Persuading Someone to See Your Point

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Persuading Someone to See Your Point

How to make your case, give reasons, and bring someone around — politely

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Iru Helper Note

Persuasion in Korean isn't about being aggressive — it's about being clear, reasoned, and considerate. The goal is to help someone see your perspective while making it easy for them to agree. Today you'll learn how to make a case, give examples, and bring someone around naturally.

이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 제 생각에는 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요.

(How about thinking about it this way? I think this approach seems more effective.)

💡 What You'll Learn Today

You can share opinions, add information, and partially agree. Now it's time to put all of that together to persuade. Today's lesson covers how to present your view, back it up with reasons and examples, and frame your suggestion so the other person feels genuinely considered — not pressured.

📌 Persuasion Expressions

Setting Up Your Case

왜냐하면... — Because... / The reason is...

→ Used to introduce the reason for your view. Always followed by the reason.

→ 제 생각에는 이 방법이 나아요. 왜냐하면 시간이 덜 걸리거든요.

→ (I think this approach is better. Because it takes less time.)

예를 들어... — For example...

→ Used to add a concrete example to your argument.

→ 예를 들어, 저도 처음에는 이 방법으로 했는데 훨씬 빠르게 됐어요.

→ (For example, I also used this method at first and things went much faster.)

이렇게 생각해보면... — If you think about it this way...

→ Invites the other person to try your perspective without forcing it.

Making Your Suggestion

이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. — I think this approach seems more effective.

이렇게 하면 어떨까요? — How about doing it this way? (combines persuasion + soft suggestion)

한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. — I don't think it would hurt to try it once.

→ Low-pressure. Great for when someone is hesitant.

한번 생각해봐요. — Think about it for a moment.

→ Gentle invitation to consider your point. Not pushy.

Acknowledging Their View First

일리가 있어요, 그렇지만... — (From lesson 2) That makes sense, but...

어느 정도는 동의해요, 다만... — (From lesson 2) I partly agree, but...

💡 Key strategy: The most effective Korean persuasion starts by acknowledging the other person's view, then presenting your case with reasons and examples. Going straight to "but you should do X" sounds abrupt.

💬 Conversations in Action

Dialogue 1 — Suggesting a different method at work

민준: 지금 방식으로 계속 할게요.

(I'll keep going with the current method.)

지유: 일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 왜냐하면 이 방법을 쓰면 시간이 절반으로 줄 수 있거든요. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요.

(That makes sense. But how about thinking about it this way? Because using this method could cut the time in half. I don't think it would hurt to try.)

Dialogue 2 — Persuading a friend to try a new approach

수아: 저는 이미 다른 방법으로 하고 있어요.

(I'm already doing it another way.)

도윤: 어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 예를 들어, 제 생각에는 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. 게다가 비용도 적게 들거든요.

(I partly agree. But for example, I think this method seems more effective. Furthermore, it also costs less.)

🌏 Cultural Note — Persuasion and Hierarchy in Korean Communication

In Korean workplaces and social settings, persuading someone of higher rank requires a different approach than persuading a peer. With seniors, it's important to frame your suggestion as a question (이렇게 하면 어떨까요?) rather than a declaration. With peers, you can be slightly more direct. In both cases, starting with acknowledgment (일리가 있어요, 그렇지만...) shows respect. The most persuasive Koreans are often the ones who seem the least pushy — they help the other person arrive at the conclusion themselves.

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For each situation, make your case using today's persuasion expressions. A natural sample response is inside each toggle.

A. A colleague wants to send a long email. You think a quick call would be faster. Make your case.

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이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 왜냐하면 전화로 하면 훨씬 빠를 것 같거든요. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (How about thinking about it this way? Because doing it by phone would probably be much faster. I don't think it would hurt to try.)

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B. A friend wants to study alone. You think studying with a partner is more effective. Persuade them gently.

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어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 제 생각에는 같이 공부하는 게 더 효과적인 것 같아요. 왜냐하면 서로 설명하면서 더 잘 이해할 수 있거든요. (I partly agree. But I think studying together seems more effective. Because you can understand better by explaining things to each other.)

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C. A colleague prefers the old software. You think the new version is better. Make your case.

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일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 예를 들어, 새 버전을 써보면 작업 속도가 훨씬 빨라지는 것 같아요. 한번 생각해봐요. (That makes sense. But for example, using the new version seems to significantly speed up the work. Think about it for a moment.)

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D. A friend isn't sure about trying a new restaurant. Persuade them to give it a chance.

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왜냐하면 거기 음식이 정말 신선하고 가격도 합리적이거든요. 게다가 분위기도 좋아요. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (Because the food there is really fresh and the prices are reasonable. Furthermore, the atmosphere is nice. I don't think it would hurt to try.)

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E. A colleague wants to present their plan without preparation. Persuade them to prepare more carefully.

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이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 왜냐하면 준비를 좀 더 하면 발표 결과가 훨씬 좋아질 수 있거든요. 한번 생각해봐요. (How about thinking about it this way? Because preparing a bit more could significantly improve the presentation result. Think about it for a moment.)

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F. A friend thinks a certain area is too expensive to live in. Persuade them to reconsider.

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어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 예를 들어, 교통비가 줄어들면 전체적으로 비용이 비슷할 수도 있거든요. (I partly agree. But how about thinking about it this way? For example, if the transportation costs decrease, the overall costs might be similar.)

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G. Your team is using an inefficient process. Persuade them to try a new one.

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제 생각에는 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. 왜냐하면 단계가 더 적어서 실수도 줄어들 수 있거든요. 게다가 시간도 절약할 수 있어요. (I think this method seems more effective. Because there are fewer steps, which could also reduce mistakes. Furthermore, it can also save time.)

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H. A colleague doubts whether a training session is worth attending. Persuade them.

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한번 생각해봐요. 왜냐하면 이런 교육이 나중에 실제로 도움이 될 수 있거든요. 게다가 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (Think about it for a moment. Because this kind of training could actually be helpful later. Furthermore, I don't think it would hurt to try.)

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I. A friend doesn't think daily Korean practice is necessary. Persuade them to reconsider.

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일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 예를 들어, 매일 조금씩 하면 기억에 훨씬 오래 남거든요. 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. (That makes sense. But for example, doing a little every day makes things stick in memory much longer. This method seems more effective.)

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J. Someone on your team is overwhelmed and wants to do everything alone. Gently persuade them to ask for help.

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이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 혼자 다 하기보다 도움을 요청하면 더 빨리 끝낼 수 있을 거예요. 왜냐하면 같이 하면 아이디어도 더 많이 나오거든요. (How about thinking about it this way? Rather than doing it all alone, asking for help would let you finish faster. Because doing it together generates more ideas.)

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Expression Reference

Expression	Nuance
왜냐하면...	Because / The reason is
예를 들어...	For example
이렇게 생각해보면...	If you think about it this way
이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요	This seems more effective
이렇게 하면 어떨까요?	How about doing it this way?
한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요	It wouldn't hurt to try
한번 생각해봐요	Think about it for a moment

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Persuasion Formula

The most natural Korean persuasion follows this pattern: (1) Acknowledge their view (일리가 있어요 / 어느 정도는 동의해요). (2) Introduce your case (이렇게 생각해보면 / 왜냐하면). (3) Add a reason or example (왜냐하면 / 예를 들어). (4) Close with a soft invitation (한번 생각해봐요 / 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요).

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Want more reps?

Pick any opinion you've expressed this week and practice backing it up with 왜냐하면 and 예를 들어. Being able to give reasons for your views is one of the most important steps from intermediate to advanced Korean conversation.

📦 Practice Hub — 설득 (Persuasion)

Exercise 1 — Choose the Right Expression

Situation: Each item below gives you a persuasion moment. Choose the most natural expression from the box on the right.

A. You want to start your reason. Which expression do you use?

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왜냐하면 (Because / The reason is)

B. You want to give a concrete example to back up your point.

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예를 들어 (For example)

C. You want to invite someone to consider your perspective without pressure.

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이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? (How about thinking about it this way?)

D. You want to say your suggestion is more effective.

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이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. (I think this method seems more effective.)

E. Someone is hesitant. You want to say it's low-risk to just try.

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한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (I don't think it would hurt to try.)

F. You want to gently invite someone to take a moment and consider your point.

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한번 생각해봐요. (Think about it for a moment.)

G. You want to acknowledge their view before making your case. (Lesson 2 expression)

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일리가 있어요, 그렇지만... (That makes sense, but...)

H. You want to say you partly agree before adding your point. (Lesson 2 expression)

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어느 정도는 동의해요, 다만... (I partly agree, but...)

I. You want to stack an additional reason on top of your first one. (Lesson 3 expression)

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게다가 (Furthermore)

J. You want to say your proposal might be better.

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이렇게 하면 어떨까요? (How about doing it this way?)

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Quick Reference

Expression	Use
왜냐하면	Introduce your reason
예를 들어	Give a concrete example
이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요?	Invite a new perspective
이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요	Say your way is better
한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요	Low-pressure try suggestion
한번 생각해봐요	Gentle invite to consider
이렇게 하면 어떨까요?	Soft proposal

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Pitfall

Don't jump straight into your argument. Starting with 왜냐하면 without first acknowledging the other person sounds blunt. Pair it with 일리가 있어요, 그렇지만 or 어느 정도는 동의해요, 다만 first.

Exercise 2 — Korean → English Translation

Translate these persuasion sentences into natural English.

A. 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요?

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How about thinking about it this way?

B. 왜냐하면 이 방법이 시간을 절약할 수 있거든요.

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Because this method can save time.

C. 예를 들어, 저도 처음에 이 방법으로 했는데 훨씬 빨리 됐어요.

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For example, I also did it this way at first, and it went much faster.

D. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요.

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I don't think it would hurt to try it once.

E. 일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요.

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That makes sense. But I think this method seems more effective.

F. 어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 이렇게 하면 어떨까요?

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I partly agree. But how about doing it this way?

G. 게다가 비용도 덜 들 것 같아요.

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Furthermore, I think it might cost less too.

H. 한번 생각해봐요. 왜냐하면 나중에 도움이 될 수도 있거든요.

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Think about it for a moment. Because it might be helpful later.

I. 제 생각에는 이렇게 하는 게 더 나을 것 같아요.

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I think doing it this way might be better.

J. 이렇게 생각해보면, 결국에는 이 방법이 더 편할 것 같아요.

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If you think about it this way, this method will probably be more convenient in the end.

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Cheat Sheet

Korean	English
왜냐하면 ~거든요	Because ~ (the reason is)
예를 들어	For example
이렇게 생각해보면	If you think about it this way
한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요	It wouldn't hurt to try
게다가	Furthermore
결국에는	In the end / Ultimately

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Grammar Tip

왜냐하면 is usually followed by ~거든요 or ~기 때문이에요 at the end of the reason clause. This makes the reason feel complete and natural. 왜냐하면 시간이 걸리거든요 = Because it takes time (and that's why I said what I said).

Exercise 3 — Complete the Sentence

Complete each persuasion sentence naturally. Suggested answers are inside the toggles.

A. 일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 이렇게 생각해보면 ___?

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일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? (That makes sense. But how about thinking about it this way?)

B. 왜냐하면 이 방법이 더 빠르고 ___.

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왜냐하면 이 방법이 더 빠르고 효율적이거든요. (Because this method is faster and more efficient.)

C. 예를 들어, 지난번에도 이렇게 했을 때 ___.

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예를 들어, 지난번에도 이렇게 했을 때 결과가 더 좋았어요. (For example, the last time we did it this way the results were better.)

D. 어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 ___.

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어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 이렇게 하면 더 효과적일 것 같아요. (I partly agree. But I think doing it this way would be more effective.)

E. 한번 해봐도 ___ 같아요.

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한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (I don't think it would hurt to try.)

F. 게다가 이 방법을 쓰면 ___.

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게다가 이 방법을 쓰면 실수도 줄어들 수 있어요. (Furthermore, using this method can also reduce mistakes.)

G. 제 생각에는 이 방법이 ___ 것 같아요.

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제 생각에는 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. (I think this method seems more effective.)

H. 한번 ___ 봐요. 왜냐하면 나중에 도움이 될 수 있거든요.

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한번 생각해 봐요. 왜냐하면 나중에 도움이 될 수 있거든요. (Think about it for a moment. Because it might be helpful later.)

I. 이렇게 하면 ___ 것 같아요?

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이렇게 하면 어떨까요? (How about doing it this way?)

J. 이렇게 생각해보면, 결국에는 ___.

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이렇게 생각해보면, 결국에는 이 방법이 더 편할 것 같아요. (If you think about it this way, this method will probably be more convenient in the end.)

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Pattern
왜냐하면	...거든요 / ...기 때문이에요
예를 들어	...했을 때 / ...을 해보면
이렇게 생각해보면	어떨까요?
게다가	...도 ~할 수 있어요
결국에는	...이/가 더 나을 것 같아요

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Production Tip

Don't try to say everything at once. A natural Korean persuasion is two or three sentences: acknowledge → reason → soft close. Practice each part separately until each one flows on its own.

Exercise 4 — Dialogue Completion

Fill in the blank in each dialogue with the most natural persuasion expression.

A. A: 지금 방법이 익숙해요. / B: ___. 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요?

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B: 일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? (That makes sense. But how about thinking about it this way?)

B. A: 새로운 방법이 효과가 있을지 모르겠어요. / B: ___. 왜냐하면 저도 처음에 걱정했는데 잘 됐거든요.

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B: 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. 왜냐하면 저도 처음에 걱정했는데 잘 됐거든요. (I don't think it would hurt to try. Because I was worried at first too, but it worked out.)

C. A: 저는 이미 계획이 있어요. / B: 어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 ___.

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B: 어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 이 방법도 한번 생각해봐요. (I partly agree. But think about this approach for a moment too.)

D. A: 왜 이 방법이 낫다고 생각해요? / B: ___, 시간도 절약되고 비용도 줄어들거든요.

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B: 왜냐하면, 시간도 절약되고 비용도 줄어들거든요. (Because it saves time and reduces costs.)

E. A: 저는 별로 안 좋을 것 같아요. / B: ___. 예를 들어, 지난번에 이렇게 했을 때 결과가 좋았어요.

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B: 일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 예를 들어, 지난번에 이렇게 했을 때 결과가 좋았어요. (That makes sense. But for example, the last time we did it this way the results were good.)

F. A: 시간이 충분할지 모르겠어요. / B: 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. ___, 단계도 더 적거든요.

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B: 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. 게다가, 단계도 더 적거든요. (I think this method seems more effective. Furthermore, there are fewer steps.)

G. A: 이렇게 해도 괜찮을까요? / B: 제 생각에는 ___.

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B: 제 생각에는 이렇게 하면 더 나을 것 같아요. (I think doing it this way might be better.)

H. A: 저는 아직 잘 모르겠어요. / B: ___ 봐요. 왜냐하면 직접 해보면 더 잘 이해할 수 있거든요.

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B: 한번 생각해 봐요. 왜냐하면 직접 해보면 더 잘 이해할 수 있거든요. (Think about it for a moment. Because trying it yourself will help you understand it better.)

I. A: 혹시 더 좋은 방법이 있어요? / B: ___, 이렇게 하면 어떨까요?

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B: 네, 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? (Yes, how about thinking about it this way?)

J. A: 제 방법이 더 간단하지 않나요? / B: 어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 ___, 결국에는 이 방법이 더 편할 것 같아요.

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B: 어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 이렇게 생각해보면, 결국에는 이 방법이 더 편할 것 같아요. (I partly agree. But if you think about it this way, this method will probably be more convenient in the end.)

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Useful Phrases

Phrase	Role in persuasion
일리가 있어요. 그렇지만...	Acknowledge → pivot
왜냐하면 ~거든요	Give the reason
예를 들어	Add a concrete example
게다가	Stack another reason
결국에는	Frame the bigger picture

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Conversation Tip

In Korean conversations, a short pause before making your case signals respect. After saying 일리가 있어요, take a brief beat — it signals you genuinely considered their view before responding.

Exercise 5 — Free Speaking Practice

Answer each prompt aloud in Korean, using at least two expressions from this lesson.

A. A friend wants to stay home and study alone. Persuade them to try a study café instead.

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어느 정도는 동의해요. 다만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 왜냐하면 카페에서 하면 집중이 더 잘 될 수 있거든요. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (I partly agree. But how about thinking about it this way? Because studying at a café can help you focus better. I don't think it would hurt to try.)

B. A colleague thinks the meeting should be in-person. You think online is fine. Make your case.

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일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 예를 들어, 온라인으로 해도 충분히 효과적이었던 적이 많거든요. 게다가 시간도 절약할 수 있어요. (That makes sense. But how about thinking about it this way? For example, doing it online has been effective enough many times. Furthermore, it can also save time.)

C. You want your team to try a new project management tool. Persuade them.

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제 생각에는 이 도구가 더 효과적인 것 같아요. 왜냐하면 작업을 한눈에 볼 수 있거든요. 게다가 설치도 간단해요. 한번 생각해봐요. (I think this tool seems more effective. Because you can see all tasks at a glance. Furthermore, installation is simple too. Think about it for a moment.)

D. A friend is hesitant to start learning Korean. Persuade them to try.

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어느 정도는 동의해요. 처음에는 어려울 수 있어요. 다만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 예를 들어, 매일 조금씩만 해도 금방 늘 수 있거든요. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (I partly agree. It can be hard at first. But how about thinking about it this way? For example, even doing a little every day can help you improve quickly. I don't think it would hurt to try.)

E. A colleague prefers written reports over presentations. Persuade them to try a short presentation instead.

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일리가 있어요. 그렇지만 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 왜냐하면 발표로 하면 질문도 바로 받을 수 있고 소통이 더 빠르거든요. 이 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. (That makes sense. But how about thinking about it this way? Because with a presentation, you can take questions right away and communication is faster. I think this method seems more effective.)

F. Persuade a friend to take a short walk instead of sitting at their desk all day.

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한번 생각해봐요. 왜냐하면 잠깐 걸으면 집중력이 다시 올라올 수 있거든요. 게다가 기분도 나아질 거예요. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (Think about it for a moment. Because a short walk can bring your concentration back. Furthermore, your mood will improve too. I don't think it would hurt to try.)

G. Persuade a colleague to submit their work a day early instead of on the deadline.

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이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 예를 들어, 하루 일찍 제출하면 수정할 시간이 생기거든요. 게다가 마감 직전 스트레스도 줄어들 거예요. (How about thinking about it this way? For example, submitting a day early gives you time to make revisions. Furthermore, the stress right before the deadline will decrease too.)

H. A friend is unsure whether to apply for a new job. Persuade them to at least try.

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일리가 있어요. 부담스러울 수 있어요. 그렇지만 왜냐하면 도전해보지 않으면 알 수가 없거든요. 한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요. (That makes sense. It can feel like a lot of pressure. But because if you don't try, you'll never know. I don't think it would hurt to try.)

I. Persuade a colleague to get feedback from the team before finalizing a project.

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어느 정도는 동의해요. 빨리 끝내고 싶은 마음은 알아요. 다만 이렇게 생각해보면, 피드백을 받으면 결국에는 결과가 더 좋아질 수 있거든요. (I partly agree. I understand you want to finish quickly. But if you think about it this way, getting feedback can ultimately lead to better results.)

J. Persuade someone to try a completely new approach to a problem they've been stuck on.

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한번 생각해봐요. 왜냐하면 같은 방법을 계속 쓰면 같은 결과가 나올 수 있거든요. 이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요? 새로운 방법이 더 효과적인 것 같아요. (Think about it for a moment. Because if you keep using the same method, you might keep getting the same result. How about thinking about it this way? The new approach seems more effective.)

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Use
일리가 있어요. 그렇지만...	Acknowledge first
이렇게 생각해보면 어떨까요?	Invite new perspective
왜냐하면 ~거든요	Give the reason
예를 들어	Add example
게다가	Stack reason
한번 해봐도 나쁘지 않을 것 같아요	Low-pressure close

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Speaking Challenge

Try the full persuasion formula out loud in one go: (1) Acknowledge → (2) Reframe → (3) Reason → (4) Example → (5) Soft close. Time yourself — once you can do it in under 30 seconds, you're ready for real Korean conversations.

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