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Opposite Words: Man/Woman, Boy/Girl

Keywords
λ‚¨μž / μ—¬μž
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TL;DR β€” Today's 5 words:
  • λ‚¨μž (man, male person)
  • μ—¬μž (woman, female person)
  • μ†Œλ…„ (boy β€” roughly a male child/young teen)
  • μ†Œλ…€ (girl β€” roughly a female child/young teen)
  • μ²­λ…„ (young man / youth β€” young adult, often 20s)
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Iru's Note πŸ¦‹
λ‚¨μž, μ—¬μž, μ†Œλ…„, μ†Œλ…€, μ²­λ…„ β€” these five words map out gender and age in Korean, and you'll hear them constantly in everyday conversation, news, and stories. Once you're comfortable with these, we'll head into the working world with <mention-page url="
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Here's all five words in one story: μ†Œλ…„μ΄μ—ˆλ˜ κ·Έ λ‚¨μžλŠ” 이제 λ©‹μ§„ 청년이 λ˜μ—ˆκ³ , μ†Œλ…€μ˜€λ˜ κ·Έ μ—¬μžλŠ” μ•„λ¦„λ‹€μš΄ μ–΄λ₯Έμ΄ λ˜μ—ˆμ–΄μš”. (The man who was once a boy has now become a fine young man, and the woman who was once a girl has become a beautiful adult.)

🎯 Big Picture

Korean marks gender and age in vocabulary much more explicitly than English does in casual speech. λ‚¨μž/μ—¬μž (man/woman) are your everyday, all-purpose words for adult males and females β€” they show up in compounds everywhere (λ‚¨μžμΉœκ΅¬, μ—¬μžν™”μž₯μ‹€, λ‚¨μžμ•„μ΄). μ†Œλ…„/μ†Œλ…€ (boy/girl) narrow things down to childhood and early adolescence, often with a slightly more formal or literary flavor than English "boy/girl." μ²­λ…„ (young man/youth) picks up where μ†Œλ…„ leaves off, describing the young-adult stage of life β€” and in modern Korean it's increasingly used to talk about "young people" in general, not just young men.
Together, these five words let you describe almost anyone's gender and life stage in a sentence β€” and they set you up perfectly for the next lesson, where you'll start describing what people do (their jobs) rather than just who they are.

πŸ“– Core Vocabulary Family

1. λ‚¨μž (man / male)

The basic, everyday word for an adult male person. Used constantly on its own and in compounds.
  • μ € λ‚¨μžλŠ” 제 λ™μƒμ΄μ—μš”. (That man is my younger brother.)
  • λ‚¨μž ν™”μž₯싀은 μ €μͺ½μ— μžˆμ–΄μš”. (The men's restroom is over there.)
Grammar note: λ‚¨μž combines freely with other nouns to form compounds: λ‚¨μžμΉœκ΅¬ (boyfriend), λ‚¨μžμ•„μ΄ (boy/male child), λ‚¨μž ν™”μž₯μ‹€ (men's restroom). Context β€” not grammar β€” tells you whether λ‚¨μžμΉœκ΅¬ means "boyfriend" or literally "male friend."

2. μ—¬μž (woman / female)

The everyday word for an adult female person, paired naturally with λ‚¨μž.
  • 이 μ—¬μžλŠ” 제 μΉœκ΅¬μ˜ˆμš”. (This woman is my friend.)
  • μ—¬μž μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ μƒκ²Όμ–΄μš”. (I got a girlfriend.)
Grammar note: Just like λ‚¨μž, μ—¬μž forms compounds: μ—¬μžμΉœκ΅¬ (girlfriend), μ—¬μžμ•„μ΄ (girl/female child), μ—¬μž ν™”μž₯μ‹€ (women's restroom). μ—¬μž 친ꡬ (with a space) can also literally mean "female friend" β€” tone and context decide.

3. μ†Œλ…„ (boy)

A boy, roughly from childhood through early adolescence. Slightly more formal/literary than the everyday λ‚¨μžμ•„μ΄.
  • κ·Έ μ†Œλ…„μ€ 열두 μ‚΄μ΄μ—μš”. (That boy is twelve years old.)
  • μ†Œλ…„μ€ κ³΅μ›μ—μ„œ 좕ꡬλ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  μžˆμ—ˆμ–΄μš”. (The boy was playing soccer in the park.)
Grammar note: μ†Œλ…„ often appears in set phrases and titles β€” μ†Œλ…„ κ°€μž₯ (a child who heads the household), μ†Œλ…„ μ‹œμ ˆ (one's boyhood). In casual daily speech, λ‚¨μžμ•„μ΄ or λ‚¨μžμ•  is more common than μ†Œλ…„.

4. μ†Œλ…€ (girl)

The female counterpart to μ†Œλ…„ β€” a girl from childhood through early adolescence.
  • μ†Œλ…€λŠ” 그림을 그리고 μžˆμ–΄μš”. (The girl is drawing a picture.)
  • κ·Έ μ†Œλ…€λŠ” λ…Έλž˜λ₯Ό 정말 잘 λΆˆλŸ¬μš”. (That girl sings really well.)
Grammar note: Like μ†Œλ…„, μ†Œλ…€ leans formal/literary (μ†Œλ…€ μ‹œμ ˆ = one's girlhood). Casual speech favors μ—¬μžμ•„μ΄ or μ—¬μžμ• .

5. μ²­λ…„ (young man / youth)

A young adult, traditionally a young man in his late teens to thirties. In modern usage, μ²­λ…„ increasingly refers to "young people" or "youth" as a group, regardless of gender (e.g., μ²­λ…„ μ •μ±… = youth policy).
  • 청년듀이 κ·Έ νšŒμ‚¬μ— 많이 μ§€μ›ν–ˆμ–΄μš”. (Many young people applied to that company.)
  • κ·ΈλŠ” μ²­λ…„ μ‹œμ ˆμ— μ™Έκ΅­μ—μ„œ μ‚΄μ•˜μ–΄μš”. (He lived abroad during his youth.)
Grammar note: μ²­λ…„ sits between μ†Œλ…„ and μ–΄λ₯Έ on the age scale. Government and news contexts (μ²­λ…„ μ‹€μ—…, μ²­λ…„ μ •μ±…) often use it as a gender-neutral term for "young adults," even though historically it leaned male.

πŸ—£οΈ How They Work in a Sentence

  • 어릴 λ•Œ μ €λŠ” μ†Œλ…„μ΄μ—ˆκ³ , μ§€κΈˆμ€ 청년이 λ˜μ—ˆμ–΄μš”. (When I was young, I was a boy β€” now I've become a young man.)
  • λ‚¨μžμ™€ μ—¬μž, μ†Œλ…„κ³Ό μ†Œλ…€ λͺ¨λ‘ 이 μ˜ν™”λ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν•΄μš”. (Men and women, boys and girls β€” everyone likes this movie.)
  • 이 사진 μ†μ˜ μ†Œλ…€λŠ” μžλΌμ„œ λ©‹μ§„ μ—¬μžκ°€ λ˜μ—ˆμ–΄μš”. (The girl in this photo grew up to become a wonderful woman.)

🧱 General Formation Rule

  • 남(η”·)/μ—¬(ε₯³) are Sino-Korean roots meaning "male"/"female." They combine with nouns to mark gender: 남학생 (male student) / 여학생 (female student), λ‚¨μž ν™”μž₯μ‹€ / μ—¬μž ν™”μž₯μ‹€.
  • 자(子/θ€…) at the end of λ‚¨μž/μ—¬μž marks "person" β€” but don't confuse it with the 자 in titles like ν•™μž (scholar), which is a different usage of the same character.
  • μ†Œ(ε°‘) means "young/few." μ†Œλ…„ (ε°‘εΉ΄, boy) and μ†Œλ…€ (ε°‘ε₯³, girl) are built from μ†Œ + λ…„(εΉ΄, year/person) or λ…€(ε₯³, female).
  • μ²­(靑) means "young/blue-green." μ²­λ…„ (靑年) literally combines "young" + "person," which is why it can describe young people of any gender in modern usage.
  • These Sino-Korean roots (남/μ—¬/μ†Œ/μ²­) appear in many other words too β€” recognizing them helps you guess the meaning of unfamiliar compounds.
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Cross-check it yourself: Search λ‚¨μž, μ—¬μž, μ†Œλ…„, μ†Œλ…€, and μ²­λ…„ on the ꡭ립ꡭ어원 ν‘œμ€€κ΅­μ–΄λŒ€μ‚¬μ „ (Standard Korean Dictionary) to see their full range of meanings and usage examples.

πŸ” Synonym Alert

  • λ‚¨μž vs. 남성: λ‚¨μž is the everyday, conversational word for "man." 남성 is the more formal/written equivalent, common on official forms, in news articles, and in statistics (e.g., 남성 ν‘μ—°μœ¨ = male smoking rate).
  • μ†Œλ…„ vs. 사내아이: μ†Œλ…„ is the more formal/literary word for "boy," often used in writing or set phrases. 사내아이 (or its short form 사내애) is the everyday, spoken-language word you'd actually use to point at a kid on the street.

⚠️ Pitfalls to Dodge

  1. Don't mix up λ‚¨μž/μ—¬μž (everyday "man/woman") with 남성/μ—¬μ„± (formal/written register) β€” both are correct, but using 남성/μ—¬μ„± in casual chat can sound stiff, and vice versa on official documents.
  1. μ†Œλ…„/μ†Œλ…€ describe a specific childhood-to-early-teens age range β€” they're not casual substitutes for 어린이 (child, broader) or μ–΄λ₯Έ (adult).
  1. μ²­λ…„ historically skewed male, but don't assume it always means "young man" β€” in policy and news contexts (μ²­λ…„ 일자리, μ²­λ…„ μ •μ±…) it usually means "young people" of all genders.
  1. λ‚¨μž/μ—¬μž are not polite words for "person" β€” don't use them to mean "someone" in general; that's μ‚¬λžŒ.
  1. μ—¬μž 친ꡬ / λ‚¨μž 친ꡬ can mean either "girlfriend/boyfriend" (no space, one word) or literally "female/male friend" (with a space, in formal writing) β€” context is everything!
μ†Œλ…„μ—μ„œ μ²­λ…„κΉŒμ§€, μ—¬μžμ—μ„œ μ–΄λ₯ΈκΉŒμ§€ β€” μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λͺ¨λ‘ μžλΌλ‚˜μš”! 🌱
Try this exercise
  1. μ € ___λŠ” 제 λ™μƒμ΄μ—μš”. (That man is my younger brother.)
  1. ___ μΉœκ΅¬κ°€ μƒκ²Όμ–΄μš”! (I got a girlfriend!)
  1. κ·Έ ___은 열두 μ‚΄μ΄μ—μš”. (That boy is twelve years old.)
  1. ___λŠ” 그림을 그리고 μžˆμ–΄μš”. (The girl is drawing a picture.)
  1. ___듀이 νšŒμ‚¬μ— 많이 μ§€μ›ν–ˆμ–΄μš”. (Many young people applied to the company.)
  1. ___ ν™”μž₯싀은 μ €μͺ½μ— μžˆμ–΄μš”. (The men's restroom is over there.)
  1. 이 ___λŠ” 제 μΉœκ΅¬μ˜ˆμš”. (This woman is my friend.)
  1. ___ μ‹œμ ˆμ— κ·ΈλŠ” 좕ꡬλ₯Ό μ’‹μ•„ν–ˆμ–΄μš”. (In his boyhood, he liked soccer.)
  1. κ·Έ ___λŠ” λ…Έλž˜λ₯Ό 정말 잘 λΆˆλŸ¬μš”. (That girl sings really well.)
  1. κ·ΈλŠ” ___ μ‹œμ ˆμ— μ™Έκ΅­μ—μ„œ μ‚΄μ•˜μ–΄μš”. (He lived abroad during his youth.)
Answer Key
  1. λ‚¨μž
  1. μ—¬μž
  1. μ†Œλ…„
  1. μ†Œλ…€
  1. μ²­λ…„
  1. λ‚¨μž
  1. μ—¬μž
  1. μ†Œλ…„
  1. μ†Œλ…€
  1. μ²­λ…„
πŸ“Œ
Vocabulary Box: λ‚¨μž (man) Β· μ—¬μž (woman) Β· μ†Œλ…„ (boy) Β· μ†Œλ…€ (girl) Β· μ²­λ…„ (young man/youth)
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Pitfalls Recap: λ‚¨μž/μ—¬μž β‰  formal 남성/μ—¬μ„± Β· μ†Œλ…„/μ†Œλ…€ = specific childhood age range Β· μ²­λ…„ can be gender-neutral in policy contexts Β· λ‚¨μž/μ—¬μž β‰  "person" (that's μ‚¬λžŒ) Β· λ‚¨μžμΉœκ΅¬/μ—¬μžμΉœκ΅¬ (no space) = boyfriend/girlfriend
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Want more reps? Head down to the Practice Hub below for 10 bonus words and 5 more exercises!
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Practice Hub πŸ“¦ β€” Ready for more? Here are 10 bonus words related to gender and age (남성, μ—¬μ„±, 총각, μ²˜λ…€, 아저씨, μ•„μ£Όλ¨Έλ‹ˆ, 아가씨, 신사, μˆ™λ…€, 사내아이) plus 5 exercises to lock everything in.

Exercise 1 β€” Translate It πŸ”€

  1. 남성 (translate to English)
  1. μ—¬μ„± (translate to English)
  1. 총각 (translate to English)
  1. μ²˜λ…€ (translate to English)
  1. 아저씨 (translate to English)
  1. μ•„μ£Όλ¨Έλ‹ˆ (translate to English)
  1. 아가씨 (translate to English)
  1. 신사 (translate to English)
  1. μˆ™λ…€ (translate to English)
  1. 사내아이 (translate to English)
Answer Key
  1. 남성 β€” male/man (formal)
  1. μ—¬μ„± β€” female/woman (formal)
  1. 총각 β€” bachelor/unmarried young man
  1. μ²˜λ…€ β€” unmarried young woman/maiden
  1. 아저씨 β€” middle-aged man (uncle-ish term of address)
  1. μ•„μ£Όλ¨Έλ‹ˆ β€” middle-aged woman (auntie-ish term of address)
  1. 아가씨 β€” young (unmarried) woman/miss
  1. 신사 β€” gentleman
  1. μˆ™λ…€ β€” lady
  1. 사내아이 β€” boy (casual, lit. "male child")

Exercise 2 β€” Match the Meaning πŸ”—

  1. 신사
  1. μˆ™λ…€
  1. 총각
  1. μ²˜λ…€
  1. 사내아이
A. unmarried young woman
B. gentleman
C. boy (casual)
D. lady
E. unmarried young man
Answer Key
1 β†’ B (신사 = gentleman)
2 β†’ D (μˆ™λ…€ = lady)
3 β†’ E (총각 = unmarried young man)
4 β†’ A (μ²˜λ…€ = unmarried young woman)
5 β†’ C (사내아이 = boy)

Exercise 3 β€” Build the Compound 🧱

Korean often marks gender with the roots 남(η”·)/μ—¬(ε₯³). Fill in 남 or μ—¬ to complete each compound.
  1. ___학생 = male student
  1. ___자친ꡬ = girlfriend
  1. ___성볡 = women's clothing
  1. ___자 ν™”μž₯μ‹€ = men's restroom
  1. ___학생 = female student
  1. ___자친ꡬ = boyfriend
  1. ___μ„±μš© = for men's use
  1. ___자 ν™”μž₯μ‹€ = women's restroom
Answer Key
  1. 남학생
  1. μ—¬μžμΉœκ΅¬
  1. 여성볡
  1. λ‚¨μž ν™”μž₯μ‹€
  1. 여학생
  1. λ‚¨μžμΉœκ΅¬
  1. λ‚¨μ„±μš©
  1. μ—¬μž ν™”μž₯μ‹€
πŸ“š
Quick Reference β€” Sino-Korean Gender Roots: 남(η”·) = male, μ—¬(ε₯³) = female, μ†Œ(ε°‘) = young, μ²­(靑) = young/youth. These combine with 자(person), λ…„/λ…€(year/person), 학생(student), μ„±(gender/-ness), and more to build gender- and age-marked words: λ‚¨μž/μ—¬μž, 남학생/여학생, μ†Œλ…„/μ†Œλ…€, μ²­λ…„, 남성/μ—¬μ„±.

Exercise 4 β€” Sort by Register πŸ“‹

Sort these words into Casual/Everyday vs. Formal/Written: λ‚¨μž, μ—¬μž, 남성, μ—¬μ„±, 아저씨, μ•„μ£Όλ¨Έλ‹ˆ, 신사, μˆ™λ…€, 사내아이, μ²˜λ…€
Answer Key
Casual/Everyday: λ‚¨μž, μ—¬μž, 아저씨, μ•„μ£Όλ¨Έλ‹ˆ, 사내아이
Formal/Written: 남성, μ—¬μ„±, 신사, μˆ™λ…€, μ²˜λ…€

Exercise 5 β€” Fill in the Story πŸ“–

Complete the short story with words from today's lesson and the bonus list: λ‚¨μž, μ—¬μž, μ†Œλ…„, μ†Œλ…€, μ²­λ…„, 아저씨, 아가씨, 총각
  1. 어릴 λ•Œ κ·ΈλŠ” μž‘μ€ ___μ΄μ—ˆμ–΄μš”. (boy)
  1. μ§€κΈˆμ€ λ©‹μ§„ ___이 λ˜μ—ˆμ£ . (young man)
  1. μ˜†μ§‘μ— μ‚¬λŠ” ___λŠ” 맀일 인사λ₯Ό ν•΄μ€˜μš”. (middle-aged man, "uncle")
  1. κ·Έ ___λŠ” 아직 κ²°ν˜Όμ„ μ•ˆ ν–ˆμ–΄μš”. (bachelor)
  1. 어릴 λ•Œ κ·Έλ…€λŠ” κ·€μ—¬μš΄ ___μ˜€μ–΄μš”. (girl)
  1. μ§€κΈˆμ€ μ•„λ¦„λ‹€μš΄ ___κ°€ λ˜μ—ˆμ–΄μš”. (woman)
  1. μΉ΄νŽ˜μ—μ„œ μΌν•˜λŠ” ___λŠ” μΉœμ ˆν•΄μš”. (young miss)
  1. μ € ___λŠ” μš°μ‚°μ„ λ“€κ³  μžˆμ–΄μš”. (man)
Answer Key
  1. μ†Œλ…„
  1. μ²­λ…„
  1. 아저씨
  1. 총각
  1. μ†Œλ…€
  1. μ—¬μž
  1. 아가씨
  1. λ‚¨μž
μ†Œλ…„μ—μ„œ μ²­λ…„μœΌλ‘œ, μ†Œλ…€μ—μ„œ μ—¬μžλ‘œ β€” λ‹¨μ–΄λ‘œ μΈμƒμ˜ 단계λ₯Ό κ·Έλ €λ΄μš”! 🌱➑️🌳