Proposing a Casual Meetup
How to suggest hanging out in a natural, low-pressure way
Iru Helper Note
Koreans often soften casual plans with 혹시 (just in case) and 우리 (we/let's) to make invitations feel relaxed rather than formal.
우리 다음에 한번 봐요.
(Let's get together sometime.)
☕ What You'll Learn Today
In this lesson you'll learn how to casually suggest meeting up in Korean — from the initial soft invite to picking a time and place. Korean casual hangout proposals tend to be relaxed and indirect, using phrases like 한번 (sometime/once) and 시간 되면 (if you have time) to keep things low-pressure. By the end, you'll be able to smoothly propose plans without sounding too formal or too demanding.
📌 Casual Meetup Expressions
Expression | Meaning | Notes |
우리 한번 봐요 | Let's hang out sometime | 한번 = once/sometime; keeps it casual |
시간 되면 | If you have time | Very common soft opener |
이번 주말에 뭐 해요? | What are you doing this weekend? | Natural way to check availability before proposing |
같이 밥 먹어요 | Let's eat together | Simple, direct, casual |
커피 한잔 어때요? | How about a coffee? | 한잔 = one cup; classic low-key invite |
같이 가요 | Let's go together | Can attach to any activity |
오랜만에 봐요 | Let's catch up (it's been a while) | Use after not seeing someone for a while |
같이 뭐 할까요? | What should we do together? | Invites the other person to suggest |
제가 좋은 데 알아요 | I know a good place | Sets up a venue suggestion |
부담 없이 | No pressure / Casually | Signals the invite is low-key |
가볍게 | Lightly / Casually | 가볍게 한잔 = a casual drink |
언제 시간 돼요? | When are you free? | After they agree, pin down a time |
저도 좋아요 | I'd like that too / That works for me | Agreeing to a meetup proposal |
좋죠! | Sounds great! / That's great! | Enthusiastic informal agreement |
그럼 언제가 좋아요? | So when is good for you? | Moving from agreement to planning |
💡 Key pattern: 시간 되면 + [activity] + 어때요? = If you have time, how about [activity]?
💬 Conversations in Action
Suggesting a coffee catch-up
지수: 오랜만이에요! 요즘 어때요? (Long time no see! How have you been?)
민준: 잘 지냈어요! 우리 시간 되면 커피 한잔 어때요? (I've been well! If you have time, how about a coffee?)
지수: 좋죠! 이번 주말에 시간 돼요? (Sounds great! Are you free this weekend?)
민준: 네, 토요일 오후가 좋아요. 제가 좋은 카페 알아요. (Yes, Saturday afternoon is good. I know a nice café.)
Casual weekend plan
혜진: 이번 주말에 뭐 해요? (What are you doing this weekend?)
태양: 딱히 없어요. 왜요? (Nothing in particular. Why?)
혜진: 그럼 같이 밥 먹어요! 부담 없이 가볍게요. (Then let's eat together! Nice and casual.)
태양: 좋아요! 그럼 언제가 좋아요? (Sounds good! So when is good for you?)
🌏 Cultural Note — 한번 봐요 Culture
In Korean, 우리 한번 봐요 (let's hang out sometime) is often said as a warm social signal rather than a firm commitment. It expresses goodwill and openness to meeting. To make it a real plan, you need to follow up with 언제 시간 돼요? (when are you free?) and set a specific time. If someone says 한번 봐요 but doesn't follow up, it's not rude — it's part of the social warmth of Korean interaction. But if you actually want to meet, be the one to take the next step and suggest a concrete time.
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Practice proposing a casual meetup. For each prompt, say the full invite out loud in Korean.
A. Ask a friend if they're free this weekend before proposing anything.
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이번 주말에 뭐 해요? (What are you doing this weekend?)
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B. Suggest getting coffee casually, low-pressure.
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시간 되면 커피 한잔 어때요? (If you have time, how about a coffee?)
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C. Suggest eating together in the simplest way possible.
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같이 밥 먹어요! (Let's eat together!)
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D. Say it's been a while and propose catching up.
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오랜만에 봐요! 우리 한번 봐요. (Let's catch up! Let's hang out sometime.)
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E. Propose a casual hangout, emphasizing no pressure.
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부담 없이 가볍게 한번 만나요. (Let's meet up casually, no pressure.)
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F. Tell a friend you know a good place and suggest going.
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제가 좋은 데 알아요. 같이 가요! (I know a good place. Let's go together!)
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G. Agree enthusiastically when someone proposes a meetup.
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좋죠! 저도 좋아요. (Sounds great! I'd like that too.)
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H. After agreeing, ask when they're free.
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언제 시간 돼요? (When are you free?)
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I. Move from availability check to suggesting Saturday afternoon.
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그럼 토요일 오후가 어때요? (Then how about Saturday afternoon?)
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J. Wrap up the plan by saying Saturday works and you'll confirm the place later.
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토요일 좋아요! 장소는 나중에 정해요. (Saturday's great! Let's decide the place later.)
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Expression Reference
Expression | Nuance/Key |
우리 한번 봐요 | Soft/casual "let's meet" |
시간 되면 | If you have time |
이번 주말에 뭐 해요? | Check availability first |
같이 밥 먹어요 | Simple direct invite |
커피 한잔 어때요? | Classic casual invite |
부담 없이 | No pressure |
가볍게 | Casually / lightly |
제가 좋은 데 알아요 | I know a good place |
언제 시간 돼요? | When are you free? |
좋죠! | Sounds great! |
Pattern Tip
The 3-step casual invite: (1) Check: 이번 주말에 뭐 해요? (2) Propose: 시간 되면 [activity] 어때요? (3) Pin down: 언제가 좋아요? Following this order makes the invite feel natural and low-pressure rather than sudden.
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Want more reps?
Try making the same invite in different ways — 커피 한잔 어때요? vs. 같이 커피 마셔요 vs. 커피나 한잔 해요? Each sounds slightly different but all work. Getting comfortable with multiple forms makes you sound natural.
📦 Practice Hub — Casual Meetup Proposals
Exercise 1 — Choose the Right Expression
Pick the most natural expression for each situation.
A. You want to softly check if a friend is free before inviting them anywhere.
(1) 같이 가요 (2) 이번 주말에 뭐 해요? (3) 언제 시간 돼요? (4) 좋죠!
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(2) 이번 주말에 뭐 해요? — checking their schedule before proposing is the most natural approach. It creates space for them to say they're busy without awkwardness.
B. You want to suggest a casual coffee with no pressure.
(1) 밥 먹어요 (2) 같이 가요 (3) 시간 되면 커피 한잔 어때요? (4) 언제 시간 돼요?
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(3) 시간 되면 커피 한잔 어때요? — 시간 되면 = if you have time; 한잔 = one cup (casual). This is the classic low-pressure invite.
C. You want to say "let's hang out sometime" warmly but without setting a date.
(1) 우리 한번 봐요 (2) 언제 시간 돼요? (3) 그럼 언제가 좋아요? (4) 좋아요
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(1) 우리 한번 봐요 — this is the warm social signal for "let's get together sometime" without locking in a date. The others are already moving to planning.
D. You want to propose the simplest possible joint activity.
(1) 부담 없이 한번 봐요 (2) 같이 밥 먹어요 (3) 제가 좋은 데 알아요 (4) 가볍게 만나요
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(2) 같이 밥 먹어요 — four syllables, direct, and completely natural. "Let's eat together" is the easiest casual invite in Korean.
E. You want to say "no pressure" to make your invite feel light.
(1) 어때요 (2) 꼭 와요 (3) 부담 없이 (4) 같이 가요
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(3) 부담 없이 — this literally means "without burden/pressure" and is the go-to phrase for signaling a low-key casual plan.
F. You want to agree enthusiastically to a meetup proposal.
(1) 알겠어요 (2) 좋죠! (3) 그래요 (4) 나중에요
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(2) 좋죠! — the most enthusiastic and natural affirmative response to a casual invite. 알겠어요 is more like "understood," 그래요 is neutral.
G. You want to ask when someone is free after they agree.
(1) 어디 가요? (2) 몇 시예요? (3) 언제 시간 돼요? (4) 어때요?
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(3) 언제 시간 돼요? — "When are you free?" This is the natural follow-up once both people are on board and you need to pin down a time.
H. You want to say you know a good place to visit together.
(1) 제가 좋은 데 알아요 (2) 좋은 곳이에요 (3) 거기 가요 (4) 아는 데 있어요
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(1) 제가 좋은 데 알아요 — the most natural set phrase for "I know a good place." 아는 데 있어요 is grammatical but not standard for this context.
I. You want to agree that Saturday afternoon is good.
(1) 토요일이에요 (2) 토요일 오후 좋아요 (3) 토요일은요 (4) 그때 봐요
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(2) 토요일 오후 좋아요 — simple confirmation of the proposed time. Natural and complete.
J. You want to wrap up by saying you'll decide the place later.
(1) 나중에 봐요 (2) 나중에 연락해요 (3) 장소는 나중에 정해요 (4) 나중에 알아요
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(3) 장소는 나중에 정해요 — 장소 = place, 정하다 = to decide. "Let's decide the place later" is the natural wrap-up when timing is settled but venue isn't.
Quick Reference
Expression | Meaning |
이번 주말에 뭐 해요? | What are you doing this weekend? |
시간 되면 | If you have time |
커피 한잔 어때요? | How about a coffee? |
우리 한번 봐요 | Let's hang out sometime |
같이 밥 먹어요 | Let's eat together |
부담 없이 | No pressure |
좋죠! | Sounds great! |
언제 시간 돼요? | When are you free? |
제가 좋은 데 알아요 | I know a good place |
장소는 나중에 정해요 | Let's decide the place later |
Pitfall
Don't jump straight to 언제 시간 돼요? before proposing anything — this skips the invite entirely and can feel presumptuous. The natural order is: check availability → propose → agree → set time. Skipping the proposal step makes the conversation feel rushed.
Exercise 2 — Korean → English Translation
Translate each sentence naturally into English.
A. 이번 주말에 뭐 해요?
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What are you doing this weekend?
B. 시간 되면 커피 한잔 어때요?
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If you have time, how about a coffee?
C. 우리 한번 봐요.
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Let's hang out sometime.
D. 부담 없이 가볍게 한번 만나요.
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Let's meet up casually, no pressure.
E. 제가 좋은 데 알아요. 같이 가요!
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I know a good place. Let's go together!
F. 좋죠! 언제 시간 돼요?
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Sounds great! When are you free?
G. 토요일 오후가 어때요?
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How about Saturday afternoon?
H. 장소는 나중에 정해요.
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Let's decide the place later.
I. 오랜만에 봐요! 우리 한번 봐요.
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Let's catch up! Let's hang out sometime.
J. 저도 좋아요. 그럼 언제가 좋아요?
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I'd like that too. So when is good for you?
Vocabulary Cheat Sheet
Word | Meaning |
이번 주말 | This weekend |
시간 되다 | To have time / be free |
한잔 | One cup (casual) |
한번 | Once / sometime |
부담 없이 | Without pressure |
가볍게 | Lightly / casually |
제가 | I (humble) |
오랜만에 | After a long time |
장소 | Place / venue |
정하다 | To decide / settle |
Grammar Tip
시간 되면 = 시간 + 되다 (to become/be available) + ~면 (if). 시간 돼요? (Are you free?) and 시간 되면 (if you're free) both use 되다. This single verb covers both "time is available" and "is it okay." Don't use 있다 here — 시간 있어요 is understood but 시간 돼요 is more natural for scheduling.
Exercise 3 — Complete the Sentence
Fill in the blank with the correct word or phrase.
A. 이번 ___말에 뭐 해요? (this weekend)
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주 — 이번 주말 = this weekend.
B. 시간 ___면 커피 한잔 어때요? (if you have time)
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되 — 시간 되면 = if you have time.
C. 커피 ___잔 어때요? (one cup)
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한 — 한잔 = one cup, classic casual drink invite.
D. 우리 ___번 봐요. (sometime)
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한 — 한번 = once/sometime.
E. ___ 없이 가볍게 만나요. (no pressure)
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부담 — 부담 없이 = without pressure.
F. 제가 좋은 ___ 알아요. (place)
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데 — 데 = place/spot (informal).
G. 좋___! 언제 시간 돼요? (sounds great!)
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죠 — 좋죠! = sounds great! / isn't it good!
H. 언제 ___간 돼요? (when are you free)
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시 — 시간 = time.
I. 장소는 ___에 정해요. (later)
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나중 — 나중에 = later.
J. 그럼 ___일 오후가 어때요? (Saturday)
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토요 — 토요일 = Saturday.
Sentence Starters
Pattern | Use |
이번 주말에 뭐 해요? | Check availability |
시간 되면 ~ 어때요? | Soft invite |
우리 한번 봐요 | Warm vague invite |
같이 밥 먹어요 | Simple direct invite |
부담 없이 | Signal: casual |
좋죠! | Enthusiastic agree |
언제 시간 돼요? | Pin down time |
제가 좋은 데 알아요 | Venue setup |
장소는 나중에 정해요 | Defer venue |
그럼 ~로 정해요 | Confirm plan |
Production Tip
한번 (once/sometime) softens any invite. 밥 먹어요 is a direct request; 한번 밥 먹어요 is a casual suggestion. Adding 한번 also reduces the chance of rejection because it signals flexibility rather than a fixed demand.
Exercise 4 — Dialogue Completion
Complete B's response in each exchange.
A. A: 이번 주말에 뭐 해요? / B: 딱히 _. 왜요?
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딱히 없어요. 왜요? (Nothing in particular. Why?)
B. A: 그럼 같이 밥 ___요! / B: 좋죠!
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A: 그럼 같이 밥 먹어요! (Then let's eat together!) B: 좋죠! (Sounds great!)
C. A: 언제가 좋아요? / B: 저는 토요일 ___가 좋아요.
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저는 토요일 오후가 좋아요. (Saturday afternoon is good for me.)
D. A: 어디서 만날까요? / B: 제가 좋은 ___ 알아요. 제가 정할게요.
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제가 좋은 데 알아요. 제가 정할게요. (I know a good place. I'll decide.)
E. A: 오랜만이에요! / B: 맞아요! 우리 ___봐요.
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맞아요! 우리 한번 봐요. (Right! Let's hang out sometime.)
F. A: 정말요? 좋아요. 언제가 좋아요? / B: 언제 시간 ___요?
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언제 시간 돼요? (When are you free?)
G. A: 저는 금요일이 좋아요. / B: 저도 ___. 금요일로 해요.
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저도 좋아요. 금요일로 해요. (That works for me too. Let's do Friday.)
H. A: 장소는요? / B: 장소는 ___에 정해요.
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장소는 나중에 정해요. (Let's decide the place later.)
I. A: 좀 부담스러울 수 있어요. / B: 아니에요, ___ 없이 가볍게요!
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아니에요, 부담 없이 가볍게요! (No, it's casual — no pressure!)
J. A: 커피 한잔 어때요? / B: 좋! 시간 면 지금 어때요?
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좋죠! 시간 되면 지금 어때요? (Sounds great! If you have time, how about now?)
Useful Phrases
Phrase | Meaning |
딱히 없어요 | Nothing in particular |
좋죠! | Sounds great! |
저도 좋아요 | That works for me too |
제가 정할게요 | I'll decide |
금요일로 해요 | Let's do Friday |
나중에 정해요 | Decide later |
지금 어때요? | How about now? |
부담 없이 가볍게 | Casual, no pressure |
맞아요! | Right! / Exactly! |
언제 시간 돼요? | When are you free? |
Conversation Tip
When your friend doesn't specify a time or place, take the lead: 제가 좋은 데 알아요 (I know a good place) + 제가 정할게요 (I'll decide). Taking initiative is considered considerate in Korean social settings — it removes the burden from the other person and moves the plan forward.
Exercise 5 — Free Speaking Practice
Answer each prompt out loud in Korean using lesson expressions.
A. Run into a friend you haven't seen in a while and suggest getting together.
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오랜만이에요! 우리 시간 되면 한번 봐요. 커피 한잔 어때요? (Long time no see! Let's hang out sometime when you have time. How about a coffee?)
B. Check a friend's availability before proposing anything.
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이번 주말에 뭐 해요? 혹시 시간 돼요? (What are you doing this weekend? Are you free by any chance?)
C. Propose a casual meal, emphasizing it's low-key.
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부담 없이 가볍게 같이 밥 먹어요. 제가 좋은 데 알아요! (Let's eat together casually — no pressure. I know a good place!)
D. Agree enthusiastically to a meetup and ask when they're free.
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좋죠! 저도 좋아요. 언제 시간 돼요? (Sounds great! I'd like that too. When are you free?)
E. Confirm Saturday afternoon as the meetup time.
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그럼 토요일 오후로 정해요! 토요일 오후 괜찮아요? (Then let's go with Saturday afternoon! Is Saturday afternoon okay?)
F. Wrap up the plan — time is set, but say you'll figure out the place later.
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좋아요! 그럼 토요일 오후에 봐요. 장소는 나중에 정해요. (Great! Then see you Saturday afternoon. Let's decide the place later.)
G. Propose doing something together without being specific about what.
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시간 되면 같이 뭐 할까요? 부담 없이요. (If you have time, what should we do together? No pressure.)
H. Tell your friend you know a nice café and suggest going.
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제가 좋은 카페 알아요. 같이 가요! 커피 맛있는 데예요. (I know a nice café. Let's go together! It's a place with great coffee.)
I. Handle the full casual meetup flow from greeting to confirmed plan.
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오랜만이에요! 이번 주말에 뭐 해요? 시간 되면 커피 한잔 어때요? [Friend: 좋죠!] 그럼 토요일 오후가 어때요? [Friend: 좋아요] 토요일 오후로 해요! 장소는 제가 정할게요. (Long time no see! What are you doing this weekend? If you have time, how about a coffee? [Friend: Sounds great!] Then how about Saturday afternoon? [Friend: Good] Let's go with Saturday afternoon! I'll decide the place.)
J. Respond warmly when a friend suggests meeting up.
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좋죠! 저도 오랜만에 보고 싶었어요. 언제가 좋아요? (Sounds great! I've been wanting to see you after so long too. When is good for you?)
Sentence Starters
Starter | Use |
이번 주말에 뭐 해요? | Availability check |
시간 되면 ~ 어때요? | Soft invite |
우리 한번 봐요 | Warm vague invite |
부담 없이 가볍게 | Signal: low-key |
제가 좋은 데 알아요 | Venue lead-in |
좋죠! / 저도 좋아요 | Enthusiastic agree |
언제 시간 돼요? | Pin down time |
~오후로 해요 | Confirm time |
장소는 나중에 정해요 | Defer venue |
제가 정할게요 | I'll decide |
Speaking Challenge
Role-play the full casual invite flow: you run into a friend, check their availability, propose something specific, agree on a time, and leave the place for later. Try to do the whole exchange in under 60 seconds.
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