TL;DR π¦
- π Nμ/λμ? β "What about N?" β bounce a question back without repeating it
- π μ λμ? [jeo-neun-yo] β "What about me?"
- π« λλ? [neo-neun] β casual "and you?"
- π μ΄λ¦μμ? [i-reu-meun-yo] β "And your name?"
- π Consonant-ending noun β μμ?, vowel-ending noun β λμ?
π§ Iru Helper Note β Head to the Korean Helper Widgets and listen to today's phrases at natural speed. μ λμ? μ΄λ¦μμ? λλ? [jeo-neun-yo? i-reu-meun-yo? neo-neun?] β practice the rhythm of bouncing a question back. π
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π The Big Picture
Once you've answered a question, you don't need to repeat the whole thing to ask it back β just take the key noun and add μμ? or λμ?. For example, if someone asks μ£Όλ§μ λ νμ΄μ? [ju-ma-re mwo hae-sseo-yo] ("What did you do this weekend?"), you can answer and then just say ___ μ¨λμ? [ssi-neun-yo] β "And you, ___?" It's one of the most natural-sounding shortcuts in everyday Korean. π
π The Rule: μμ vs. λμ
The choice depends on the LAST SOUND of the noun:
- Noun ends in a consonant sound (λ°μΉ¨) β add μμ? β μ΄λ¦ β μ΄λ¦μμ?, μ£Όλ§ β μ£Όλ§μμ?
- Noun ends in a vowel sound β add λμ? β μ β μ λμ?, μΉκ΅¬ β μΉκ΅¬λμ?
- Pronouns follow the same rule: μ λμ? [jeo-neun-yo] (polite "what about me?"), λλ? [neo-neun] (casual "and you?")
π§³ Essential Phrase Kit
- μ λμ? [jeo-neun-yo] β What about me? π
- ___ μ¨λμ? [ssi-neun-yo] β What about you, ___? (polite) π€
- λλ? [neo-neun] β And you? (casual) π«
- μ΄λ¦μμ? [i-reu-meun-yo] β And your name? π
- μ£Όλ§μμ? [ju-ma-reun-yo] β And your weekend? π
- μ€λμμ? [o-neu-reun-yo] β And today? βοΈ
- λ΄μΌμμ? [nae-i-reun-yo] β And tomorrow? π
- 그건μ? [geu-geon-yo] β And that (one)? π
- μΉκ΅¬λμ? [chin-gu-neun-yo] β And your friend? π§βπ€βπ§
- μ λμ [jeo-do-yo] β Me too π
π οΈ Putting It Together
A: μ λ νμμ΄μμ. ___μ¨λμ? B: μ λ νμ¬μμ΄μμ. [A: jeo-neun hak-ssaeng-i-e-yo. ___ ssi-neun-yo? B: jeo-neun hoe-sa-wo-ni-e-yo.]
A: "I'm a student. What about you?" B: "I'm an office worker." π β Adding ___μ¨λμ? after your own answer is the most natural way to ask the same question back.
A: μ£Όλ§ μ 보λμ΄μ? B: λ€, μ 보λμ΄μ. ___μ¨λμ? [A: ju-mal jal bo-nae-sseo-yo? B: ne, jal bo-nae-sseo-yo. ___ ssi-neun-yo?]
A: "Did you have a good weekend?" B: "Yes, I did. What about you?" π
β No need to repeat "μ 보λμ΄μ?" β just bounce it back with μ¨λμ?.
A: μ λ λ§€μ΄ μμ μ’μν΄μ. ___μ¨λμ? B: μ λ μ’μν΄μ! [A: jeo-neun mae-un eum-sik jo-a-hae-yo. ___ ssi-neun-yo? B: jeo-do jo-a-hae-yo!]
A: "I like spicy food. What about you?" B: "I like it too!" πΆοΈ β μ λμ [jeo-do-yo] ("me too") is the perfect natural reply.
π£οΈ Speaking Practice: Mini Dialogue
Read both roles out loud, then switch roles!
λ―Όμ: μ£Όλ§μ λ νμ΄μ?
[Minsu: ju-ma-re mwo hae-sseo-yo?]
Minsu: "What did you do this weekend?"
μ§μ: κ·Έλ₯ μ§μμ μ¬μμ΄μ. λ―Όμ μ¨λμ?
[Jieun: geu-nyang ji-be-seo swi-eo-sseo-yo. min-su ssi-neun-yo?]
Jieun: "I just rested at home. What about you, Minsu?"
λ―Όμ: μ λ μΉκ΅¬λ₯Ό λ§λ¬μ΄μ.
[Minsu: jeo-neun chin-gu-reul man-na-sseo-yo.]
Minsu: "I met a friend."
μ§μ: μ’μκ² λ€! λ€μ μ£Όλ§ κ³ν μμ΄μ?
[Jieun: jo-a-ssget-da! da-eum ju-mal gye-hwak i-sseo-yo?]
Jieun: "That sounds nice! Do you have plans for next weekend?"
λ―Όμ: μμ§ μμ΄μ. μ§μ μ¨λμ?
[Minsu: a-jik eop-sseo-yo. ji-eun ssi-neun-yo?]
Minsu: "Not yet. What about you, Jieun?"
μ§μ: μ λ μμ§ μμ΄μ!
[Jieun: jeo-do a-jik eop-sseo-yo!]
Jieun: "I don't either!"
π§ Speaking Tip
Think of μμ?/λμ? as a one-size-fits-all "bounce-back" tag β attach it to almost any noun (μ΄λ¦, μ£Όλ§, μ§μ
, κ°μ‘±...) to mean "and ___?" It saves you from re-asking the full question, and it makes you sound much more natural in conversation. π
β οΈ Pitfalls to Dodge
β Saying μ΄λ¦λμ? [i-reum-neun-yo] β β
μ΄λ¦ ends in a consonant (γ
), so it's μ΄λ¦μμ? [i-reu-meun-yo].
β Saying μ μμ? [jeo-eun-yo] β β
μ ends in a vowel, so it's μ λμ? [jeo-neun-yo].
β Saying just λ? [neo] to ask "and you?" β β
Add λ: λλ? [neo-neun] β bare λ alone sounds abrupt.
β Using λλ? with someone older or less familiar β β
Use ___ μ¨λμ? [ssi-neun-yo] instead β save λλ? for close friends.
Great job β you can now bounce any question back naturally with μμ?/λμ?! πβ¨
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Try this exercise
Instructions: Choose the best phrase or answer for each situation.
1. μ΄λ¦ ends in a consonant sound (γ
). Fill in: μ΄λ¦οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
μ΄λ¦μμ? [i-reu-meun-yo] β "And your name?" β consonant ending takes μμ.
2. μ ends in a vowel sound. Fill in: μ οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
μ λμ? [jeo-neun-yo] β "What about me?" β vowel ending takes λμ.
3. A: μ λ 컀νΌλ₯Ό μ’μν΄μ. ___ μ¨λμ? B: μ λ μ’μν΄μ! What is A asking B? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
"What about you? Do you like it too?" β A is bouncing the topic back with ___μ¨λμ?.
4. A close friend asks about your weekend, you answer, then want to ask the same back casually. Fill: ...νμ΄. οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
λλ? [neo-neun] β "And you?" β casual, for close friends.
5. μΉκ΅¬ ends in a vowel sound (γ
). Fill in: μΉκ΅¬οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
μΉκ΅¬λμ? [chin-gu-neun-yo] β "And your friend?" β vowel ending takes λμ.
6. Translate casually to a close friend: "And you?" οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
λλ? [neo-neun] β the casual "and you?"
7. True or False: μμ?/λμ? can only be used with the word μ ("I/me").
Answer
False β It can attach to almost any noun β μ΄λ¦, μ£Όλ§, κ°μ‘±, μ§μ
, etc. β to mean "and ___?"
8. A: μ€λ λ μ¨ μ’λ€μ. B: λ€! λ΄μΌοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ? (λ΄μΌ ends in γΉ, a consonant) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
λ΄μΌμμ? [nae-i-reun-yo] β "What about tomorrow?" β consonant ending takes μμ.
9. A: μ λ λ§€μ΄ μμμ μ λͺ» λ¨Ήμ΄μ. ___μ¨λμ? B: μ λ μ λ¨Ήμ΄μ! What does the blank do? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
"[Name] μ¨λμ?" β "What about you, [Name]?" β a polite way to ask the same question back.
10. Practice saying this out loud: μ λ μν 보λ κ±° μ’μν΄μ. ___ μ¨λμ? [jeo-neun yeong-hwa bo-neun geo jo-a-hae-yo. ___ ssi-neun-yo?]
Answer
"I like watching movies. What about you, ___?" β A great pattern for small talk!
Vocabulary Box
- μμ? [eun-yo] β and...? (after consonant-ending noun)
- λμ? [neun-yo] β and...? (after vowel-ending noun)
- μ λμ? [jeo-neun-yo] β what about me?
- λλ? [neo-neun] β and you? (casual)
- ___ μ¨λμ? [ssi-neun-yo] β what about you, ___? (polite)
- μ΄λ¦μμ? [i-reu-meun-yo] β and your name?
- μ£Όλ§μμ? [ju-ma-reun-yo] β and your weekend?
- μ€λμμ? [o-neu-reun-yo] β and today?
- λ΄μΌμμ? [nae-i-reun-yo] β and tomorrow?
- μΉκ΅¬λμ? [chin-gu-neun-yo] β and your friend?
Pitfalls π‘
- λ°μΉ¨(consonant) ending β μμ; vowel ending β λμ
- μ λμ? = polite; λλ? = casual only
- Don't repeat the whole question β just Nμ/λμ?
Want more reps? Visit the Practice Hub when you're ready! π
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π― Practice Hub β Asking 'And You?' (Nuanced Repetition)
μλ
νμΈμ! [an-nyeong-ha-se-yo] Let's practice bouncing questions back naturally with μμ?/λμ?. πβ¨
π Audio reminder: Use the Korean Helper Widgets to hear any phrase.
Exercise 1 β μμ? or λμ? π
A. μ¬λ (ends in γ
, consonant) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
μ¬λμμ? [sa-ra-meun-yo] β "And the person?"
B. μν (ends in a vowel) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
μνλμ? [yeong-hwa-neun-yo] β "And the movie?"
C. μ§μ
(ends in γ
, consonant) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
μ§μ
μμ? [ji-geo-beun-yo] β "And your job?"
D. μ·¨λ―Έ (ends in a vowel) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
μ·¨λ―Έλμ? [chwi-mi-neun-yo] β "And your hobby?"
E. μκ° (ends in γ΄, consonant) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
μκ°μμ? [si-ga-neun-yo] β "And the time?"
F. νκ΅ (ends in a vowel) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
νκ΅λμ? [hak-kkyo-neun-yo] β "And your school?"
G. μμ (ends in γ±, consonant) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
μμμμ? [eum-si-geun-yo] β "And the food?"
H. κ°μ‘± (ends in γ±, consonant) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
κ°μ‘±μμ? [ga-jo-geun-yo] β "And your family?"
I. λ
Έλ (ends in a vowel) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
λ
Έλλμ? [no-rae-neun-yo] β "And the song?"
J. λ μ¨ (ends in a vowel) οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
λ μ¨λμ? [nal-ssi-neun-yo] β "And the weather?"
Quick Reference:
- Consonant-ending noun β μμ?
- Vowel-ending noun β λμ?
- Listen for the LAST sound, not the spelling!
Exercise 2 β Fill in the Blank: What's Being Asked? π―οΈ
A. A: μ λ λ§€μ΄ κ±° μ λ¨Ήμ΄μ. ___μ¨λμ? What is A asking B? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
"What about you? Do you eat spicy food well too?" β bouncing the topic back.
B. A: μ΄μ λ°λΉ΄μ΄μ. μ€λμμ? What is being asked? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
"What about today? Is today busy too?"
C. A: μ΄κ±° μ κ±°μμ. 그건μ? What is being asked? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
"And that one (over there)? Whose is that?" β 그건 = κ·Έκ²μ, contracted.
D. Translate: "And your plans?" οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
κ³νμμ? [gye-hwa-geun-yo]
E. Translate: "And tomorrow?" οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
λ΄μΌμμ? [nae-i-reun-yo]
F. A: μ λ μν 보λ κ±° μ’μν΄μ. ___? B: μ λ μμ
λ£λ κ±° μ’μν΄μ. Fill in A's question. οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
___μ¨λμ? [ssi-neun-yo] β "What about you?"
G. True or False: 그건μ? and κ·Έκ²μμ? mean the same thing.
Answer
True β 그건 is just the contracted form of κ·Έκ²μ.
H. A: μ£Όλ§ μ 보λμ΄μ? B: λ€! οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ? (casual, to a close friend)
Answer
λλ? [neo-neun] β "And you?"
I. Translate: "And your family?" οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
κ°μ‘±μμ? [ga-jo-geun-yo]
J. Practice saying this out loud: μ λ 컀νΌλ³΄λ€ μ°¨λ₯Ό λ μ’μν΄μ. ___μ¨λμ? [jeo-neun ko-pi-bo-da cha-reul deo jo-a-hae-yo. ___ ssi-neun-yo?]
Answer
"I like tea more than coffee. What about you?"
Quick Rule β Bouncing It Back:
- 그건 [geu-geon] = κ·Έκ²μ (contracted)
- μμ?/λμ? attach to NOUNS to mean "and ___?"
- λλ? = casual / ___μ¨λμ? = polite
Exercise 3 β Mix It All Together π£οΈ
A. Your coworker asks μ μ¬ λ λ¨Ήμμ΄μ? You answer, then ask them back politely. οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
...λ¨Ήμμ΄μ. ___ μ¨λμ? [...meo-geo-sseo-yo. ___ ssi-neun-yo?]
B. Fill in: μ¬λ ends in a consonant β μ¬λοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
μ¬λμμ? [sa-ra-meun-yo]
C. A close friend asks how your weekend was. You answer, then ask back casually. οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
...νμ΄. λλ? [...hae-sseo. neo-neun?]
D. Translate: "What about me?" οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
μ λμ? [jeo-neun-yo]
E. True or False: λμ? attaches to nouns ending in a CONSONANT sound.
Answer
False β λμ attaches to VOWEL-ending nouns; μμ attaches to consonant-ending nouns.
F. A: μ λ κ³ ν₯μ΄ λΆμ°μ΄μμ. ___μ¨λμ? What is A asking? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
"What about you? Where's your hometown?"
G. Translate: "And your (phone) number?" οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
λ²νΈλμ? [beon-ho-neun-yo] β νΈ ends in a vowel, so λμ.
H. A: μ λ λ§€μ΄ μμ μ’μν΄μ. B: μ λμ! What does μ λμ mean? οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ
Answer
"Me too!" β a natural response, often paired with ___μ¨λμ? questions.
I. Fill in: λ μ¨ ends in a vowel β λ μ¨οΌΏοΌΏοΌΏ?
Answer
λ μ¨λμ? [nal-ssi-neun-yo]
J. Practice saying this out loud: μ λ μ΄λ² μ£Όλ§μ μ§μ μμ κ±°μμ. ___ μ¨λμ? [jeo-neun i-beon ju-ma-re ji-be i-sseul geo-ye-yo. ___ ssi-neun-yo?]
Answer
"I'm going to stay home this weekend. What about you?"
Everyday Cheat Sheet:
- "What about you?" (polite) β ___μ¨λμ?
- "What about you?" (casual) β λλ?
- "What about me?" β μ λμ?
- Consonant ending + μμ? / Vowel ending + λμ?
- 그건μ? = "and that?" (κ·Έκ²μ contracted)
π μνμ΄μ! [jal-haess-eo-yo] You can now bounce any question back naturally with μμ?/λμ?! πβ¨