Confirming -다면서요?

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TL;DR

  • -다면서요? is used to confirm or verify information you heard from someone else 🗣️
  • Attach -다면서요? to verb/adjective stems (use -라면서요? for nouns and -이다) 📎
  • It carries the nuance "I

TL;DR

  • -다면서요? is used to confirm or verify information you heard from someone else 🗣️
  • Attach -다면서요? to verb/adjective stems (use -라면서요? for nouns and -이다) 📎
  • It carries the nuance "I heard that... is that right?" or "You said that... right?" ✨

What does -다면서요 mean? 🤔

-다면서요 is a super useful ending when you want to confirm something you heard from someone else or through the grapevine! 🎧
Think of it like saying "I heard that..." or "You said that... right?" in English 🇬🇧
It's perfect for double-checking information or gently calling someone out on what they told you before! 😏

How to use it 🛠️

The conjugation is pretty straightforward! Just follow these patterns: 👇

For verbs & adjectives (Past tense) ⏰

Verb/Adjective stem + -았/었/였다면서요?
어제 영화 봤다면서요?
(I heard you watched a movie yesterday?)
한국어 시험이 어려웠다면서요?
(I heard the Korean test was hard?)

For verbs & adjectives (Present tense) 📍

Verb/Adjective stem + -ㄴ/는다면서요?
요즘 운동 많이 한다면서요?
(I heard you exercise a lot these days?)
이 식당 음식이 맛있다면서요?
(I heard the food at this restaurant is delicious?)

For nouns 📦

Noun + -(이)라면서요?
Use -이라면서요 after consonants and -라면서요 after vowels! 🎯
지수 씨가 의사라면서요?
(I heard Jisu is a doctor?)
내일이 생일이라면서요?
(I heard tomorrow is your birthday?)

The vibe & nuance 💬

-다면서요 has a specific feeling to it! It's like you're bringing up something you heard and asking "Hey, is this true?" 🧐
It can sound:
  • Curious & friendly 😊 (genuinely checking)
  • Slightly accusatory 😤 (calling someone out)
  • Surprised 😲 (reacting to news)
The tone of your voice matters a lot here! 🎵
회사 그만둔다면서요? 진짜예요?
(I heard you're quitting your job? Really?)
한국 음식 안 좋아한다면서요? 근데 김치찌개 먹고 있네요!
(You said you don't like Korean food, right? But you're eating kimchi stew!)

Common situations to use it 🎬

-다면서요 is super handy in these scenarios: ✨
1. Confirming gossip or rumors 👂
민지 씨랑 사귄다면서요?
(I heard you're dating Minji?)
2. Checking on plans someone told you about 📅
다음 주에 제주도 간다면서요?
(I heard you're going to Jeju next week?)
3. Gently calling out a contradiction 🤨
피곤하다면서요? 그럼 집에 가세요!
(You said you're tired, right? Then go home!)

Exceptions & Notes ⚠️

Casual speech version 💬

In casual conversation with friends, you can drop the -요 and just use -다면서? or -다며? 🎉
어제 늦게 잤다면서?
(I heard you slept late yesterday?)
오늘 바쁘다며?
(You said you're busy today?)

Don't confuse with -다고 하던데요 🚫

-다면서요 is specifically for confirming what you heard, with that "right?" feeling 🔄
-다고 하던데요 is more neutral reporting without seeking confirmation 📢
Compare these two: 🔍
민수가 미국에 간다면서요?
(I heard Minsu is going to America - is that true?)
민수가 미국에 간다고 하던데요.
(I heard that Minsu is going to America.)
The first one is asking for confirmation, the second is just passing along info! 📬

Quick tips 💡

Use it when you want to verify information you heard from someone or somewhere else!
The "right?" or "is that true?" feeling is built into this grammar!
Pay attention to your tone - it can sound friendly or accusatory depending on context!
Great for everyday conversations, gossip, and checking on people!

Now you're ready to confirm all the juicy information you hear! 🎊 Go practice catching people in their own words! 😉🎯
 
Try the following exercise.
Fill in the blanks using -다면서요 or -냐면서요 to confirm information you heard. 📢
 
  • 지수 씨가 내일 회사에 안 __?
    • Answer
      온다면서요
 
 
  • 민호 씨가 이번 주말에 부산에 __?
    • Answer
      간다면서요
 
 
  • 수진 씨가 어제 시험을 정말 잘 __?
    • Answer
      봤다면서요
 
 
  • 요즘 김치찌개가 이 식당에서 제일 __?
    • Answer
      맛있다면서요
 
 
  • 내일 날씨가 정말 __?
    • Answer
      춥다면서요
 
 
  • 사장님이 다음 달에 월급을 __?
    • Answer
      올린다면서요
 
 
  • 준호 씨가 대학교 때 축구 선수__?
    • Answer
      였다면서요
 
 
  • 은지 씨가 요즘 새로운 프로젝트 때문에 너무 __?
    • Answer
      바쁘다면서요
 
 
  • 이 영화가 올해 최고의 영화__?
    • Answer
      라면서요
 
 
  • 진수 씨가 다음 주에 결혼__?
    • Answer
      한다면서요
 
Vocabulary
회사 - company
부산 - Busan
시험 - exam, test
김치찌개 - kimchi stew
식당 - restaurant
날씨 - weather
춥다 - to be cold
사장님 - boss, president
월급 - salary
올리다 - to raise, increase
축구 선수 - soccer player
프로젝트 - project
바쁘다 - to be busy
영화 - movie
결혼하다 - to get married

Common mistakes
  • 🚫 Don't forget to use -냐면서요 (not -다면서요) after verbs/adjectives ending in question form
  • 💡 Remember that -다면서요 shows you're confirming information you heard from someone else, not asking a new question
  • ⚠️ The past tense form is -았/었다면서요, not -았/었냐면서요
  • 🎯 Use polite speech level (-요) since this ending is already quite casual when confirming information