Borrowing and Returning Items Politely

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Borrowing and Returning Items

Learn to ask to borrow something, agree to lend, and return items gracefully — all in natural Korean.

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Iru Helper Note

In Korean, borrowing and lending have separate verbs: 빌리다 (to borrow) and 빌려주다 (to lend/give a borrow). When asking to borrow, use: 혹시 잠깐 빌릴 수 있을까요? (Could I borrow it for a moment?). When returning, the key phrase is 다 쓰고 돌려드릴게요 (I'll return it after I'm done using it).

혹시 펜 잠깐 빌릴 수 있을까요? 금방 돌려드릴게요.

(Could I borrow a pen for a moment? I'll return it right away.)

🔄 What You'll Learn Today

Today you'll learn how to borrow and return items in Korean — asking politely, agreeing to lend, and returning gracefully. The key verbs are 빌리다 (to borrow), 빌려주다 (to lend), and 돌려주다 (to return something). You'll also use 잠깐 (just for a moment) and ~ㄹ게요 (I will ~) to make your promises about returning items feel natural and reliable.

📌 Borrowing & Returning Vocabulary

Expression	Meaning	Notes
빌리다	To borrow	빌릴 수 있을까요?
빌려주다	To lend	빌려줄게요
돌려주다	To return (give back)	돌려드릴게요
잠깐	Just for a moment	잠깐 빌릴 수 있어요?
금방	Right away / soon	금방 돌려줄게요
다 쓰고 나서	After finishing using	다 쓰고 나서 돌려줄게요
조심히 쓸게요	I'll use it carefully	Reassurance when borrowing
고장 나면	If it breaks	고장 나면 말할게요
괜찮아요	It's okay	When lending/declining
언제까지 필요해요?	Until when do you need it?	Checking the timeline
그냥 가지세요	Just keep it	When giving rather than lending
쓰고 돌아오면	When you get back after using	Casual return arrangement
잃어버리면	If I lose it	Risk acknowledgment
혹시 없어요?	Do you happen to have ~?	Asking if available

💡 Key pattern: 빌릴 수 있을까요? = "Could I borrow~?" is softer and more natural than 빌려주세요 (please lend me) — use it when borrowing from someone you don't know well. Add 잠깐 (just a moment) or 금방 돌려드릴게요 (I'll return it right away) to reassure the lender.

💬 Conversations in Action

Conversation 1 — Borrowing a pen

A: 저기요, 혹시 펜 잠깐 빌릴 수 있을까요? (Excuse me, could I borrow a pen for a moment?)

B: 아, 네, 여기요. (Oh, yes, here you go.)

A: 감사해요. 금방 돌려드릴게요. (Thank you. I'll return it right away.)

B: 괜찮아요, 천천히 쓰세요. (It's okay, take your time.)

Conversation 2 — Borrowing and returning a book

A: 혹시 그 책 빌릴 수 있어요? 잠깐 읽어보고 싶어서요. (Could I borrow that book? I want to read it for a bit.)

B: 물론이죠. 언제까지 필요해요? (Of course. Until when do you need it?)

A: 일주일 정도면 충분해요. 조심히 쓸게요. (About a week should be enough. I'll use it carefully.)

B: 알겠어요. 다 읽고 나서 돌려주면 돼요. (Okay. Just return it after you finish reading.)

🌏 Cultural Note — Lending Culture in Korea

In Korea, lending and borrowing among friends is common and casual — it's a sign of closeness. However, returning items promptly is important for maintaining trust. The phrase 고장 나면 말할게요 (I'll let you know if it breaks) or 잃어버리면 새 거로 사줄게요 (I'll buy you a new one if I lose it) shows responsibility and earns trust. Notably, Koreans sometimes say 그냥 가지세요 (just keep it) — especially for small items like pens or charging cables — which is a warm gesture, not just politeness.

<summary>Try This Speaking Exercise

For each situation below, use the expressions from this lesson.

A. Ask a classmate to borrow a pen.

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혹시 펜 잠깐 빌릴 수 있을까요? 금방 돌려드릴게요. (Could I borrow a pen for a moment? I'll return it right away.)

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B. Ask a friend if you can borrow their umbrella.

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혹시 우산 좀 빌릴 수 있어요? 비가 갑자기 와서요. (Could I borrow your umbrella? It suddenly started raining.)

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C. Reassure someone you'll use their item carefully.

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조심히 쓸게요. 걱정하지 마세요. (I'll use it carefully. Don't worry.)

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D. Promise to return something right away.

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금방 돌려드릴게요. 잠깐만요. (I'll return it right away. Just a moment.)

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E. Say you'll return something after finishing using it.

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다 쓰고 나서 돌려드릴게요. (I'll return it after I'm done using it.)

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F. Ask someone until when they need a borrowed item back.

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언제까지 돌려드리면 될까요? (By when should I return it to you?)

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G. Agree to lend something to a friend.

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그럼요, 빌려드릴게요. 조심히 쓰세요. (Of course, I'll lend it to you. Use it carefully.)

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H. Return something and thank the person.

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여기요, 돌려드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 정말 감사해요. (Here, I'm returning it. Thank you so much for lending it.)

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I. Tell someone they can just keep a small item.

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괜찮아요, 그냥 가지세요. 작은 거니까요. (It's okay, just keep it. It's a small thing.)

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J. Apologize because you need to borrow something again.

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또 빌려도 될까요? 죄송한데 충전기가 없어서요. (Could I borrow it again? I'm sorry but I don't have a charger.)

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Expression Reference

Expression	Nuance/Key
빌릴 수 있을까요?	Soft borrow request
잠깐	Just a moment
금방 돌려드릴게요	Return right away
조심히 쓸게요	I'll be careful
다 쓰고 나서	After finishing
언제까지요?	Until when?
빌려줄게요	I'll lend it
그냥 가지세요	Just keep it
돌려드리다	To return (humble)
또 빌려도 돼요?	Can I borrow again?

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Speaking Tip

When borrowing, always include a reassurance: 금방 돌려드릴게요 (I'll return it right away) or 조심히 쓸게요 (I'll use it carefully). This shows respect for the lender's property and makes them feel comfortable saying yes. Without reassurance, even polite requests can feel presumptuous.

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Want more reps?

Practice the full borrow-use-return cycle out loud three times: (1) 혹시 [item] 빌릴 수 있을까요? (2) 조심히 쓸게요 (3) 여기요, 돌려드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 감사해요. Swap in different items each time: 펜, 우산, 충전기.

📦 Practice Hub — Borrowing and Returning Items

Exercise 1 — Choose the Right Expression

Pick the best word or phrase for each situation.

A. You want to say "to borrow." You say: ___ 릴 수 있을까요?

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빌 → 빌릴 수 있을까요? (Could I borrow it?)

B. You want to say "to lend." You say: 빌려 ___ 게요.

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줄 → 빌려줄게요. (I'll lend it to you.)

C. You want to say "I'll return it right away." You say: ___ 돌려드릴게요.

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금방 → 금방 돌려드릴게요. (I'll return it right away.)

D. You want to say "just for a moment." You say: ___ 빌릴 수 있어요?

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잠깐 → 잠깐 빌릴 수 있어요? (Could I borrow it just for a moment?)

E. You want to say "I'll use it carefully." You say: ___ 쓸게요.

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조심히 → 조심히 쓸게요. (I'll use it carefully.)

F. You want to say "after I'm done using it." You say: 다 ___ 나서.

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쓰고 → 다 쓰고 나서 (after finishing using it)

G. You want to say "until when do you need it?" You say: ___ 까지 필요해요?

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언제 → 언제까지 필요해요? (Until when do you need it?)

H. You want to say "just keep it." You say: 그냥 ___ 세요.

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가지 → 그냥 가지세요. (Just keep it.)

I. You want to say "to return something." You say: ___ 드릴게요.

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돌려 → 돌려드릴게요. (I'll return it.)

J. You want to ask "can I borrow it again?" You say: 또 빌려 ___ 될까요?

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도 → 또 빌려도 될까요? (Can I borrow it again?)

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Quick Reference

Expression	Meaning
빌리다	To borrow
빌려주다	To lend
돌려주다	To return
잠깐	Just a moment
금방	Right away
조심히 쓸게요	I'll be careful
다 쓰고 나서	After finishing
언제까지요?	Until when?
그냥 가지세요	Just keep it
또 빌려도 돼요?	Can I borrow again?

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Pitfall

빌리다 (to borrow) and 빌려주다 (to lend) are easy to confuse. YOU borrow = 빌리다. YOU lend = 빌려주다. Think of 빌려주다 as "give a borrow." So: 저는 빌려요 (I borrow) vs. 제가 빌려드릴게요 (I will lend to you — I'll give you a borrow). Get the direction right!

Exercise 2 — Korean → English Translation

Translate each sentence into natural English.

A. 혹시 펜 잠깐 빌릴 수 있을까요?

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Could I borrow a pen for a moment by any chance?

B. 금방 돌려드릴게요.

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I'll return it right away.

C. 조심히 쓸게요. 걱정하지 마세요.

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I'll use it carefully. Don't worry.

D. 다 쓰고 나서 돌려드릴게요.

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I'll return it after I'm done using it.

E. 언제까지 필요해요?

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Until when do you need it?

F. 그냥 가지세요. 작은 거니까요.

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Just keep it. It's a small thing.

G. 여기요, 돌려드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 감사해요.

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Here, I'm returning it. Thank you for lending it.

H. 물론이죠. 조심히 쓰세요.

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Of course. Use it carefully.

I. 또 빌려도 될까요? 죄송한데요.

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Could I borrow it again? I'm sorry.

J. 일주일 정도면 충분해요.

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About a week should be enough.

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Vocabulary Cheat Sheet

Word	Meaning
빌리다	To borrow
빌려주다	To lend
돌려주다	To return
잠깐	A moment
금방	Right away
조심히	Carefully
충분하다	Enough
걱정하다	To worry
물론이죠	Of course
가지다	To keep/have

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Grammar Tip

~ㄹ게요 makes a promise or declaration: 돌려드릴게요 (I WILL return it — it's my promise to you). This ending is warmer and more committed than the plain future ~ㄹ 거예요. Whenever you borrow something, end with ~ㄹ게요 to make the other person feel secure: 금방 돌려드릴게요 = "I promise I'll return it right away."

Exercise 3 — Complete the Sentence

Fill in the blank with the correct word or ending.

A. 혹시 펜 잠깐 ___ 수 있을까요? (Could I borrow a pen for a moment?)

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빌릴 → 빌릴 수 있을까요?

B. ___ 돌려드릴게요. (I'll return it right away.)

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금방 → 금방 돌려드릴게요.

C. ___ 쓸게요. 걱정하지 마세요. (I'll use it carefully. Don't worry.)

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조심히 → 조심히 쓸게요.

D. 다 ___ 나서 돌려드릴게요. (I'll return it after I'm done using it.)

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쓰고 → 다 쓰고 나서 돌려드릴게요.

E. ___ 까지 필요해요? (Until when do you need it?)

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언제 → 언제까지 필요해요?

F. 그냥 ___ 세요. 작은 거니까요. (Just keep it. It's a small thing.)

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가지 → 그냥 가지세요.

G. 여기요, ___ 드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 감사해요. (Here, returning it. Thank you for lending.)

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돌려 → 돌려드릴게요.

H. 물론이죠. ___ 쓰세요. (Of course. Use it carefully.)

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조심히 → 조심히 쓰세요.

I. 또 ___ 도 될까요? 죄송한데요. (Could I borrow it again? I'm sorry.)

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빌려 → 또 빌려도 될까요?

J. 일주일 정도면 ___ 해요. (About a week should be enough.)

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충분 → 충분해요.

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Use for
혹시 ~빌릴 수 있을까요?	Soft borrow request
금방 돌려드릴게요	Reassuring promise
조심히 쓸게요	Careful use promise
다 쓰고 나서...	After finishing
언제까지요?	Checking timeline
그냥 가지세요	Gift instead of loan

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Production Tip

Three-step borrow cycle: (1) 혹시 [item] 빌릴 수 있을까요? (2) 금방 돌려드릴게요/조심히 쓸게요 (3) 여기요, 돌려드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 감사해요. Practice all three steps with: 펜, 우산, 충전기, 책. Four items × three steps = full fluency.

Exercise 4 — Dialogue Completion

Fill in the missing line.

A. A: 저기요, 혹시 펜 빌릴 수 있을까요? B: ___

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아, 여기요. 괜찮아요, 천천히 쓰세요. (Oh, here you go. It's okay, take your time.)

B. A: 우산 빌려도 돼요? 비가 와서요. B: ___

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물론이죠! 조심히 쓰고 나중에 돌려주면 돼요. (Of course! Use it carefully and just return it later.)

C. A: [Returning a book] 여기요, 돌려드릴게요. B: ___

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감사해요. 재미있었어요? (Thank you. Was it interesting?)

D. A: 언제까지 필요해요? B: ___

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내일까지면 충분해요. 조심히 쓸게요. (Until tomorrow is enough. I'll use it carefully.)

E. A: 충전기 잠깐 빌릴 수 있을까요? B: ___

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네, 여기요. 금방 필요해요? (Yes, here you go. Do you need it right away?)

F. A: 빌려주셔서 정말 감사해요. B: ___

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별말씀을요. 필요하면 또 빌려가도 돼요. (Don't mention it. If you need it, feel free to borrow it again.)

G. A: 책 다 읽으셨어요? B: ___

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네, 다 읽었어요. 여기요, 돌려드릴게요. 재미있었어요! (Yes, I finished reading it. Here, returning it. It was interesting!)

H. A: 또 빌려도 될까요? 죄송한데요. B: ___

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괜찮아요. 필요하면 언제든지 빌려가세요. (It's okay. Borrow it anytime you need.)

I. A: 이거 반납할게요. 정말 잘 썼어요. B: ___

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다행이에요. 앞으로도 필요하면 말해요. (I'm glad. If you need it going forward, let me know.)

J. A: 혹시 자전거 빌릴 수 있을까요? B: ___

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자전거요? 언제까지 필요해요? (A bicycle? Until when do you need it?)

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Useful Phrases

Phrase	Meaning
천천히 쓰세요	Take your time using it
나중에 돌려주면 돼요	Just return it later
내일까지면 충분해요	Until tomorrow is fine
필요하면 또 빌려가도 돼요	Borrow again if needed
다행이에요	I'm glad
앞으로도 말해요	Let me know going forward

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Conversation Tip

When returning something in Korean, don't just hand it back silently. Say: 여기요, 돌려드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 감사해요. This two-part return — the handback + the thanks — is the polite and warm way. If the item was particularly useful, add: 덕분에 잘 썼어요 (Thanks to you, I made good use of it).

Exercise 5 — Free Speaking Practice

Answer each prompt out loud in Korean.

A. Ask someone if you can borrow their phone charger.

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혹시 충전기 잠깐 빌릴 수 있을까요? 핸드폰 배터리가 없어서요. (Could I borrow your charger for a moment? My phone has no battery.)

B. Reassure someone that you'll return it soon.

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걱정하지 마세요. 금방 돌려드릴게요. 조심히 쓸게요. (Don't worry. I'll return it right away. I'll use it carefully.)

C. Agree to lend something and ask them to be careful.

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그럼요, 빌려드릴게요. 조심히 쓰세요. (Of course, I'll lend it. Use it carefully.)

D. Return a borrowed umbrella and thank the person.

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여기요, 우산 돌려드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 정말 감사해요. 덕분에 잘 썼어요. (Here, returning the umbrella. Thank you so much for lending it. Thanks to you, I made good use of it.)

E. Ask when the person needs the item back.

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언제까지 돌려드리면 될까요? (By when should I return it?)

F. Tell someone they can just keep a small item.

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그냥 가지세요. 작은 거니까요. 필요하실 것 같아서요. (Just keep it. It's a small thing. I thought you might need it.)

G. Apologize and ask to borrow something again.

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죄송한데 또 빌려도 될까요? 제 거를 깜빡하고 안 가져왔어요. (I'm sorry, could I borrow it again? I forgot to bring mine.)

H. Tell someone to take their time returning something.

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천천히 쓰고 돌려주면 돼요. 급하지 않아요. (Use it at your leisure and just return it. There's no rush.)

I. Ask if someone has a pen you can borrow.

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혹시 펜 없어요? 잠깐만 빌릴 수 있을까요? (Do you happen to have a pen? Could I borrow it just for a moment?)

J. Do the full borrow-return cycle in one turn.

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혹시 우산 빌릴 수 있을까요? 금방 돌려드릴게요. [later] 여기요, 돌려드릴게요. 빌려주셔서 정말 감사해요. (Could I borrow your umbrella? I'll return it right away. [later] Here, returning it. Thank you so much for lending it.)

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Use for
혹시 ~빌릴 수 있을까요?	Soft borrow
금방 돌려드릴게요	Promise to return
조심히 쓸게요	Careful use
여기요, 돌려드릴게요	Returning item
그냥 가지세요	Keep it
언제까지 필요해요?	Timeline check

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Speaking Challenge

Role-play a full borrowing scenario in Korean with no pausing: (1) ask to borrow a specific item with a reason, (2) give two reassurances (금방 + 조심히), (3) have the person agree, (4) return it later with thanks + 덕분에. All four steps without stopping.

빌리고 돌려주는 작은 대화에서도 한국어로 따뜻하게 소통할 수 있어요. ✨