Apologizing for a Small Social Mistake (Like being late)

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Apologizing for a Small Social Mistake

How to say sorry naturally — and move past it — without overdoing it.

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Iru Helper Note

In Korean social situations, how you apologize matters as much as whether you apologize. A brief, sincere apology followed by moving on is more valued than extended self-blame.

아, 죄송해요! 제가 실수했네요. 다음엔 조심할게요.

(Oh, I'm sorry! I made a mistake. I'll be more careful next time.)

🙏 What You'll Learn Today

In this lesson, you'll learn how to apologize for small social mistakes in Korean — bumping into someone, arriving slightly late, forgetting something small, or saying the wrong thing. You'll learn how to say sorry sincerely without overdoing it, and how to respond gracefully when someone apologizes to you.

📌 Apologizing for Small Mistakes — Key Expressions

Expression	Meaning	Notes
죄송해요	I'm sorry (formal/polite)	Sincere; more formal than 미안해요
미안해요	I'm sorry (casual/warm)	Between friends or people you're close to
정말 죄송해요	I'm really sorry	Add 정말 for emphasis
제가 실수했어요	I made a mistake	Taking clear responsibility
깜박했어요	I forgot (it slipped my mind)	For forgetting something small
제가 잘못했어요	I was wrong / It was my fault	Stronger admission of fault
괜찮아요	It's okay / No problem	Response to apology
별말씀을요	Don't mention it / Not at all	Gracious response; slightly more formal
신경 쓰지 마세요	Don't worry about it	Dismissing the concern
다음엔 조심할게요	I'll be more careful next time	Forward-looking close to apology
다음엔 기억할게요	I'll remember next time	For forgetting something
일부러 그런 건 아니에요	I didn't do it on purpose	Clarifying intent
어떡하죠?	What should I do? / Oh no!	Expression of concern after a mistake
이런!	Oh no! / Oops!	Mild exclamation for a slip

💡 Key pattern: [apology] + [acknowledgement of mistake] + [forward commitment] — e.g., 죄송해요. 제가 실수했어요. 다음엔 조심할게요.

💬 Conversations in Action

Dialogue 1 — Accidentally bumping into someone

A: 아, 이런! 부딪혀서 죄송해요. (Oh no! I'm sorry for bumping into you.)

B: 아 괜찮아요, 저도 안 보고 있었어요. (Oh it's okay, I wasn't looking either.)

A: 그래도 정말 죄송해요. 조심할게요. (Still, I'm really sorry. I'll be careful.)

Dialogue 2 — Forgetting to bring something

A: 어, 저 오늘 책 깜박했어요. 미안해요. (Oh, I forgot the book today. I'm sorry.)

B: 괜찮아요. 다음에 주면 돼요. (It's okay. You can give it next time.)

A: 진짜요? 다음엔 꼭 기억할게요! (Really? I'll definitely remember next time!)

🌏 Cultural Note — The Right Amount of Sorry

In Korean social culture, a light but sincere apology is appropriate for small mistakes — and then you move on. Overdoing apologies (repeatedly saying sorry, dramatic self-blame) can actually make the other person feel more uncomfortable, as they feel obligated to reassure you more and more. Once you've said 죄송해요 and offered a 다음엔 조심할게요, the social obligation is fulfilled. The other person's 괜찮아요 is your signal to let it go gracefully.

<summary>Try This Speaking Exercise

Practice apologizing naturally for common small social slip-ups.

A. Apologize formally for a small mistake.

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죄송해요. 제가 실수했어요.

(I'm sorry. I made a mistake.)

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B. Apologize casually to a friend.

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미안해요! 제가 깜박했어요.

(I'm sorry! I forgot.)

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C. Say you'll be more careful next time.

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다음엔 조심할게요.

(I'll be more careful next time.)

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D. Say it wasn't on purpose.

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일부러 그런 건 아니에요. 죄송해요.

(I didn't do it on purpose. I'm sorry.)

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E. Respond graciously when someone apologizes to you.

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괜찮아요, 신경 쓰지 마세요.

(It's okay, don't worry about it.)

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F. Express mild alarm right after making a mistake.

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이런! 죄송해요.

(Oh no! I'm sorry.)

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G. Say you made a mistake and take responsibility.

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제가 잘못했어요. 미안해요.

(It was my fault. I'm sorry.)

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H. Tell someone not to mention it after they thank you.

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별말씀을요.

(Don't mention it.)

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I. Say you'll remember next time after forgetting something.

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다음엔 꼭 기억할게요!

(I'll definitely remember next time!)

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J. Express concern after a small mistake — "oh no, what should I do?"

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어떡하죠? 정말 죄송해요.

(Oh no, what should I do? I'm really sorry.)

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Expression Reference

Expression	Nuance/Key
죄송해요	Formal/polite sorry
미안해요	Casual/warm sorry
제가 실수했어요	I made a mistake
깜박했어요	Forgot (slipped mind)
다음엔 조심할게요	More careful next time
괜찮아요	It's okay
신경 쓰지 마세요	Don't worry about it
일부러	On purpose
이런!	Oh no! / Oops!

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Speaking Tip

The three-part apology pattern — [sorry] + [acknowledge] + [forward commitment] — keeps it natural and complete. 죄송해요. 제가 깜박했어요. 다음엔 꼭 기억할게요. Say it, mean it, move on. This is exactly how Koreans handle small social slips.

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Want more reps?

Think of three small mistakes you might make in a Korean social setting — forgetting something, being a few minutes late, saying the wrong thing. Practice a three-part apology for each one.

📦 Practice Hub — Apologizing for Small Social Mistakes

Exercise 1 — Choose the Right Expression

A. You accidentally bump into someone. What's the most natural first thing to say?

a) 감사합니다

b) 죄송해요

c) 안녕하세요

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b) 죄송해요 — The natural, immediate apology response.

B. You forgot to bring something a friend asked for. How do you say "I forgot"?

a) 깜박했어요

b) 몰랐어요

c) 안 가져왔어요 (bringing, not forgetting)

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a) 깜박했어요 — "It slipped my mind / I forgot" — natural for small forgettings.

C. Someone apologizes to you for a small thing. The most gracious response is:

a) 왜요?

b) 괜찮아요

c) 조심하세요

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b) 괜찮아요 — "It's okay / No problem" — the standard gracious response.

D. You want to say it was your fault clearly.

a) 제가 잘못했어요

b) 당신 잘못이에요

c) 모르겠어요

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a) 제가 잘못했어요 — "It was my fault / I was wrong."

E. You want to say you'll be more careful next time.

a) 다음엔 안 와요

b) 다음엔 조심할게요

c) 다음엔 기억 못 해요

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b) 다음엔 조심할게요 — Forward commitment; closes the apology naturally.

F. You want to express "oh no!" right after realizing a mistake.

a) 좋아요!

b) 이런!

c) 맞아요

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b) 이런! — Mild exclamation for a slip-up.

G. You want to tell someone not to worry about it.

a) 신경 쓰지 마세요

b) 다시 해 주세요

c) 왜 그랬어요?

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a) 신경 쓰지 마세요 — "Don't worry about it."

H. You want to clarify that you didn't do something on purpose.

a) 일부러 그랬어요

b) 일부러 그런 건 아니에요

c) 안 했어요

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b) 일부러 그런 건 아니에요 — "I didn't do it on purpose."

I. Someone thanks you warmly. You respond with "don't mention it."

a) 별말씀을요

b) 감사해요

c) 미안해요

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a) 별말씀을요 — "Don't mention it" — gracious response to thanks.

J. You want to say you'll definitely remember next time.

a) 다음엔 잊을게요

b) 다음엔 꼭 기억할게요

c) 다음엔 안 올게요

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b) 다음엔 꼭 기억할게요 — "I'll definitely remember next time."

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Quick Reference

Expression	Meaning
죄송해요	Formal sorry
미안해요	Casual sorry
깜박했어요	I forgot
제가 잘못했어요	It was my fault
다음엔 조심할게요	More careful next time
괜찮아요	It's okay
신경 쓰지 마세요	Don't worry
일부러	On purpose
이런!	Oh no! / Oops!
별말씀을요	Don't mention it

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Nuance Warning

죄송해요 and 미안해요 both mean "sorry" but differ in register. 죄송해요 is more formal and slightly more serious — use it with older people, strangers, or in more formal contexts. 미안해요 is warmer and more casual — fine between friends or equals. Don't use 미안해요 to someone significantly older than you.

Exercise 2 — Korean → English Translation

A. 아, 이런! 부딪혀서 죄송해요.

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Oh no! I'm sorry for bumping into you.

B. 제가 실수했어요. 정말 미안해요.

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I made a mistake. I'm really sorry.

C. 오늘 깜박했어요. 다음엔 꼭 기억할게요.

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I forgot today. I'll definitely remember next time.

D. 일부러 그런 건 아니에요. 죄송해요.

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I didn't do it on purpose. I'm sorry.

E. 괜찮아요, 신경 쓰지 마세요.

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It's okay, don't worry about it.

F. 어떡하죠? 제가 잘못했네요.

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Oh no, what should I do? It seems I was wrong.

G. 정말요? 다행이에요. 다음엔 조심할게요.

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Really? What a relief. I'll be more careful next time.

H. 별말씀을요. 저도 괜찮았어요.

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Don't mention it. I was fine too.

I. 제가 잘못 말한 것 같아요. 죄송해요.

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I think I said the wrong thing. I'm sorry.

J. 아, 미안해요! 제가 너무 큰 소리로 말했죠?

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Oh, I'm sorry! I spoke too loudly, didn't I?

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Vocabulary Cheat Sheet

Korean	English
부딪히다	Bump into
다행이다	What a relief
잘못 말하다	Say the wrong thing
큰 소리로	Loudly
~것 같아요	I think ~ / seems like
진짜요?	Really?

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Translation Tip

어떡하죠? literally means "what should I do?" but functions more like "oh no!" in context. It expresses concern or alarm after realizing a mistake. Don't translate it too literally — "what should I do?" sounds too dramatic for small mistakes in English.

Exercise 3 — Complete the Sentence

A. 죄송해요. 제가 했어요. (made a mistake)

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실수 — 제가 실수했어요.

B. 오늘 책 했어요. 미안해요. (forgot)

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깜박 — 깜박했어요. 미안해요.

C. 다음엔 꼭 할게요. (be careful)

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조심 — 다음엔 꼭 조심할게요.

D. ! 죄송해요. (Oh no!)

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이런 — 이런! 죄송해요.

E. 괜찮아요, 쓰지 마세요. (don't worry)

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신경 — 신경 쓰지 마세요.

F. 그런 건 아니에요. (not on purpose)

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일부러 — 일부러 그런 건 아니에요.

G. 제가 했어요. (it was my fault)

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잘못 — 제가 잘못했어요.

H. 말씀을요. (don't mention it)

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별 — 별말씀을요.

I. 다음엔 꼭 할게요. (remember)

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기억 — 다음엔 꼭 기억할게요.

J. 정말 해요. (I'm really sorry — formal)

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죄송 — 정말 죄송해요.

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Continues With
죄송해요. 제가	실수했어요 / 잘못했어요
깜박했어요. 다음엔	꼭 기억할게요
이런!	죄송해요
괜찮아요,	신경 쓰지 마세요
일부러 그런 건	아니에요

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Production Tip

Always follow an apology with a forward commitment. 죄송해요 alone closes the moment. 죄송해요 + 다음엔 조심할게요 shows you understand what happened and have taken it to heart. That's what makes an apology feel complete in Korean social culture.

Exercise 4 — Dialogue Completion

A. A: 아, 이런! B: (respond graciously)

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괜찮아요. 저도 안 보고 있었어요.

(It's okay. I wasn't looking either.)

B. A: 오늘 자료 깜박했어요. 미안해요. B: (reassure them)

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괜찮아요. 다음에 주면 돼요. 신경 쓰지 마세요.

(It's okay. You can give it next time. Don't worry about it.)

C. A: 정말 죄송해요. 일부러 그런 건 아니에요. B: (accept the apology)

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알아요, 괜찮아요. 다음엔 조심하면 돼요.

(I know, it's okay. Just be careful next time.)

D. A: 제가 잘못 말한 것 같아요. 죄송해요. B: (say it's fine and move on)

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아, 괜찮아요. 오해 없어요.

(Oh, it's fine. No misunderstanding.)

E. A: 어떡하죠? 제가 실수했어요. B: (reassure warmly)

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별거 아니에요. 누구나 실수할 수 있어요. 괜찮아요.

(It's nothing big. Anyone can make mistakes. It's okay.)

F. A: 늦어서 죄송해요. B: (say it's okay and ask if they had trouble)

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괜찮아요. 오는 데 힘들었어요?

(It's okay. Was it difficult getting here?)

G. A: 제가 잘못했어요. 정말 미안해요. B: (accept and say don't mention it)

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됐어요. 별말씀을요. 이제 신경 쓰지 마세요.

(It's done. Don't mention it. Don't worry about it anymore.)

H. A: 다음엔 꼭 기억할게요! B: (say you believe them)

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네, 믿어요. 괜찮아요.

(Yes, I believe you. It's okay.)

I. A: 큰 소리로 말해서 죄송해요. B: (say it's fine)

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아, 괜찮아요. 저도 시끄러웠어요.

(Oh, it's fine. It was loud here too.)

J. A: 정말로 일부러 그런 건 아니에요. B: (say you know and close warmly)

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알아요, 알아요. 괜찮으니까 이제 그만 미안해하세요.

(I know, I know. It's fine so stop apologizing.)

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Useful Phrases

Phrase	Meaning
별거 아니에요	It's nothing / no big deal
누구나 실수할 수 있어요	Anyone can make mistakes
오는 데 힘들었어요?	Was it hard getting here?
됐어요	It's done / Let it go
그만 미안해하세요	Stop apologizing
믿어요	I believe you

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Conversation Tip

When receiving an apology in Korean, adding 신경 쓰지 마세요 after 괜찮아요 signals to the other person that they can truly let it go. Without it, they may continue to apologize. This two-part response — 괜찮아요, 신경 쓰지 마세요 — is the social key to closing the loop.

Exercise 5 — Free Speaking Practice

A. Apologize for accidentally bumping into someone on the street.

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아, 이런! 죄송해요. 제가 안 보고 있었어요. 괜찮으세요?

(Oh no! I'm sorry. I wasn't looking. Are you okay?)

B. Apologize to a friend for forgetting to bring something they asked for.

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미안해요! 오늘 깜박했어요. 다음엔 꼭 가져올게요.

(I'm sorry! I forgot today. I'll definitely bring it next time.)

C. Apologize for saying something awkward or incorrect.

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아, 제가 잘못 말했네요. 죄송해요. 그런 뜻이 아니었어요.

(Oh, it seems I said the wrong thing. I'm sorry. I didn't mean it that way.)

D. Respond graciously when a friend apologizes for a small thing.

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괜찮아요, 신경 쓰지 마세요. 별거 아니에요.

(It's okay, don't worry about it. It's nothing big.)

E. Apologize for speaking too loudly in a quiet setting.

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아, 죄송해요. 너무 크게 말했죠? 조심할게요.

(Oh, I'm sorry. I spoke too loudly, didn't I? I'll be careful.)

F. Clarify that you didn't do something on purpose and apologize.

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일부러 그런 건 아니에요. 정말 죄송해요. 제가 실수한 거예요.

(I didn't do it on purpose. I'm really sorry. I made a mistake.)

G. Accept an apology and tell someone to stop apologizing.

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됐어요. 이제 그만 미안해하세요. 정말 괜찮아요.

(It's done. Stop apologizing. I'm really okay.)

H. Apologize for a small social oversight with the full three-part pattern.

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죄송해요. 제가 실수했어요. 다음엔 더 신경 쓸게요.

(I'm sorry. I made a mistake. I'll pay more attention next time.)

I. React with concern right after making a small mistake.

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이런, 어떡하죠? 정말 죄송해요. 일부러 그런 건 아니에요.

(Oh no, what should I do? I'm really sorry. I didn't do it on purpose.)

J. Close an apology exchange gracefully — you've apologized, they said it's okay.

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정말요? 감사해요. 다음엔 조심할게요. 이해해 주셔서 감사해요.

(Really? Thank you. I'll be careful next time. Thank you for understanding.)

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Use
이런! 죄송해요	Immediate mistake reaction
깜박했어요. 미안해요	Forgetting something
일부러 그런 건 아니에요	Clarifying intent
괜찮아요, 신경 쓰지 마세요	Accepting apology
다음엔 조심할게요	Forward commitment
됐어요, 그만 미안해하세요	Closing the loop

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Speaking Challenge

Think of three situations where you might need to apologize in Korean — bumping into someone, being 5 minutes late, forgetting to reply to a message. Practice the full three-part apology for each. Keep them brief and move on — that's the Korean way.

작은 실수, 이제 한국어로 자연스럽게 사과할 수 있어요! ✨