Mastering Intonation for Persuasion

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Mastering Intonation for Persuasion
How to use tone, emphasis, and softening to make your Korean more convincing
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Iru Helper Note
In Korean, how you say something often carries more persuasive weight than what you say. A rising tone with 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? invites agreement, while μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”... signals a gentle pivot. Intonation is your hidden tool.
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
(Actually, I think this might be better.)
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πŸŽ™οΈ What You'll Learn Today

Persuasion in Korean isn't just about the words β€” it's about how you frame them with softeners, emphasis, and strategic delivery. In this lesson you'll learn the spoken phrases and patterns that make your Korean feel more convincing, whether you're recommending something, gently pushing back, or steering a conversation toward your point of view. You'll see how small changes in word choice and structure create a big shift in how persuasive you sound.

πŸ“Œ Persuasive Speaking Expressions

Expression
Meaning
Notes
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
Actually / The thing is
Soft pivot opener; sets up a correction or better idea
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄
Honestly speaking
Opens a direct but sincere opinion
제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ”
In my opinion / I think
Standard opinion frame (covered in IS #1, now used persuasively)
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
Isn't that right?
Rising intonation invites agreement
~λŠ” 게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”
I think ~ would be better
Soft comparative persuasion
~λŠ” 게 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”
I think ~ might be a better option
λ‚˜λ‹€ = to be better; slightly stronger than μ’‹λ‹€ here
ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면
If you think about it once
Invites the listener to reflect before responding
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄
Because / The reason is
Signals you're about to give a reason
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
Exactly / Right, so...
Validates what they said and builds on it
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데
That's true, but
Acknowledges before redirecting
사싀 이게 더
Actually, this is more/better
Compact direct comparison
~ν•˜λ©΄ μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”?
What if we/you ~?
Soft conditional suggestion
μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
What do you think?
Ends a persuasive pitch by opening to them
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
What about trying it once?
Gentle push to take action
이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”
I think this is the best way
Strong but polite recommendation
πŸ’‘ Key pattern: μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” + [your real point] + ~λŠ” 게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” + μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? = gentle pivot β†’ better option β†’ open to them

πŸ’¬ Conversations in Action

Recommending a different approach
μ§€μˆ˜: 이 카페 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? (How about this cafΓ©?)
λ―Όμ€€: μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, μ €λŠ” κ·Έ μΉ΄νŽ˜λ³΄λ‹€ 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ μžλ¦¬κ°€ 더 λ„“κ³  μ‘°μš©ν•˜κ±°λ“ μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (Actually, I think this one might be better than that cafΓ©. Because the seating is wider and quieter, you see. What do you think?)
μ§€μˆ˜: κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”. 저도 μ‘°μš©ν•œ 곳이 μ’‹μ•„μš”. (Exactly. I like quiet places too.)
λ―Όμ€€: 그럼 ν•œλ²ˆ κ°€λ³ΌκΉŒμš”? (Then shall we try going?)
Steering toward a decision
ν˜œμ§„: μ–΄λ–€ 색이 더 μ’‹μ•„μš”? (Which color is better?)
νƒœμ–‘: μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄, 이게 더 잘 μ–΄μšΈλ¦΄ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 μ‹€μš©μ μ΄κΈ°λ„ ν•˜κ±°λ“ μš”. ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? (Honestly speaking, I think this would suit you better. That's true, but this one is also more practical, you see. What if you thought about it for a moment?)
ν˜œμ§„: κ·Έλ ‡λ„€μš”. 이게 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (You're right. I think this one might be better.)

🌏 Cultural Note β€” Indirect Persuasion in Korean

Korean persuasion tends to be indirect and collaborative rather than blunt. Saying 이게 λ§žμ•„μš” (this is correct) sounds assertive to the point of rudeness, while 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” (I think this might be better) is persuasive without pressure. The phrase 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? (isn't that right?) with a rising tone is particularly powerful β€” it softly invites agreement rather than demanding it. Ending your pitch with μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (what do you think?) signals respect and openness, which paradoxically makes your recommendation more likely to be accepted.
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Practice persuasive Korean. For each prompt, say the full sentence out loud using lesson expressions.
A. Open a soft pivot to suggest something different.
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μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (Actually, I think this might be better.)
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B. Say "honestly speaking" to open a direct opinion.
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μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄, 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (Honestly speaking, in my opinion, I think this might be the better option.)
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C. Invite agreement with rising intonation.
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그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? (Isn't that right?)
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D. Say this option would be better, and give a reason.
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이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 더 μ‹€μš©μ μ΄κ±°λ“ μš”. (I think this would be better. Because it's more practical, you see.)
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E. Acknowledge what they said before redirecting.
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λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (That's true, but I think this one would be better.)
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F. Validate their point and build on it.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이 방법이 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (Exactly. So I think this way might be better.)
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G. Invite them to reflect before deciding.
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ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? (What if you thought about it for a moment?)
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H. Gently push them to try your suggestion.
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ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? (What about trying it once?)
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I. Wrap up your recommendation and open it to them.
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이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (I think this is the best way. What do you think?)
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J. Ask what they think after your full persuasive pitch.
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μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (What do you think?)
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Expression Reference
Expression
Nuance/Key
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
Soft pivot opener
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄
Honest opener
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
Invite agreement
~λŠ” 게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”
Soft: this is better
~λŠ” 게 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”
Soft: better option
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄
Because / reason signal
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
Validate & build
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데
Acknowledge & redirect
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
Gentle action push
μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
Open to their view
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Intonation Tip
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? is most persuasive with a genuine rising tone β€” you're really asking, not stating. If you say it flat, it sounds like a rhetorical challenge. Rising = collaborative; flat = confrontational. The same goes for μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? β€” a warm rising tone signals you genuinely care about their answer.
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Want more reps?
Pick any opinion you have β€” about food, a plan, a product β€” and practice the full persuasion arc: μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” β†’ reason with μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ β†’ comparison with ~λŠ” 게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” β†’ invite their view with μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? One full persuasion loop out loud, every day, will make these patterns feel completely natural.
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πŸ“¦ Practice Hub β€” Persuasive Speaking

Exercise 1 β€” Choose the Right Expression

Pick the most natural expression for each persuasive situation.
A. You want to softly introduce a better idea without being blunt.
(1) 이게 λ§žμ•„μš” (2) μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” (3) μ†”μ§νžˆ 이게 μ’‹μ•„μš” (4) 이거 ν•΄μš”
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(2) μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” β€” μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” = soft pivot; ~더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” = gentle comparative. This is the most collaborative framing.
B. You want to open an opinion honestly and directly.
(1) μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” (2) 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” (3) μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄ (4) κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
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(3) μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄ β€” "honestly speaking" is the most direct honest opener. μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” is for pivoting to a correction; 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” is a neutral opinion frame; κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš” validates and builds on something already said.
C. You want to invite agreement using rising intonation.
(1) 이게 λ§žμ•„μš” (2) 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? (3) μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (4) λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”
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(2) 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? β€” with rising intonation, this softly invites the listener to agree. It's collaborative, not confrontational.
D. You want to signal that you're about to give a reason.
(1) κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš” (2) μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” (3) μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ (4) ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면
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(3) μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ β€” "because / the reason is" β€” this directly introduces a supporting reason. The others are pivots, validations, or reflection invites.
E. Someone made a good point. You validate it, then redirect to your idea.
(1) κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이게 더 μ’‹μ•„μš” (2) λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” (3) μ•„λ‹ˆμ—μš”, 이게 λ§žμ•„μš” (4) μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄ λ‹¬λΌμš”
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(2) λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” β€” λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš” = that's true; 그런데 = but. This acknowledges before redirecting, which is the most polished persuasive move.
F. You want to agree with what they said and build on it.
(1) λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 (2) κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš” (3) μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” (4) μ•„, κ·Έλ ‡κ΅°μš”
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(2) κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš” β€” "exactly / right, so..." validates and extends the other person's point. It's more than just agreement β€” it signals you're aligned and building together.
G. You want to invite the listener to reflect before they answer.
(1) 빨리 κ²°μ •ν•˜μ„Έμš” (2) ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? (3) μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (4) μ„ νƒν•˜μ„Έμš”
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(2) ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? β€” "what if you thought about it once?" This gently slows the decision down and gives the listener room to reach your conclusion themselves.
H. You want to gently push them to try your suggestion.
(1) ν•΄μ•Ό ν•΄μš” (2) 이게 λ§žμ•„μš” (3) ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? (4) κΌ­ ν•΄λ³΄μ„Έμš”
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(3) ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? β€” "what about trying it once?" ν•œλ²ˆ softens; μ–΄λ•Œμš”? = how about. This is gentle and action-oriented without pressure.
I. You want to end your pitch by making a clear recommendation.
(1) 이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš” (2) 이게 μ’‹μ•„μš” (3) 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” (4) μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
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(1) 이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš” β€” "I think this is the best way." 제일 = most/best; ~방법 = method/way; ~것 κ°™μ•„μš” = I think/seems. Strong but softened with κ°™μ•„μš”.
J. You want to open the floor to their perspective after your pitch.
(1) λ§žμ§€μš”? (2) μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (3) μ•Œκ² μ£ ? (4) 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
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(2) μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? β€” "what do you think?" This opens genuinely to their view. 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? is more of an agreement-invite; μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? is a real open question.
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Quick Reference
Expression
Meaning
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
Actually / soft pivot
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄
Honestly speaking
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
Isn't that right?
~λŠ” 게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”
I think ~ is better
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄
Because / reason
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
Exactly / validate & build
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데
True, but / redirect
ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”?
What if you thought about it?
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
What about trying it?
μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
What do you think?
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Pitfall
Don't use 이게 λ§žμ•„μš” (this is correct) or 그게 ν‹€λ Έμ–΄μš” (that's wrong) in persuasion β€” both sound blunt and can shut down the conversation. Replace with 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” (I think this might be better). Persuasion in Korean is about opening doors, not closing them.

Exercise 2 β€” Korean β†’ English Translation

Translate each sentence naturally into English.
A. μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
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Actually, I think this might be better.
B. μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄, 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
<summary>Answer
Honestly speaking, in my opinion, I think this might be the better option.
C. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 이게 더 μ‹€μš©μ μ΄κ±°λ“ μš”.
<summary>Answer
Because this is more practical, you see.
D. λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
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That's true, but I think this one would be better.
E. κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ 이 방법이 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
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Exactly. So I think this way might be better.
F. ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”?
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What if you thought about it for a moment?
G. ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
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What about trying it once?
H. 이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
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I think this is the best way. What do you think?
I. 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
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Isn't that right?
J. 사싀 이게 더 λΉ λ₯΄κ³  νš¨μœ¨μ μ΄μ—μš”.
<summary>Answer
Actually, this is faster and more efficient.
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Vocabulary Cheat Sheet
Word
Meaning
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
Actually / the thing is
μ†”μ§νžˆ
Honestly
λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™λ‹€
Seems like the better option
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄
Because
μ‹€μš©μ μ΄λ‹€
To be practical
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
Exactly / right, so
λ§žλŠ” 말
True words / that's true
ν•œλ²ˆ
Once / try it
제일
Most / the best
방법
Method / way
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Grammar Tip
~κ±°λ“ μš” is a spoken explanation marker. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 이게 더 μ‹€μš©μ μ΄κ±°λ“ μš” = "because this is more practical, you see." The ~κ±°λ“ μš” ending signals you're sharing context or a reason the listener might not know. It gives your reason a warm, informative tone rather than a lecturing one β€” perfect for persuasion.

Exercise 3 β€” Complete the Sentence

Fill in the blank with the correct word or ending.
A. ___μ€μš”, 이게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (actually / the thing is)
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사싀 β€” μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš” = actually / the thing is.
B. μ†”μ§νžˆ ___ν•˜λ©΄, 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 λ‚˜μ•„μš”. (speaking)
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말 β€” μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄ = honestly speaking.
C. μ™œ___ν•˜λ©΄ 이게 더 μ‹€μš©μ μ΄κ±°λ“ μš”. (because)
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냐 β€” μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ = because.
D. λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, κ·Έ___데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (but)
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런 β€” 그런데 = but / however.
E. 그러___μš”. 저도 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•΄μš”. (exactly)
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λ‹ˆκΉŒ β€” κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš” = exactly / right, so.
F. ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 ___λ©΄ μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? (if you think)
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보 β€” ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 = if you think about it once.
G. ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄___λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? (trying)
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보 β€” 해보닀 = to try doing; ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? = what about trying it?
H. 이게 제일 쒋은 ___법 κ°™μ•„μš”. (way/method)
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λ°© β€” 방법 = method / way.
I. 이게 더 쒋을 것 ___μ•„μš”? (don't you think / I think)
<summary>Answer
κ°™ β€” ~것 κ°™μ•„μš” = I think / seems like.
J. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ___κ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (what do you think)
<summary>Answer
생 β€” μƒκ°ν•˜λ‹€ β†’ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? = what do you think?
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Sentence Starters
Pattern
Use
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
Soft pivot opener
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄
Honest opinion opener
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ ~κ±°λ“ μš”
Reason with warmth
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데
Acknowledge + redirect
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
Validate & build
ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”?
Invite reflection
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
Gentle action push
이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”
Clear recommendation
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
Invite agreement
μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
Open to them
πŸ’‘
Production Tip
~λŠ” 게 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” vs. ~λŠ” 게 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”: both mean "I think ~ would be better." μ’‹λ‹€ (good) is more about positive quality; λ‚«λ‹€ (better/preferable) is more about comparison between options. Use 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” when recommending generally; use λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš” when directly comparing two options.

Exercise 4 β€” Dialogue Completion

Complete the persuasive turn in each exchange.
A. A: μ–΄λŠ μΉ΄νŽ˜κ°€ μ’‹μ•„μš”? / B: ___μ€μš”, 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
<summary>Answer
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (Actually, I think this one might be better.)
B. A: μ™œμš”? / B: μ™œ___ν•˜λ©΄, μ—¬κΈ°κ°€ 더 μ‘°μš©ν•˜κ³  μžλ¦¬κ°€ λ§Žκ±°λ“ μš”.
<summary>Answer
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄, μ—¬κΈ°κ°€ 더 μ‘°μš©ν•˜κ³  μžλ¦¬κ°€ λ§Žκ±°λ“ μš”. (Because this place is quieter and has more seating, you see.)
C. A: μ €λŠ” κ·Έ μΉ΄νŽ˜κ°€ 더 μ΅μˆ™ν•΄μš”. / B: λ§žλŠ” ___μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
<summary>Answer
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (That's true, but I think this one might be the better option.)
D. A: 쒋은 점이 λ§Žλ„€μš”. / B: 그러___μš”! κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ—¬κΈ°λ₯Ό μΆ”μ²œν•˜λŠ” κ±°μ˜ˆμš”.
<summary>Answer
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”! κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ—¬κΈ°λ₯Ό μΆ”μ²œν•˜λŠ” κ±°μ˜ˆμš”. (Exactly! That's why I'm recommending this place.)
E. A: 아직 잘 λͺ¨λ₯΄κ² μ–΄μš”. / B: ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 ___λ©΄ μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”?
<summary>Answer
ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? (What if you thought about it for a moment?)
F. A: κ·Έλž˜λ„ 확신이 μ•ˆ μ„œμš”. / B: ν•œλ²ˆ ___λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? μ’‹μœΌλ©΄ 계속 였면 λ˜λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”.
<summary>Answer
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? μ’‹μœΌλ©΄ 계속 였면 λ˜λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”. (What about trying it once? If you like it, you can keep coming, after all.)
G. A: 이게 제일 μ’‹μ•„μš”? / B: λ„€, 이게 제일 쒋은 ___ κ°™μ•„μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
<summary>Answer
λ„€, 이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (Yes, I think this is the best way. What do you think?)
H. A: 이게 더 μ‹€μš©μ μ΄μ£ ? / B: ___지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? 저도 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•΄μš”.
<summary>Answer
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? 저도 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•΄μš”. (Isn't that right? I think so too.)
I. A: μ†”μ§νžˆ μ–΄λ•Œμš”? / B: μ†”μ§νžˆ ___ν•˜λ©΄, 이게 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
<summary>Answer
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄, 이게 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. (Honestly speaking, I think this might be the better option.)
J. A: μ•Œκ² μ–΄μš”. ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³Όκ²Œμš”. / B: μ’‹μ•„μš”! 잘 ν•˜μ…¨μ–΄μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ‹œλŠ”μ§€ λ‚˜μ€‘μ— ___μ£Όμ„Έμš”.
<summary>Answer
μ’‹μ•„μš”! 잘 ν•˜μ…¨μ–΄μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ‹œλŠ”μ§€ λ‚˜μ€‘μ— μ•Œλ €μ£Όμ„Έμš”. (Great! Good call. Please let me know later what you think.)
πŸ“š
Useful Phrases
Phrase
Meaning
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
Actually / soft pivot
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ ~κ±°λ“ μš”
Because ~ (with warmth)
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데
True, but
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
Exactly
ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”?
What if you thought about it?
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
What about trying it?
이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”
I think this is the best way
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
Isn't that right?
μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
What do you think?
μ•Œλ €μ£Όμ„Έμš”
Please let me know
πŸ’‘
Conversation Tip
The most persuasive Korean speakers follow this arc: acknowledge β†’ reason β†’ compare β†’ invite. λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš” (acknowledge) β†’ μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ (reason) β†’ 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš” (compare) β†’ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (invite). This four-step pattern makes any recommendation feel collaborative rather than pushy.

Exercise 5 β€” Free Speaking Practice

Say each full persuasive response out loud in Korean.
A. Softly suggest a better restaurant option with a reason.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이 식당보닀 μ €μͺ½μ΄ 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 메뉴도 λ‹€μ–‘ν•˜κ³  가격도 ν•©λ¦¬μ μ΄κ±°λ“ μš”. (Actually, I think that one might be better than this restaurant. Because the menu is more varied and the price is reasonable, you see.)
B. Open an honest opinion about which plan is better.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄, 제 μƒκ°μ—λŠ” Bμ•ˆμ΄ 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. 더 μ‹€μš©μ μ΄κ±°λ“ μš”. (Honestly speaking, in my opinion, I think Plan B might be the better option. It's more practical, you see.)
C. Acknowledge someone's point and redirect to your preference.
<summary>Sample Answer
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 이μͺ½μ΄ μž₯기적으둜 더 쒋을 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? (That's true, but I think this one is better in the long term. What if you thought about it for a moment?)
D. Validate what they said and build on it to support your point.
<summary>Sample Answer
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ œκ°€ 이 방법을 μΆ”μ²œν•˜λŠ” κ±°μ˜ˆμš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (Exactly. That's why I'm recommending this method. What do you think?)
E. Invite agreement with rising intonation.
<summary>Sample Answer
이게 더 효율적이죠, 그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”? (This is more efficient, isn't it?)
F. Give a gentle push to try your recommended option.
<summary>Sample Answer
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”? λ§ˆμŒμ— μ•ˆ λ“€λ©΄ λ‹€μ‹œ 생각해 λ΄μš”. (What about trying it once? If you don't like it, we can reconsider.)
G. Make a clear final recommendation and open to their view.
<summary>Sample Answer
이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ λΉ λ₯΄κ³  κ°„λ‹¨ν•˜κ±°λ“ μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (I think this is the best way. Because it's fast and simple, you see. What do you think?)
H. Run the full persuasion arc from soft pivot to open question.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”, 이μͺ½μ΄ 더 λ‚˜μ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ 가격도 합리적이고 μœ„μΉ˜λ„ μ’‹κ±°λ“ μš”. λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데 ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? 이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”? (Actually, I think this might be the better option. Because the price is reasonable and the location is good, you see. That's true, but what if you thought about it? I think this is the best way. What do you think?)
I. Invite reflection after making a strong comparative point.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄, 이게 훨씬 더 λ‚˜μ€ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”? (Honestly speaking, I think this is much better. What if you thought about it?)
J. Respond warmly after someone agrees with your suggestion.
<summary>Sample Answer
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”! 잘 κ²°μ •ν•˜μ…¨μ–΄μš”. λΆ„λͺ…νžˆ λ§ˆμŒμ— λ“œμ‹€ κ±°μ˜ˆμš”. (Exactly! You made a good decision. I'm sure you'll be pleased.)
πŸ“š
Sentence Starters
Starter
Use
μ‚¬μ‹€μ€μš”
Soft pivot
μ†”μ§νžˆ λ§ν•˜λ©΄
Honest opener
μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ ~κ±°λ“ μš”
Reason with warmth
λ§žλŠ” λ§μ΄μ—μš”, 그런데
Acknowledge + redirect
κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”
Validate & build
그렇지 μ•Šλ‚˜μš”?
Invite agreement
ν•œλ²ˆ 생각해 보면 μ–΄λ–¨κΉŒμš”?
Invite reflection
ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄λ³΄λŠ” 게 μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
Action push
이게 제일 쒋은 방법 κ°™μ•„μš”
Clear recommendation
μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?
Open to them
πŸ’‘
Speaking Challenge
Pick a real opinion you have β€” about food, a plan, anything. Deliver the full 4-step persuasion arc out loud: acknowledge β†’ reason β†’ compare β†’ invite. Time yourself: aim to do it in under 30 seconds with natural fluency.
말의 λ‚΄μš©λ§ŒνΌ λ§ν•˜λŠ” 방식도 μ€‘μš”ν•΄μš”. ✨
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