Softening an Opinion: -는 것 같아요 Depth
One pattern. Endless softening power. If you learn to use -는 것 같아요 well, almost everything you say in Korean will sound more natural.
Iru Helper Note
You've already seen -는 것 같아요 in earlier lessons. Now it's time to go deeper. Native Korean speakers use this pattern constantly — not just for opinions, but to soften any statement into an observation. It's how you say something without sounding like you're stating absolute facts, which is at the heart of polite Korean speech.
좀 비싼 것 같아요.
(I think it's a bit pricey. / It seems a bit expensive.)
🔍 What You'll Learn Today
While you've used -는 것 같아요 for basic opinions, today you'll see how this single pattern works across tenses and situations — and why native speakers use it for almost everything from observations to guesses to polite recommendations. Mastering this pattern is one of the fastest ways to level up your spoken Korean.
📌 The Four Forms of -는 것 같아요
Form | When to Use | Example |
[Adj stem]-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 | Describing how something seems right now | 비싼 것 같아요 (seems expensive) |
[Verb stem]-는 것 같아요 | Describing an ongoing action that seems to be happening | 열심히 하는 것 같아요 (seems to be working hard) |
[Verb/Adj past]-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 | Describing something that seems to have happened | 지각한 것 같아요 (seems like they were late) |
[Verb stem]-ㄹ/을 것 같아요 | Guessing what seems likely to happen | 비 올 것 같아요 (seems like it'll rain) |
💡 The core purpose: Each form replaces a blunt statement with a softer observation. You're not saying "it IS expensive" — you're saying "it SEEMS expensive to me." That softness is exactly what makes Korean conversation feel natural.
The most important combo: 좀 + -는 것 같아요
Adding 좀 (a little) before -는 것 같아요 creates an ultra-polite cushion around any opinion:
- 좀 어려운 것 같아요 → "It seems a little difficult to me"
- 좀 무리인 것 같아요 → "It seems a little too much"
- 좀 이른 것 같아요 → "It seems a little early"
💬 Conversations in Action
Mini-Dialogue 1 — At a restaurant
A: 이 메뉴 어때요?
B: 음, 좀 비싼 것 같아요. 다른 거 볼게요.
A: 그럼 이건 어때요? 더 저렴해요.
(A: What do you think of this menu item?
B: Hmm, it seems a bit pricey. Let me look at something else.
A: Then how about this? It's cheaper.)
Mini-Dialogue 2 — Discussing a classmate
A: 저 사람 오늘 왜 이렇게 조용해요?
B: 좀 피곤한 것 같아요. 어제 늦게까지 일했다고 했어요.
A: 아, 그렇군요.
(A: Why is that person so quiet today?
B: They seem a bit tired. They said they worked until late yesterday.
A: Oh, I see.)
🌏 Cultural Note — Why Softening is a Sign of Fluency
In Korean, stating things as direct facts — 비싸요 (it's expensive), 틀렸어요 (you're wrong) — is fine in some contexts but can sound abrupt or even rude in others. Choosing -는 것 같아요 over a direct statement shows:
- That you're making an observation, not a verdict
- That you respect the other person's potential different experience
- That you're socially aware and considerate
This is one reason why learners who master -는 것 같아요 are often perceived as more fluent — it's not just grammar, it's social calibration.
<summary>Try This Speaking Exercise
For each situation, restate the bold sentence using the most natural -는 것 같아요 form.
A. You're at a clothing store. You think the jacket is too big. Say it softly.
(이 재킷은 너무 커요 → ?)
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이 재킷이 좀 큰 것 같아요.
(This jacket seems a little big.)
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B. You think your friend hasn't arrived yet. Share your observation.
(친구가 아직 안 왔어요 → ?)
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아직 안 온 것 같아요.
(It seems like they haven't come yet.)
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C. It looks like it might rain soon. Mention it to a friend.
(비가 올 거예요 → ?)
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비가 올 것 같아요.
(It seems like it'll rain.)
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D. A café is quite busy. Comment on it naturally.
(카페가 바빠요 → ?)
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오늘 카페가 좀 바쁜 것 같아요.
(The café seems a little busy today.)
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E. Your colleague seems to have made a mistake. Say it delicately.
(동료가 실수를 했어요 → ?)
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실수를 한 것 같아요.
(It seems like they made a mistake.)
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F. The meeting seems like it will go long. Warn a friend.
(회의가 길어질 거예요 → ?)
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회의가 좀 길어질 것 같아요.
(The meeting seems like it'll go a little long.)
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G. The new café's coffee seems really good. Tell your friend.
(커피가 맛있어요 → ?)
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여기 커피가 정말 맛있는 것 같아요.
(The coffee here seems really good.)
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H. The schedule seems a bit tight. Mention it politely.
(일정이 빡빡해요 → ?)
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일정이 좀 빡빡한 것 같아요.
(The schedule seems a little tight.)
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I. It seems like that restaurant has already closed. Share the observation.
(식당이 닫혔어요 → ?)
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식당이 이미 문을 닫은 것 같아요.
(It seems like the restaurant has already closed.)
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J. You think the movie is going to be good. Express your expectation softly.
(영화가 재미있을 거예요 → ?)
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영화가 재미있을 것 같아요.
(I think the movie will be good.)
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Form Reference
Tense | Pattern | Signal |
Present state | Adj + -ㄴ/은 것 같아요 | How something seems now |
Ongoing action | V + -는 것 같아요 | What someone seems to be doing |
Past | V/Adj + -ㄴ/은 것 같아요 | What seems to have happened |
Future/Guess | V + -ㄹ/을 것 같아요 | What seems likely to happen |
Natural Rhythm Tip
In casual speech, Koreans often drop 것 and say just -ㄴ 같아요 or -는 같아요. But when you're building fluency, always say the full form — 것 같아요 — until the pattern becomes completely automatic. Then you'll notice the shortened form naturally.
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Want more reps?
The Practice Hub below has five exercises that push you to use all four forms of -는 것 같아요 in realistic speaking situations. Repetition with this pattern is what separates intermediate learners from advanced ones.
📦 Practice Hub — -는 것 같아요 Depth
Exercise 1 — Choose the Right Expression
Choose the most natural -는 것 같아요 form for each situation.
A. You think the price at the market is a bit high today. Which is most natural?
a) 오늘 가격이 좀 비싼 것 같아요.
b) 오늘 가격이 비쌀 것 같아요.
c) 오늘 가격이 비싸는 것 같아요.
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a) 오늘 가격이 좀 비싼 것 같아요.
(The prices today seem a little high.)
Use Adj-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 for current states and appearances.
B. You notice your friend is working very hard at the café. What do you say?
a) 친구가 열심히 한 것 같아요.
b) 친구가 열심히 할 것 같아요.
c) 친구가 열심히 하는 것 같아요.
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c) 친구가 열심히 하는 것 같아요.
(My friend seems to be working really hard.)
Use V-는 것 같아요 for ongoing actions you can observe.
C. You didn't see your colleague come in and guess they were late. How do you say it?
a) 동료가 지각할 것 같아요.
b) 동료가 지각한 것 같아요.
c) 동료가 지각하는 것 같아요.
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b) 동료가 지각한 것 같아요.
(It seems like my colleague was late.)
Use V-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 for something that seems to have already happened.
D. The sky is getting dark. You think it's going to rain. What do you say?
a) 비가 오는 것 같아요.
b) 비가 온 것 같아요.
c) 비가 올 것 같아요.
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c) 비가 올 것 같아요.
(It seems like it's going to rain.)
Use V-ㄹ/을 것 같아요 for predictions and guesses about the future.
E. Your friend's new bag looks expensive. How do you comment?
a) 가방이 비쌌을 것 같아요.
b) 가방이 좀 비싼 것 같아요.
c) 가방이 비싸는 것 같아요.
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b) 가방이 좀 비싼 것 같아요.
(The bag seems a little expensive.)
F. You think your friend already ate — they're not hungry. Which form is right?
a) 이미 먹은 것 같아요.
b) 이미 먹는 것 같아요.
c) 이미 먹을 것 같아요.
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a) 이미 먹은 것 같아요.
(It seems like they already ate.)
Past inference — use V-ㄴ/은 것 같아요.
G. Someone is talking very fast. You observe it to a friend.
a) 너무 빨리 말하는 것 같아요.
b) 너무 빨리 말한 것 같아요.
c) 너무 빨리 말할 것 같아요.
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a) 너무 빨리 말하는 것 같아요.
(They seem to be talking too fast.)
Ongoing action you can observe — V-는 것 같아요.
H. The presentation will probably run long. How do you warn a colleague?
a) 발표가 길어지는 것 같아요.
b) 발표가 길어질 것 같아요.
c) 발표가 길어진 것 같아요.
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b) 발표가 길어질 것 같아요.
(The presentation seems like it'll run long.)
I. The café looks quiet today. How do you comment?
a) 오늘 카페가 조용한 것 같아요.
b) 오늘 카페가 조용할 것 같아요.
c) 오늘 카페가 조용하는 것 같아요.
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a) 오늘 카페가 조용한 것 같아요.
(The café seems quiet today.)
J. You think the new student already knows a lot of Korean. How do you express this?
a) 한국어를 많이 아는 것 같아요.
b) 한국어를 많이 알 것 같아요.
c) 한국어를 많이 안 것 같아요.
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a) 한국어를 많이 아는 것 같아요.
(They seem to know a lot of Korean.)
알다 is a state verb — use -는 것 같아요 for the current state.
Form Quick Guide
Form | Signal Word |
Adj-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 | How it looks/seems right now |
V-는 것 같아요 | What someone seems to be doing |
V/Adj-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 (past) | What seems to have happened |
V-ㄹ/을 것 같아요 | What seems likely to happen |
Common Mistake
Using -는 것 같아요 with adjectives is wrong. Adjectives use -ㄴ/은 것 같아요, not -는 것 같아요.
❌ 비싸는 것 같아요
✅ 비싼 것 같아요
Action verbs use -는 것 같아요 for present/ongoing actions. Keep these separate!
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Exercise 2 — Korean → English Translation
Translate each sentence into natural English.
A. 오늘 날씨가 좀 흐린 것 같아요.
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The weather seems a little cloudy today.
B. 그 사람이 열심히 공부하는 것 같아요.
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That person seems to be studying really hard.
C. 회의가 이미 시작한 것 같아요.
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It seems like the meeting has already started.
D. 오늘 일이 늦게 끝날 것 같아요.
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It seems like work will end late today.
E. 이 카페 커피가 정말 맛있는 것 같아요.
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The coffee at this café seems really good.
F. 동료가 좀 피곤한 것 같아요.
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My colleague seems a little tired.
G. 그 사람이 아까 뭔가를 말한 것 같아요.
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It seems like that person said something earlier.
H. 내일 비가 올 것 같아요.
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It seems like it'll rain tomorrow.
I. 일정이 좀 빡빡한 것 같아요.
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The schedule seems a little tight.
J. 친구가 기다리고 있는 것 같아요.
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It seems like my friend is waiting.
Vocabulary Cheat Sheet
Korean | English |
흐리다 | to be cloudy |
피곤하다 | to be tired |
빡빡하다 | to be tight, hectic |
기다리다 | to wait |
시작하다 | to start, begin |
끝나다 | to end, finish |
아까 | earlier, a little while ago |
뭔가 | something |
Grammar Tip
Notice that 맛있는 것 같아요 uses -는 (not -ㄴ/은) because 맛있다 acts more like an action in certain contexts. When in doubt with 있다 / 없다 compounds, use -는 것 같아요. Examples: 맛있는 것 같아요, 재미있는 것 같아요, 관심 있는 것 같아요.
Exercise 3 — Complete the Sentence
Fill in the blank with the correct -는 것 같아요 form.
A. 오늘 날씨가 좀 __ 것 같아요. (The weather seems a little cold today. / 춥다)*
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추운
→ 오늘 날씨가 좀 추운 것 같아요.
B. 그 사람이 지금 전화 __ 것 같아요. (They seem to be on the phone right now. / 하다)*
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하는
→ 그 사람이 지금 전화하는 것 같아요.
C. 회의가 이미 __ 것 같아요. (The meeting seems to have already ended. / 끝나다)*
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끝난
→ 회의가 이미 끝난 것 같아요.
D. 내일 눈이 __ 것 같아요. (It seems like it'll snow tomorrow. / 오다)*
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올
→ 내일 눈이 올 것 같아요.
E. 이 가방이 좀 __ 것 같아요. (This bag seems a little heavy. / 무겁다)*
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무거운
→ 이 가방이 좀 무거운 것 같아요.
F. 저 분이 열심히 __ 것 같아요. (That person seems to be working hard. / 일하다)*
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일하는
→ 저 분이 열심히 일하는 것 같아요.
G. 친구가 이미 __ 것 같아요. (It seems like my friend already went home. / 집에 가다)*
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집에 간
→ 친구가 이미 집에 간 것 같아요.
H. 오늘 일이 일찍 __ 것 같아요. (It seems like work will end early today. / 끝나다)*
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끝날
→ 오늘 일이 일찍 끝날 것 같아요.
I. 저 카페가 __ 것 같아요. (That café seems popular. / 인기 있다)*
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인기 있는
→ 저 카페가 인기 있는 것 같아요.
J. 친구가 지금 __ 것 같아요. (It seems like my friend is sleeping right now. / 자다)*
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자는
→ 친구가 지금 자는 것 같아요.
Sentence Starters
Form | Ending |
Adjective (current state) | -ㄴ/은 것 같아요 |
Action verb (ongoing) | -는 것 같아요 |
Past (action/state) | -ㄴ/은 것 같아요 |
Future/guess | -ㄹ/을 것 같아요 |
있다/없다 | -는 것 같아요 |
Production Tip
When you can't decide which form to use, think: is this about a current state (adjective → -ㄴ/은), something happening right now (action verb → -는), something already done (past → -ㄴ/은), or a guess about the future (-ㄹ/을)? Sorting by time will give you the right form every time.
Exercise 4 — Dialogue Completion
Complete each dialogue using the most natural -는 것 같아요 form.
A.
Friend: 저 사람 왜 이렇게 조용해요?
You: 좀 __ 것 같아요. 어제 야근했다고 했어요. (피곤하다 / tired)
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피곤한
→ 좀 피곤한 것 같아요. 어제 야근했다고 했어요.
(They seem a little tired. They said they worked late last night.)
B.
Colleague: 회의 몇 시에 시작해요?
You: 이미 __ 것 같아요. 빨리 가요. (시작하다 / to start)
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시작한
→ 이미 시작한 것 같아요. 빨리 가요.
(It seems like it already started. Let's hurry.)
C.
Friend: 오늘 날씨 어때요?
You: 좀 __ 것 같아요. 우산 챙기세요. (흐리다 / cloudy)
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흐린
→ 좀 흐린 것 같아요. 우산 챙기세요.
(It seems a little cloudy. Take an umbrella.)
D.
Friend: 저 식당 어때요?
You: 좀 __ 것 같아요. 다른 데 가요. (비싸다 / expensive)
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비싼
→ 좀 비싼 것 같아요. 다른 데 가요.
(It seems a little expensive. Let's go somewhere else.)
E.
Friend: 내일 행사에 많이 올까요?
You: 네, 많이 __ 것 같아요. 일찍 가야 할 것 같아요. (오다 / to come)
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올
→ 많이 올 것 같아요. 일찍 가야 할 것 같아요.
(It seems like a lot of people will come. I think we should go early.)
F.
Colleague: 그 팀장님 지금 어디 있어요?
You: 회의실에서 __ 것 같아요. (통화하다 / to be on a call)
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통화하는
→ 회의실에서 통화하는 것 같아요.
(They seem to be on a call in the meeting room.)
G.
Friend: 이 숙제 어려워요?
You: 좀 __ 것 같아요. 같이 해요. (복잡하다 / complicated)
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복잡한
→ 좀 복잡한 것 같아요. 같이 해요.
(It seems a little complicated. Let's do it together.)
H.
Colleague: 왜 사무실이 이렇게 조용해요?
You: 오늘 다들 재택근무 __ 것 같아요. (하다 / to do)
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하는
→ 오늘 다들 재택근무하는 것 같아요.
(It seems like everyone is working from home today.)
I.
Friend: 오늘 지하철 왜 이렇게 느려요?
You: 앞에 뭔가 __ 것 같아요. (생기다 / something happened)
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생긴
→ 앞에 뭔가 생긴 것 같아요.
(It seems like something happened up ahead.)
J.
Friend: 저 사람 한국어 잘해요?
You: 네, 많이 __ 것 같아요. (알다 / to know)
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아는
→ 네, 많이 아는 것 같아요.
(Yes, they seem to know a lot.)
Useful Phrases
Korean | English |
야근하다 | to work overtime / work late |
우산 챙기다 | to bring an umbrella |
통화하다 | to be on a phone call |
재택근무 | working from home |
복잡하다 | to be complicated |
뭔가 생기다 | something happened |
다들 | everyone, all of them |
Conversation Tip
When someone asks a question and you're not sure of the answer, -는 것 같아요 is a natural hedge: 아마 그런 것 같아요 (I think that's probably the case). Pairing it with 아마 (probably) makes your guess sound even more natural and honest.
Exercise 5 — Free Speaking Practice
Use the correct -는 것 같아요 form to respond naturally to each prompt.
A. You walk into a restaurant and it looks really popular. Comment on it to your friend.
Starter: 이 식당이 인기 있는 것 같아요...
B. You notice your coworker is concentrating hard at their desk. Mention it to a colleague.
Starter: 저 분이 엄청 집중하는 것 같아요...
C. You think the meeting finished already — the room is empty. Say this to a colleague.
Starter: 회의가 이미 끝난 것 같아요...
D. The sky is getting dark and you predict rain. Warn your friend to take an umbrella.
Starter: 비가 올 것 같아요...
E. The new café near your office looks expensive. Suggest a different option.
Starter: 저기 좀 비싼 것 같아요...
F. Your friend seems tired today. Ask them about it gently.
Starter: 오늘 좀 피곤한 것 같아요...
G. You think tomorrow's event will have a lot of people. Suggest going early.
Starter: 내일 사람이 많이 올 것 같아요...
H. You notice someone in the café is studying really hard.
Starter: 저 분 진짜 열심히 공부하는 것 같아요...
I. The homework looks complicated. Suggest working together.
Starter: 이 숙제 좀 복잡한 것 같아요...
J. You think your friend already went home — they're not at the office.
Starter: 친구가 이미 집에 간 것 같아요...
Sentence Starters
Form | When to Use |
Adj-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 | Describing how something seems |
V-는 것 같아요 | Observing an ongoing action |
V/Adj-ㄴ/은 것 같아요 | Inferring something past |
V-ㄹ/을 것 같아요 | Predicting something future |
Speaking Challenge
Try adding context to each sentence: [Observation in -는 것 같아요] + [Reason or implication]. Example: 비가 올 것 같아요. 우산 챙기는 게 좋을 것 같아요. Using two -는 것 같아요 forms back-to-back is a very natural Korean speaking pattern and sounds genuinely fluent.
-는 것 같아요 — 하나의 표현, 무한한 부드러움! 🔍✨
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