ΄ μλ€ | No contact / haven't heard |
κ³μ | Keep -ing / continuously |
νμ | Always |
κ±±μ λλ€ | To be worried |
Translation Tip
-λ λ΄μ is best translated as "seems like", "must be", or "I guess". The right choice depends on how confident the inference sounds in context. "Must be" suits strong evidence (a long line = must be delicious); "seems like" fits softer observations.
Exercise 3 β Complete the Sentence
Fill in the blank using the correct -λ λ΄μ form.
A. μ€λ λ§μ΄ νΌκ³€. (tired β adjective)
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νκ° λ΄μ β νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ.
B. κ·Έ μ¬λμ΄ νκ΅μ΄λ₯Ό μ ν. (to do well β verb)
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λ λ΄μ β μ νλ λ΄μ.
C. μμ§ λͺ¨λ₯΄. (to not know β verb)
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λ λ΄μ β λͺ¨λ₯΄λ λ΄μ.
D. μ μ¬λμ΄ μ μλ. (teacher β noun)
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μΈκ° λ΄μ β μ μλμΈκ° λ΄μ.
E. μ΄λ―Έ κ°. (already went β past)
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λ λ΄μ β κ°λ λ΄μ.
F. κ·Έ μνκ° μ¬λ―Έμ. (interesting β μλ€ type)
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λ λ΄μ β μ¬λ―Έμλ λ΄μ.
G. μμ¦ ν. (tough β adjective)
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λ κ° λ΄μ β νλ κ° λ΄μ.
H. μ¬λλ€μ΄ μ΄ λ
Έλλ₯Ό μ’μν. (to like β verb)
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λ λ΄μ β μ’μνλ λ΄μ.
I. λ μ¨κ° λ§μ΄ μΆ₯. (cold β adjective)
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λ λ΄μ β μΆμ΄κ° λ΄μ. (μΆμ΄ = adjective modifier of μΆ₯λ€)
J. λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μ. (something happened)
<summary>Answer
λ λ΄μ β λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ.
Sentence Starters
Starter | Continues With |
λ§μ΄ [adj]κ° λ΄μ | Observation about degree |
μ΄λ―Έ [verb]λ λ΄μ | Past inference |
μ μ¬λμ΄ [noun]μΈκ° λ΄μ | Identity inference |
[situation]. [adj]κ° λ΄μ | Evidence + inference |
Production Tip
When building -λ λ΄μ sentences, first decide the word type (verb / adjective / noun), then apply the right ending. Most mistakes come from applying verb endings to adjectives. Take one extra second to check the type before speaking.
Exercise 4 β Dialogue Completion
Complete B's response with a natural -λ λ΄μ inference.
A. A: μ§μμ΄κ° μ€λ λ§μ΄ μλ€μ. B: (infer something is wrong)
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λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ. νμ λ μ μ’μ 보μ¬μ.
(Seems like something happened. Their expression doesn't look good either.)
B. A: μ μΉ΄ν νμ μ€μ΄ κΈΈμ΄μ. B: (infer it's popular or good)
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λ§μλ λ΄μ. μΈκΈ° μλ μΉ΄νμΈκ° λ΄μ.
(Must be delicious. Seems like a popular cafe.)
C. A: μ€νΈκ° μμ¦ μ°λ½μ΄ μμ΄μ. B: (infer busy)
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λ§μ΄ λ°μκ° λ΄μ. μμ¦ μΌμ΄ λ§λ€κ³ νμμμ.
(Seems really busy. They said there's a lot of work lately, right.)
D. A: μ΄ μμμ λ³λ‘ μ λ¨Ήλ€μ. B: (infer doesn't like it)
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λ³λ‘μΈκ° λ΄μ. μ
μ μ λ§λ λ΄μ.
(Seems like (they) don't like it. Seems like it doesn't suit their taste.)
E. A: μ λ°°μ°κ° νκ΅μ΄λ₯Ό μ λ§ μ ν΄μ. B: (infer studied hard or is good)
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λ§μ΄ 곡λΆνλ λ΄μ. λ°μλ μ’μμ.
(Seems like they studied a lot. Their pronunciation is good too.)
F. A: μ€λ νν°μ μ¬λμ΄ μ§μ§ λ§μμ. B: (infer the party is fun or popular)
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μ¬λ―Έμλ λ΄μ. λ€λ€ μ¦κ±°μ 보μ¬μ.
(Must be fun. Everyone seems to be enjoying themselves.)
G. A: κ·Έ μλΉ λ¬Έμ΄ λ«ν μμ΄μ. B: (infer it closed or is on break)
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μ¬λ λ μΈκ° λ΄μ. μλλ©΄ μΌμ° λ¬Έμ λ«μλ λ΄μ.
(Seems like a day off. Or seems like they closed early.)
H. A: λ°ν μ μ κ³μ μλ£λ₯Ό λ³΄κ³ μμ΄μ. B: (infer nervous)
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λ§μ΄ κΈ΄μ₯λλ λ΄μ. μΆ©λΆν μ€λΉνμ ν
λ°μ.
(Seems really nervous. They must have prepared enough though.)
I. A: κ·Έ μ¬λμ΄ νΌμ μκ³ μμ΄μ. B: (infer something good happened)
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μ’μ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ. κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μ 보μ¬μ.
(Seems like something good happened. They look in a good mood.)
J. A: μ€λ νμμ μ μμ΄μ. B: (infer missed it or couldn't come)
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λͺ» μ¨ κ² κ°μμ. λ°μκ° λ΄μ.
(Seems like couldn't come. Must be busy.)
Useful Phrases
Phrase | Meaning |
νμ μ΄ μ μ’λ€ | Expression doesn't look good |
μ
μ μ λ§λ€ | Doesn't suit the taste |
λ°μμ΄ μ’λ€ | Pronunciation is good |
κΈ΄μ₯λλ€ | To be nervous |
μΆ©λΆν μ€λΉνλ€ | To prepare enough |
μ¬λ λ | Day off / rest day |
Conversation Tip
Follow up a -λ λ΄μ inference with evidence: "νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ. κ³μ νννλ€μ." (Seems tired. They keep yawning.) This two-sentence pattern β inference + supporting observation β sounds exactly like natural Korean conversation.
Exercise 5 β Free Speaking Practice
Make your own inferences out loud using -λ λ΄μ.
A. Look at someone nearby (or imagine a friend). What can you infer from their expression?
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μ’ νΌκ³€νκ° λ΄μ. λμ΄ λ°μ―€ κ°κ²¨ μμ΄μ.
(Seems a bit tired. Their eyes are half-closed.)
B. A restaurant you wanted to try is closed. What's your inference?
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μ€λ μ¬λ λ μΈκ° λ΄μ. μλλ©΄ μΌμ° λλ¬λ λ΄μ.
(Seems like today is a day off. Or seems like they finished early.)
C. Your friend took much longer than expected to reply to your message.
<summary>Sample Answer
λ§μ΄ λ°μκ° λ΄μ. μλλ©΄ λͺ» λ΄€λ λ΄μ.
(Seems really busy. Or seems like they didn't see it.)
D. You see someone practicing a sport very skillfully. What's your inference?
<summary>Sample Answer
μ€λ μ°μ΅νλ λ΄μ. μ λ§ μ ν΄μ.
(Seems like they've been practicing a long time. They're really good.)
E. A usually talkative friend is very quiet today.
<summary>Sample Answer
λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ. νμλ λ¬λΌμ.
(Seems like something happened. They're different from usual.)
F. You walk past a restaurant that smells amazing and has a long line.
<summary>Sample Answer
λ§μλ λ΄μ. λμλ μ’κ³ μ¬λλ λ§μμ.
(Must be delicious. It smells good and there are lots of people.)
G. Someone got a very high test score.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ΄μ¬ν 곡λΆνλ λ΄μ. μ μκ° μ λ§ λμμ.
(Seems like they studied hard. The score is really high.)
H. A coworker finishes everything quickly and perfectly.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ΄ μΌμ μ€λ ν΄μλ λ΄μ. λ무 λΉ λ₯΄κ³ μ νν΄μ.
(Seems like they've been doing this work for a long time. They're so fast and accurate.)
I. You try a dish and your friend barely touches it.
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μ μ λ§λ λ΄μ. λ³λ‘ μ λ¨Ήλ€μ.
(Seems like it doesn't suit their taste. They're barely eating.)
J. Someone is speaking Korean to you and clearly understands your response.
<summary>Sample Answer
νκ΅μ΄λ₯Ό μ μλ λ΄μ. μ λ§μ λ€ μ΄ν΄νλ κ² κ°μμ.
(Seems to know Korean well. They seem to understand everything I'm saying.)
Sentence Starters
Starter | Use |
λ§μ΄ [adj]γ΄κ° λ΄μ | Degree-based inference |
[verb]λ λ΄μ. [evidence]. | Inference + evidence |
λ¬΄μ¨ μΌμ΄ μλ λ΄μ | Something seems off |
μ¬λ λ μΈκ° λ΄μ | Inferring closure/rest |
μ€λ [verb]νλ λ΄μ | Inferring long experience |
Speaking Challenge
For the next day, every time you observe something about a person or place, say it out loud using -λ λ΄μ instead of stating it as fact. This trains the inference habit that makes your Korean sound thoughtful and natural.
κ΄μ°°νλ©΄μ -λ λ΄μλ‘ λ§ν΄ 보μΈμ! β¨
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