Discussing Habits for Mental Well-being
Talk about what you do to take care of your mind β in natural, conversational Korean.
Iru Helper Note
Koreans talk about mental well-being through practical habits β not just feelings. The vocabulary reflects this grounded, everyday approach.
μμ¦ μ€νΈλ μ€ κ΄λ¦¬ μ΄λ»κ² ν΄μ?
(How do you manage stress these days?)
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π― What You'll Learn Today
Talking about mental health and well-being in Korean is becoming increasingly natural as the topic grows less taboo. Today you'll learn the key expressions and habits vocabulary that Koreans actually use when talking about stress, rest, and things they do to feel better β so you can join these conversations naturally.
π Mental Well-being Habits Vocabulary
Expression | Meaning | Notes |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νλ€ | To relieve stress | Very common; νλ€ = to release/untangle |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°λ€ | To receive stress / be stressed | μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μμ = I'm stressed |
κΈ°λΆ μ νμ νλ€ | To get a change of mood | Light activity to refresh mentally |
λ§μμ΄ νΈνλ€ | Mind is at ease / peaceful | λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ‘μ΄μ = I feel at ease now |
λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ²λ€ | Mind feels heavy / burdened | Opposite of λ§μμ΄ νΈνλ€ |
νΌμλ§μ μκ° | Time alone / me-time | Quiet time for oneself |
μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°λ€ | To write a journal | Common mental health habit |
μ°μ±
νλ€ | To take a walk | One of the most cited habits |
λͺ
μνλ€ | To meditate | Growing in popularity |
μΆ©λΆν μλ€ | To sleep enough | Sleep as a key mental habit |
μ’μνλ κ²μ νλ€ | To do what you love | General well-being advice |
κ°μ¬νλ€ | To be grateful / to thank | κ°μ¬ν κ²μ μ°Ύλ€ = find things to be grateful for |
μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μλ€ | Not to force yourself | Self-compassion expression |
λ΄λ €λλ€ | To let go / put it down | Emotional release or acceptance |
λ²μμ | Burnout | Direct loanword |
π‘ Key pattern: ~μ/λ₯Ό νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ (When I do ~, my mind becomes more at ease): μ°μ±
νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ. (When I take a walk, my mind becomes at ease.)
π¬ Conversations in Action
Conversation 1 β Asking about stress habits
A: μμ¦ μ€νΈλ μ€ λ§μ΄ λ°μμ?
(Are you getting a lot of stress lately?)
B: λ€, μ’μ. κ·Έλλ λ§€μΌ μ°μ±
νλ©΄μ κΈ°λΆ μ νμ ν΄μ.
(Yes, a bit. Still, I get a change of mood by walking every day.)
A: μ λ μ°μ±
μ΄ μ μΌ μ’λλΌκ³ μ. νΌμ κ±ΈμΌλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ.
(I find walking the best too. When I walk alone, my mind becomes at ease.)
Conversation 2 β Talking about burnout and habits
A: μμ¦ λ²μμ μ¨ κ² κ°μμ.
(It feels like I'm experiencing burnout lately.)
B: λ§μ΄ νλ€κ² λ€. μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ λ§κ³ μ’ μ¬μ΄μ.
(That sounds really tough. Don't force yourself β take a rest.)
A: λ§μμ. μ’μνλ κ² νλ©΄μ λ΄λ €λμΌλ €κ³ νκ³ μμ΄μ.
(You're right. I'm trying to let go by doing things I love.)
π Cultural Note β Well-being Talk in Korea
Korean culture has historically been hesitant about discussing mental health openly, but this is changing rapidly β especially among younger generations. Phrases like λ²μμ, λ§μ μ±κΉ (mindfulness), and νλ§ (healing/relaxation) are now common in everyday conversation. Saying μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μμ or λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μμ is perfectly normal and invites supportive responses. Habits-focused conversation is preferred over diagnosis-heavy language.
<summary>Try This Speaking Exercise
Answer each question using mental well-being vocabulary from today's lesson.
A. μμ¦ μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μμ? (Are you stressed these days?)
<summary>Answer
λ€, μ’ λ°μμ. μΌμ΄ λ§μμμ. κ·Έλλ ν΄κ·Ό νμ μ°μ±
νλ©΄μ κΈ°λΆ μ νμ ν΄μ.
(Yes, a bit. There's a lot of work. Still, I get a change of mood by walking after work.)
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B. μ€νΈλ μ€ ν λ λ³΄ν΅ λ ν΄μ? (What do you usually do to relieve stress?)
<summary>Answer
μ’μνλ μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄μ νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ κ°μ Έμ. κ·Έλ¬λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ.
(I take time alone while listening to music I love. That makes my mind feel at ease.)
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C. λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μΈ λ μ΄λ»κ² ν΄μ? (What do you do when your mind feels heavy?)
<summary>Answer
μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°κ±°λ μ°μ±
ν΄μ. μ΅μ§λ‘ μ무κ²λ νμ§ μμΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ.
(I write in my journal or take a walk. I try not to force myself to do anything.)
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D. λ²μμ κ²½νν΄ λ³Έ μ μμ΄μ? (Have you experienced burnout?)
<summary>Answer
λ€, μλ
μ μ’ μ¬νμ΄μ. κ·Έλ λ΄λ €λλ μ°μ΅μ λ§μ΄ νμ΄μ.
(Yes, it was pretty bad last year. At that time I practiced letting go a lot.)
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E. μμ¦ λ§μ μ±κΉ μ΄λ»κ² ν΄μ? (How do you take care of your mind these days?)
<summary>Answer
μΆ©λΆν μκ³ , μ’μνλ κ²μ νλ €κ³ ν΄μ. κ·Έκ² μ μΌ λμμ΄ λΌμ.
(I try to sleep enough and do what I love. That helps the most.)
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F. κΈ°λΆ μ νμ μ μΌ μ’μ κ² λμμ? (What's best for getting a change of mood?)
<summary>Answer
μ λ μΉ΄νμμ νΌμ μ»€νΌ λ§μλ κ±°μ. νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νμν΄μ.
(For me it's having coffee alone at a cafe. I need time just for myself.)
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G. κ°μ¬ν κ²μ μ°Ύλ μ΅κ΄μ΄ μμ΄μ? (Do you have a habit of finding things to be grateful for?)
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λ€, μκΈ° μ μ μ€λ κ°μ¬ν κ² μΈ κ°μ§λ₯Ό μκ°ν΄μ. λ§μμ΄ κ°λ²Όμμ Έμ.
(Yes, before sleeping I think of three things I'm grateful for today. My mind becomes lighter.)
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H. λͺ
μν΄ λ³Έ μ μμ΄μ? (Have you tried meditating?)
<summary>Answer
λ€, μμΉ¨μ 5λΆμ© ν΄μ. λ§μμ΄ μ λλλ λλμ΄μμ.
(Yes, I do it for 5 minutes in the morning. It feels like my mind gets organized.)
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I. μ€νΈλ μ€λ°μ λ μ΅μ§λ‘ μΌνλ νΈμ΄μμ? (When stressed, do you tend to force yourself to work?)
<summary>Answer
μμ μ κ·Έλ¬λλ°, μμ¦μ μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μμΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ. μ¬λ κ² λ ν¨μ¨μ μ΄λλΌκ³ μ.
(I used to, but lately I try not to force myself. I've found that resting is more efficient.)
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J. μΉκ΅¬κ° λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ²λ€κ³ νλ©΄ λλΌκ³ ν΄μ? (What do you say when a friend says their mind feels heavy?)
<summary>Answer
λ§μ΄ νλ€κ² λ€. μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ λ§κ³ , μ’ λ΄λ €λμ λ΄μ. κ°μ΄ μ°μ±
ν κΉμ?
(That sounds really tough. Don't force yourself, try letting it go. Shall we go for a walk together?)
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Expression Reference
Expression | Nuance/Key |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νλ€ | Actively relieve stress |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°λ€ | Be stressed (receive stress) |
κΈ°λΆ μ νμ νλ€ | Refresh / change mood |
λ§μμ΄ νΈνλ€ | Mind at ease |
λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ²λ€ | Mind feels burdened |
νΌμλ§μ μκ° | Me-time / time alone |
λ΄λ €λλ€ | Let go emotionally |
μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μλ€ | Not force yourself |
λ²μμ | Burnout |
Pattern Tip
~νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ is your go-to: [habit]νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ. Use it to talk about any habit that helps your mental state. The -μ/μ΄μ Έμ ending signals gradual change, making it sound natural and personal.
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Want more reps?
Next time someone asks μμ¦ μ΄λμ?, try giving a two-sentence mental well-being update: one sentence for how you're feeling, one for what habit is helping. This is a natural, conversational way to answer that goes deeper than just λ°λΉ μ.
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π¦ Practice Hub β Mental Well-being Habits
Exercise 1 β Choose the Right Expression
Pick the most natural expression for each mental well-being situation.
A. You want to say you're currently stressed.
a) μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νμ΄μ
b) μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μμ
c) μ€νΈλ μ€κ° μμ΄μ
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b) μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μμ β "I'm receiving stress" = I'm stressed. λ°λ€ is always used here.
B. You want to say walking helps you relieve stress.
a) μ°μ±
νλ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μμ
b) μ°μ±
νλ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€κ° νλ €μ
c) μ°μ±
νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μμ
<summary>Answer
b) μ°μ±
νλ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€κ° νλ €μ β "When I walk, stress gets relieved." νλ¦¬λ€ = passive of νλ€.
C. You want to say your mind feels burdened today.
a) μ€λ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ
b) μ€λ λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μμ
c) μ€λ λ§μμ΄ κ°λ²Όμμ
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b) μ€λ λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μμ β "My mind feels heavy today" = burdened or troubled.
D. You want to describe taking quiet time just for yourself.
a) λ²μμμ΄ μμ΄μ
b) νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ κ°μ Έμ
c) μ΅μ§λ‘ μΌν΄μ
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b) νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ κ°μ Έμ β "I take time just for myself" = me-time.
E. You want to say you're experiencing burnout.
a) λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ
b) κΈ°λΆ μ νμ ν΄μ
c) λ²μμμ΄ μ¨ κ² κ°μμ
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c) λ²μμμ΄ μ¨ κ² κ°μμ β "It seems like burnout has come" = I think I'm burned out.
F. You want to say you're not forcing yourself to do anything.
a) μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μμμ
b) μ΅μ§λ‘ μ¬μ΄μ
c) μ΅μ§λ‘ μ€νΈλ μ€ λ°μμ
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a) μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μμμ β "I don't force myself" β key self-compassion expression.
G. You want to say journaling helps your mental health.
a) μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μμ
b) μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ
c) μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°λ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μμ
<summary>Answer
b) μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ β "When I journal, my mind becomes at ease."
H. You want to say you're trying to let go of something mentally.
a) λ΄λ €λμΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ
b) μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ
c) λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μ°λ €κ³ ν΄μ
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a) λ΄λ €λμΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ β "I'm trying to let go" β emotional release.
I. You want to describe getting a mood refresh through an activity.
a) μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μμ
b) κΈ°λΆ μ νμ ν΄μ
c) λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μμ
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b) κΈ°λΆ μ νμ ν΄μ β "I get a change of mood" β a light refreshing activity.
J. You want to say sleeping enough is your main habit.
a) μΆ©λΆν μλ κ² μ μΌ μ€μν΄μ
b) μΆ©λΆν μλ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μμ
c) μΆ©λΆν μλ©΄ λ²μμμ΄ μμ
<summary>Answer
a) μΆ©λΆν μλ κ² μ μΌ μ€μν΄μ β "Sleeping enough is most important."
Quick Reference
Expression | Meaning |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°λ€ | To be stressed |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νλ€ | To relieve stress |
λ§μμ΄ νΈνλ€ | Mind at ease |
λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ²λ€ | Mind feels heavy |
κΈ°λΆ μ νμ νλ€ | Get a mood refresh |
νΌμλ§μ μκ° | Me-time |
λ΄λ €λλ€ | Let go emotionally |
μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μλ€ | Not force yourself |
λ²μμ | Burnout |
μΆ©λΆν μλ€ | Sleep enough |
Common Mistake
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°λ€ β μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό μ£Όλ€. λ°λ€ = receive (you're stressed). μ£Όλ€ = give (you're causing stress to someone else). μ€νΈλ μ€ μ€μ means "you're stressing me out!" β different situation entirely.
Exercise 2 β Korean β English Translation
Translate each mental well-being sentence naturally.
A. μμ¦ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ§μ΄ λ°κ³ μμ΄μ.
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I've been really stressed lately.
B. μ°μ±
νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ.
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When I take a walk, my mind becomes at ease.
C. λ²μμμ΄ μ¨ κ² κ°μμ μ’ μ¬κ³ μμ΄μ.
<summary>Answer
It seems like burnout came so I'm resting a bit.
D. μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μλ κ² μ μΌ μ€μν κ² κ°μμ.
<summary>Answer
I think not forcing yourself is the most important thing.
E. νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ μμΌλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ κ°λ²Όμμ Έμ.
<summary>Answer
When I have time just for myself, my mind becomes lighter.
F. μ’μνλ κ±Έ νλ©΄μ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό νμ΄μ.
<summary>Answer
I relieve stress by doing things I love.
G. λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μΈ λλ μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°λ κ² λμμ΄ λΌμ.
<summary>Answer
When my mind feels heavy, writing in my journal helps.
H. λ΄λ €λλ μ°μ΅μ νκ³ μμ΄μ. μ½μ§ μμ§λ§μ.
<summary>Answer
I'm practicing letting go. It's not easy though.
I. μΆ©λΆν μμΌ λ€μ λ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ.
<summary>Answer
I need to sleep enough to feel good the next day.
J. κ°μ¬ν κ²μ μ°Ύλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ§λ κ² κ°μμ.
<summary>Answer
When I look for things to be grateful for, my mind seems to become at ease.
Vocabulary Cheat Sheet
Korean | English |
λ§μμ΄ κ°λ²Όμμ§λ€ | Mind becomes lighter |
λμμ΄ λλ€ | To be helpful |
μ½μ§ μλ€ | Not easy |
μ°μ΅μ νλ€ | To practice |
λ€μ λ | The next day |
κ°μ¬ν κ²μ μ°Ύλ€ | Find things to be grateful for |
Grammar Tip
~μ/μ΄μ§λ€ = to become (gradual change): νΈν΄μ§λ€ = become at ease; κ°λ²Όμμ§λ€ = become lighter; 무거μμ§λ€ = become heavier. This ending turns adjectives into descriptions of gradual mental/emotional change β perfect for well-being talk.
Exercise 3 β Complete the Sentence
Fill in the blank with the right well-being expression.
A. μμ¦ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ§μ΄ μμ. (receiving)
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λ° β μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ§μ΄ λ°μμ.
B. μ°μ±
νλ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€κ° λ €μ. (gets relieved)
<summary>Answer
ν β μ€νΈλ μ€κ° νλ €μ.
C. λ²μμ΄ μ¨ κ² κ°μμ. (burnout)
<summary>Answer
μ β λ²μμμ΄ μ¨ κ² κ°μμ.
D. μ€λ λ§μμ΄ λ§μ΄ μμ. (heavy)
<summary>Answer
무거 β λ§μμ΄ λ§μ΄ 무거μμ.
E. νΌμλ§μ μ΄ νμν΄μ. (alone time)
<summary>Answer
μκ° β νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ νμν΄μ.
F. μ΅μ§λ‘ μ§ μμμ. (not doing)
<summary>Answer
ν β μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μμμ.
G. μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ°λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ. (becomes)
<summary>Answer
μ Έ β λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ.
H. λ΄λ €μΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ. (let go)
<summary>Answer
λ β λ΄λ €λμΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ.
I. μΆ©λΆν μΌ λ€μ λ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ. (sleep)
<summary>Answer
μ β μΆ©λΆν μμΌ λ€μ λ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ.
J. κΈ°λΆ μ νλ©΄ λμμ΄ λΌμ. (change of mood)
<summary>Answer
μ ν β κΈ°λΆ μ νμ νλ©΄ λμμ΄ λΌμ.
Sentence Starters
Starter | Continues With |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό | λ°μμ / νμ΄μ |
λ§μμ΄ | νΈν΄μ / 무거μμ / νΈν΄μ Έμ |
λ²μμμ΄ | μ¨ κ² κ°μμ |
[habit]νλ©΄ | λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ |
μ΅μ§λ‘ | νμ§ μμμ |
λ΄λ €λμΌ | λ €κ³ ν΄μ |
Production Tip
The most useful sentence you can build today: [habit]νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ. Practice saying it with five different habits: μ°μ±
νλ©΄, μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄, μΌκΈ° μ°λ©΄, μΆ©λΆν μλ©΄, μ’μνλ κ±° νλ©΄. You'll have five ready-made sentences for any well-being conversation.
Exercise 4 β Dialogue Completion
Complete B's response about mental well-being naturally.
A. A: μμ¦ μ΄λμ? νλ€μ΄ 보μ¬μ. B: (share stress and one coping habit)
<summary>Answer
μ¬μ€ μμ¦ μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό μ’ λ°κ³ μμ΄μ. κ·Έλλ λ§€μΌ μ°μ±
νλ©΄μ κΈ°λΆ μ νν΄μ.
(Actually I've been a bit stressed lately. Still, I get a change of mood by walking every day.)
B. A: λ²μμ μμ λ μ΄λ»κ² νμ΄μ? B: (share what helped)
<summary>Answer
μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μκ³ κ·Έλ₯ μ¬μμ΄μ. νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ λ§μ΄ κ°μ§λ©΄μμ.
(I didn't force myself and just rested. While taking a lot of time just for myself.)
C. A: λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μΈ λ λ ν΄μ? B: (share a habit that helps)
<summary>Answer
μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ¨μ. μ°λ€ 보면 λ§μμ΄ μ’ κ°λ²Όμμ§λλΌκ³ μ.
(I write in my journal. As I write, my mind tends to get a bit lighter.)
D. A: μ€νΈλ μ€ κ΄λ¦¬ μ΄λ»κ² ν΄μ? B: (describe your approach)
<summary>Answer
μ’μνλ κ±Έ νλ©΄μ νμ΄μ. μμ
λ£κ±°λ μ°μ±
νκ±°λμ. μΆ©λΆν μλ κ²λ μ€μνλλΌκ³ μ.
(I relieve it by doing what I love. Listening to music or walking. I've also found sleeping enough is important.)
E. A: λ§μμ΄ νΈν νΈμ΄μμ? B: (honest answer about your current state)
<summary>Answer
μμ¦μ μ’ λ¬΄κ±°μ΄ κ² κ°μμ. κ·Έλλ λ΄λ €λμΌλ €κ³ λ
Έλ ₯νκ³ μμ΄μ.
(Lately it feels a bit heavy. Still, I'm trying to let go.)
F. A: λͺ
μ ν΄λ΄€μ΄μ? B: (share your experience or opinion)
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λ€, μμΉ¨μ μ§§κ² ν΄μ. λ§μμ΄ μ λλλ λλμ΄ μμ΄μ. ν΄λ³΄λ©΄ μ’μ κ² κ°μμ.
(Yes, I do it briefly in the morning. There's a feeling of my mind getting organized. I think it'd be good to try.)
G. A: μΉκ΅¬κ° λ²μμμ΄ μλ€κ³ ν΄μ. λλΌκ³ ν΄μ€ κ±°μμ? B: (advise the friend)
<summary>Answer
μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ λ§κ³ μ§κΈ μ’ μ¬μ΄μ. λ΄λ €λλ κ² μ μΌ μ€μν κ² κ°μμ.
(Don't force yourself and rest for now. I think letting go is the most important thing.)
H. A: κ°μ¬νλ μ΅κ΄ μμ΄μ? B: (describe the habit)
<summary>Answer
λ€, μκΈ° μ μ μ€λ μ’μλ κ² μΈ κ°μ§λ₯Ό μκ°ν΄μ. λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ§λλΌκ³ μ.
(Yes, before sleeping I think of three good things from today. I find my mind becomes at ease.)
I. A: μμ¦ μΆ©λΆν μκ³ μμ΄μ? B: (honest answer)
<summary>Answer
μμ§ν μ λͺ» μκ³ μμ΄μ. μΌμ΄ λ§μμμ. κ·Έλμ μμ¦ λ§μμ΄ μ’ λ¬΄κ±°μ΄ κ² κ°μμ.
(Honestly I'm not sleeping well. There's a lot of work. So lately my mind feels a bit heavy.)
J. A: κΈ°λΆ μ νμ μ΄λ»κ² ν΄μ? B: (describe your go-to)
<summary>Answer
μΉ΄νμμ νΌμ μ»€νΌ ν μ λ§μ
μ. νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ μμΌλ©΄ κΈ°λΆμ΄ λ§μ΄ μ’μμ Έμ.
(I have a cup of coffee alone at a cafe. When I have time just for myself, my mood improves a lot.)
Useful Phrases
Phrase | Meaning |
λ§μμ΄ μ λλλ€ | Mind gets organized/settled |
λ
Έλ ₯νλ€ | To make an effort / try |
μ°λ€ 보면 | As I write (naturally) |
μ§§κ² | Briefly / for a short time |
μμ§ν | Honestly |
κΈ°λΆμ΄ μ’μμ§λ€ | Mood improves |
Conversation Tip
When someone shares that they're stressed or burned out, Koreans often respond with: λ§μ΄ νλ€κ² λ€ (that must be really tough) + μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ λ§μ (don't force yourself). This two-part response β empathy + practical advice β is the natural Korean support pattern.
Exercise 5 β Free Speaking Practice
Answer each question using today's well-being vocabulary.
A. Describe your personal go-to habit for relieving stress.
<summary>Sample Answer
μ λ μ°μ±
μ΄ μ μΌ μ’μμ. νΌμ κ±ΈμΌλ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€κ° νλ¦¬κ³ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ.
(For me walking is the best. When I walk alone, stress is relieved and my mind becomes at ease.)
B. Describe a time you felt burned out and what you did.
<summary>Sample Answer
μλ
μ λ²μμμ΄ μμ΄μ. κ·Έλ μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μκ³ μΌμ£ΌμΌ μ λ μ¬μμ΄μ.
(Last year burnout came. At that time I didn't force myself and rested for about a week.)
C. Tell a friend how you take care of your mind these days.
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μμ¦μ μΆ©λΆν μκ³ μ’μνλ κ±Έ νλ©΄μ κΈ°λΆ μ νμ ν΄μ. κ·Έκ² μ μΌ λμμ΄ λΌμ.
(These days I sleep enough and get a change of mood by doing what I love. That helps the most.)
D. What would you say to a friend whose mind feels heavy?
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λ§μ΄ νλ€κ² λ€. μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ λ§κ³ , μ κΉ λ΄λ €λμ λ΄μ. κ°μ΄ μ°μ±
ν κΉμ?
(That must be really tough. Don't force yourself β try letting it go for a moment. Shall we take a walk together?)
E. Describe what νΌμλ§μ μκ° looks like for you.
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μΉ΄νμμ νΌμ μμμ μ»€νΌ λ§μλ κ±°μ. μμ
λ€μΌλ©΄μμ. κ·Έλ¬λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ κ°λ²Όμμ Έμ.
(Sitting alone at a cafe having coffee. While listening to music. That makes my mind feel lighter.)
F. Explain why you think sleep is important for mental well-being.
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μΆ©λΆν μλ©΄ λ€μ λ κΈ°λΆμ΄ μμ ν λ¬λΌμ. λͺ» μλ©΄ μ€νΈλ μ€λ λ μ¬νκ² λ°λ κ² κ°μμ.
(When I sleep enough the next day's mood is completely different. When I don't sleep, stress seems to hit harder too.)
G. Share one mental health habit you want to try or already do.
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κ°μ¬ μΌκΈ°λ₯Ό μ¨λ³΄κ³ μΆμ΄μ. κ°μ¬ν κ±Έ μ°Ύλ€ λ³΄λ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ§λ€κ³ ν΄μμ.
(I want to try writing a gratitude journal. Because they say that when you look for things to be grateful for, your mind becomes at ease.)
H. Describe the difference between how your mind feels on a stressful day vs. a good one.
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μ€νΈλ μ€λ°λ λ μ λ§μμ΄ λ¬΄κ±°μμ. μ’μ λ μ λ§μμ΄ νΈνκ³ κ°λ²Όμ΄ λλμ΄μμ.
(On stressful days my mind feels heavy. On good days it feels at ease and light.)
I. Give advice on what to do when you feel like everything is too much.
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μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ λ§κ³ , μΌλ¨ μ¬μ΄μ. λ΄λ €λλ κ² μκ°λ³΄λ€ μ΄λ ΅μ§λ§, ν΄λ³΄λ©΄ λ¬λΌμ Έμ.
(Don't force yourself, and rest first. Letting go is harder than you think, but if you try it, things change.)
J. Explain what 'λ΄λ €λλ€' means to you personally.
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μ νν
λ΄λ €λλ€λ 건, ν΄κ²°ν μ μλ κ±Έ μ΅μ§λ‘ λΆμ‘μ§ μλ κ±°μμ. κ·Έλ₯ λλλ κ±°μ.
(To me letting go means not forcibly holding onto things that can't be resolved. Just leaving them be.)
Sentence Starters
Starter | Use |
[habit]νλ©΄ λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ Έμ | Habit β mental ease |
μ€νΈλ μ€λ₯Ό λ°μ λ | When I'm stressed |
λ²μμμ΄ μμ λ | When burnout came |
μ΅μ§λ‘ νμ§ μκ³ | Without forcing myself |
λ΄λ €λμΌλ €κ³ ν΄μ | I'm trying to let go |
νΌμλ§μ μκ°μ΄ μμΌλ©΄ | When I have me-time |
Speaking Challenge
Answer the question μμ¦ μ΄λμ? in Korean with a full two-sentence update: one sentence on how you're feeling mentally, one on what you're doing to take care of yourself. Practice until both sentences come naturally β this is one of the most common real conversations you'll have.
λ§μμ΄ νΈν΄μ§λ νκ΅μ΄ ννμ μ΄μ μ μκ² λμ΄μ! β¨
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